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Is it just me, or do others also not enjoy eating a meal before playing? Full belly and having a good play session do not mix. Opinions?

I have this fantasy about my wife having sex with another man, but I'm still not ready and my wife is not ready either. It is hot to think about it, but I still have doubts. So I want to start slow. Is it ok on this forum for example to post my wifes naked photos? No face, just boobs? Is this would be interesting for users of this forum? By the way my wife knows about this. I am sorry if I'm asking this on a wrong forum or I'm broken some kind of rule.

Much like a security clearance, you should decide what information to impart to your friend on a "need to know" basis. You have to remember that this hobby is not acceptable behavior to the general public. Your friend talks and your activities would be way too juicy a tidbit NOT to talk about to others. Unless she comes to you and says, "I think you guys are swingers and I'd like to play with you" she otherwise does not have a need to know.

I saw this once, not sure where it is. I did chicken out. I am not sure if I want her to know. I love her as a friend but she can talk. On the other side I hate to lie or hide things. It takes too much bought to keep a lie. It’s one of the reasons I originally confessed of what I did. I’m not sure how she would react too. I don’t need her to preach to me. Then again maybe she wants to join in. I also think it would be strange for me if she did join us or it could be fun. Meanwhile I’ll just cluck.

I read some of this, look at the messages in my mailbox and wonder sometimes WTF am I doing here. I have met some fun people, couples and single guys that know how to have fun but sometimes it loses its luster. Met too many creeps too. But for me it's more of a hobby, not a lifestyle.

I've only participated in MFM's. Part of the process of the three people getting to know each other is to find out what each other wants to explore and what are expectations. So when I've participated in MFM's it's fleshed out (no pun) beforehand that the three of us want to try DP or DVP, so of course every one of my MFM experiences resulted in either. In fact I've only tried DP once and it was a disaster. The husband was smaller than average and unfortunately he couldn't get much of himself into his wife's anus while he was on the bottom. We just gave up. All the other MFM's (not that many), the woman (with the man's hearty approval) wanted to try DVP. I'm straight but don't care if a husband's junk is touching mine because it's all about the woman. DVP seems to be for the women I've done it with an intense orgasm for her. It's not bad for the guys either once you all relax and get the logistics right.

This is a very common fantasy. I have had that for years and find it to be very erotic. That being said if it ever happens it should only after the both of you have had a chance to really discuss it as emotions and feelings can be thrown off course. However I must say once we had a threesome with an old friend and a bunch of wine :-) my heart raced and I can admit I have never ever had something so erotic happen to me before. The passion no porno film could ever beat. From the time his cock slowly entered her to the point in which she came and then he about to pull out and she guided him back as he came inside her. My gosh was awesome...

Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts. When I think about how she was when I met her, everything from now gives me goosebumps. It wasn't only about the religion though; the society as well as religion taught her that a girl couldn't even talk about her sexuality, let alone express it. She wore clothes covering up to ankle and wrist, barely showing anything beyond her face. Being raised & restricted like that, she was so perplexed when I first expressed my fantasies to her. Even with loving each other so much, we two were far apart with out thoughts and indulgences. I remember that we even passed a small stage where we both were even hesitant bringing up or discussing about our sexual wishes and needs. I understand that it must've been so difficult for her to even allow herself to think about some of these stuff. She grew up in a place where the girls are never even supposed to shake hands with guys. I think it would've been equally probable had closed herself her more since moving here had we not started sharing and talking about all the things she considered taboo. Fast forward a few years, with the changes in surroundings, I noticed her trying to embrace a bolder style. I didn't say anything to her, just made her feel comfortable with the things she bought, the choices she made. Now when she wears a sexy outfit, I can see the glow in her eyes, the satisfaction of not hiding, rather looking sexy & be proud of it. Others noticing her luscious legs or curvy breast don't make her self-conscious anymore, rather confident & joyous. But, even now, sometimes she says that her religious teachings may not agree with her choices. She still does her prayers & all, yet don't let them much interfere with her enjoyment. A few days ago, she was telling me like, "I always knew & believed that sex should be only between husband & wife. I still think somewhat in that way and a huge deal for me, but sometimes I feel like we should enjoy, coz it's just sex." I wouldn't believed at all a few years ago that my wife would ever be able to think about sex like that. Everything about this transformation is just so incredible​. When I went to visit her right after the day she had that party. At that night, as a prelude/foreplay, she enacted the things that happened at the party and showed me with my hand where the guy touched her, how she felt. The sex afterwards was so fun and intense that I can't begin to describe. I just tongue-fucked her for we don't know how long. And these are not like the usual fantasies we used to share only during sex & would become uncomfortable to bring it up the following morning. Day or night, we talked about everything and I bet she's also immensely enjoying that I am getting the hardest of the hard-ons coz of her. How far has she grown is absolutely amazing and we both are so much enjoying that. It's like we both are falling in love with each other again and again.

Orgasm marathons! Once of our kinks is orgasm control and forced orgasms. Babe is extremely fit (think bikini or fitness model) and her orgasms could be described as "hulking out." When she cums she cries out, thrashes, tears at the sheets, and every muscle in her body flexes and becomes distinct. A hitachi magic wand and a combination of progressively large butt-plugs and dongs causes her to have repeated and increasingly intense orgasms. Our record is 14 in 51 minutes. She is happy for days afterwards says it has the added bonus of being better core and posterior workout than her actual workout! When in public we've done less ambitious sessions: 5-6 orgasms in 20 minutes. People tend to stare rapt. And I've been chatted up by a few ladies afterward.... We'd like, at some point, to invite people to put their mouths and hands on her, and to kiss her, when we do it. We've also discussed having a gentleman or two stand in for the dongs in the interorgasm "recovery periords." Sometimes I do that, anyways.