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I think you're wise not to do friends . . . it can get messy when it's over. The vacation thing is good, depending on the locale she can start chatting with a guy and see where it will go. But be prepared to have him say no when he finds out it's an MFM she wants. Very touchy negotiations. Get yourself a paid subscription on SLS or Kasadie and advertise where you're going. But the problem now is with FOSTA, you'll only get responses from other paid members. A swing club is always a possibility if there's one in the neighborhood you're going to.

Hello all, It's been awhile since I've posted here. We have been slowly going further and further into the lifestyle and finally made the plunge into the full swap this past weekend. Overall it was a huge success and my wife and I both enjoyed it even though it didn't go off perfectly. My wife was amazing and really did have a good time even though the other man failed to keep a good erection. She's feeling like it had a little bit to do with her but I keep reassuring her that it was not the case. I truly believe he was just having stage fright for a couple different reasons but none of which had to do with my wife. Is this a time where you just try to forget, push past and move on to a new experience? Would you see this couple again and give it another shot? We both agreed we'd like to see them again but I'm concerned that if he wasn't able to perform it would damage her confidence. My wife and I had a blast and it was a great first experience for me and probably just an okay experience for her. Luckily there was no jealousy issues or hurt feelings for the most part. Something that I'm working out on my end is the chemistry aspect of the couple we played with. We have had several soft swaps and have been to clubs but I have never had a really awesome exciting partner that I connected with. Don't get me wrong, we have had fun and I really enjoyed the other's company but I'm guessing the chemistry aspect was missing. I did not realize this until I played with the woman this weekend and realized how much chemistry we had together. I know when we initially started talking I was extremely attracted to her which isn't all that uncommon for me LOL. But as soon as we met up it moved quickly and we both were extremely into each other probably more so than my wife and him. The experience was out-of-this-world for me and I'm guessing this is because of the chemistry that everybody always talks about, is that what you would guess? Trying to accurately pinpoint emotions and feelings through our process of swinging has been interesting and I think this is another first for me in the feelings department. I guess this is what can make swinging so amazing. I just wish my wife had the same level of experience as I did and I feel somewhat guilty about this.

My Wife has taught me some 'secrets'' to satisfying a good cock. But I found sucking a cock to be a natural thing, as we both love to share a big and thickly tan cock. Most open minded couples these days push the Bisexual limits more and more. Dave and Laura

I saw this once, not sure where it is. I did chicken out. I am not sure if I want her to know. I love her as a friend but she can talk. On the other side I hate to lie or hide things. It takes too much bought to keep a lie. It’s one of the reasons I originally confessed of what I did. I’m not sure how she would react too. I don’t need her to preach to me. Then again maybe she wants to join in. I also think it would be strange for me if she did join us or it could be fun. Meanwhile I’ll just cluck.

Well, there's finding out and then there's slapping someone in the face with it. Since your girlfriends think they are living life in the fast lane with a one night stand, you are traveling near the speed of light (in comparison). All we can say is that we wish the world had more women like you...

All of the above is sage advise; and also, greasy, fatty foods lessen the impact of viagra, so. We tend to eat light before a session. And we won't have dinner with a couple or single we're just meeting - it gets too long if that first reaction is 'oh, my god . . .', we'll just have drinks.

I've had that situation two or three times, where I've gotten sloppy fourths. (By my definition, it all had to be in the same day.) Last time it happened I still remember, it was a quicky in the morning with the couple she's a third to, at lunch in the office of the guy who thinks I don't have sex with my wife and he's the only one, after work with the guy she gave sympathy sex to when his wife was pregnant and they continued it with his wife's knowledge, finally me at night. My wife still had enthusiasm (and so did I).

My experience leads me to a belief similar to KinkiKrome's. One particular woman who lives in the D.C. area had told me, in fact, then when she has sex with a guy while out on a date, the guy is very likely to start feeling "entitled" to certain exclusive privileges. Swinger men she is better able to hold at an arm's length.

Walking my wife into a room lit only by firelight, with ten or so men and women - all strangers - with her wearing a blindfold and dressed in an elegant cocktail dress, stockings and stilleto heels. Then, with her standing in the centre of the room, I unzip her dress and allow it to slide from her body, revealing her glorious nakedness. And then I step away from her, effectively giving her to these people, so that they might pleasure themselves with her, and at the same time, pleasure her to her capacity. Typing that out has definitely warmed me up at my desk.