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Yes. My first time I was the one doing the pounding and made the other guy cum because he enjoyed our tips rubbing. When I felt his cock shaft pulsate and then warm cum on my shaft, my load immediately came so I pulled out, aimed and blew my entire load on his ball sack. TBH If the pussy is tight it will feel like your just rubbing dicks with lube. Its kinds like a double barrel hand job but instead of shooting your jizz in the air it gets all over both cocks (if one or both cum inside pussy together). IMO feels great but can be really messy if either of you cum a lot.

I kept our SLS IM log intact for future reference. However, last week, I noticed the log was deleted. Does this have something to do with the Congressional law that affected Craigslist? We are lifetime members. If SLS is going to change the terms of service, they should tell us. This is why we are not on Facebook—they do things without consent.

When I was a teenager, I had the hots for a number of my friends mothers. Of course, at that age I also had the hots for a fence post. What a guy feels as a teenager is just the hots.

All women are beautiful, it just takes a man a little more time to realize it about some women. My wife and I swung, if the woman had physical attraction I was immediately drawn to her. But often I came to enjoy the 'average' woman just as much or more. Personality is the key.

Thank you for your replies. I have beat myself up about this since the divorce. I blamed myself a lot for starting the ball rolling. I did try to talk to her after the no show, but she would not open up. I did think our relationship was strong, having survived my multiple deployments, some as long as eleven months. I still have the thoughts on having a mfm threesome. I am just afraid to go through it all over again. I will work on my current relationship and hopefully one day it will be strong enough to actually take our first step. But first I will put the advice I have received here to work...rock solid communication and trust. And if her answer is no, at least we will have a solid relationship.

Oh the aftermath was something nearly indescribable honestly. I agree, I felt like a 'real woman' after it was all over. I'm fairly tight so it didn't just drip out of me for the most part, almost like a tupperware container haha. Sorry that's a bad comparison. I personally was glistening with sweat, flushed and full of energy though i was exhausted. I felt so full! I swear my stomach was bulging a bit with all the semen inside. Of course I did have to clean up a little after before we left the hotel, I needed to get home to my family after all. I'd brought a regular pair of underwear to change into, just some plain stretchy cotton thong panties. Very tight over my puffy mound. When I got home the first thing my husband wanted, besides a loving kiss and to hold me for a few minutes, was to sit on the bed and have me take my panties off for him. Only half way, he's very particular. So in our bedroom, kids off to school, i undressed to my panties and slowly started to peel them down for him. And by this time it had been almost an hour after I'd left the hotel so you can imagine that semen had leaked out getting the panties soaked, sticking to my smooth lips, pulling the panties down there were long strings of semen stretching and dripping and I've never in my life seen my husband get so hard so fast. He had me stand there panties around my thighs other mens semen dripping down into them and over my legs and he stroked himself to near orgasm in a minute. Of course I wouldn't just let him jerk it off all on his own so i bend at the waist so he could still kinda see my violated sex and sucked his head till he exploded in my mouth. Mm so tasty. After that i cleaned up some more, though to be honest I think that it took a near week to not be pushing out semen. Then i let my husband make love to me that whole afternoon, slow, tender, and better than even the gangbang hehe. Love is even better than straight animal sex. Though the latter is fun.

Friends throw a periodic intimate party at their house, generally 6-8 couples and one single male. They assured us upon our initial invite that the guy was very respectful and fun to have around. We had our doubts but since we knew the host couple and one other couple in the group, we gave it a shot. Turns out that "Bob" was all that and more. He's a tall, thin guy in his 40's, very nice looking, with a bigger than average penis and is a guy who believes in the concept of ladies first. He didn't cull out one of the women and pound her silly in a separate room and then angle for the next, the guy paid attention to the group dynamic and initially was the 2nd dick in a 3-some with Mrs Doc and me. He moved off after a bit but came back when invited but was never pushy and clearly respected the husband/wife relationship with everyone there. We joked later that Bob had broken the code. He came twice, bonked 4 middle aged women, and was a part of somewhere around a dozen orgasms, some of Mrs Doc's included. We have since been to several additional parties and found that the guy was an absolute gentleman. He's a far cry from some of the trolls we've encountered at other house parties and some swingers clubs. We would invite him to our home and that's saying a lot.

In order to be successful in swinging, you have to first have a rock solid relationship where you have great love, awesome communication, and an incredible amount of trust. Couples that come into swinging thinking it will save their relationship...are going to be disappointed. Some couples try swinging because they are looking for their current significant others' replacement (sounds like what happened to you). Unless you already have a great relationship, swinging will only make the flaws and shortcomings much more apparent. If one of the parties are already looking for an out, they will find one no matter what happens. I'm sorry for what happened to you but learn from this. Make sure that you are always working on improving your relationship with great communication and trust and who knows, maybe the second try will be the one where you join the ranks of swingers (if the two of you mutually decide this is where your relationship should go). Good luck and best wishes.

My best friend and I have had threesomes with my wife for many years. We have never used condoms with him. Both times the three of us had DVP was memorable for many reasons. What was really surprising was that it happened spontaneously with no pre-planning and he and I had no problems getting into position. Both of us stayed very hard and we both came at the same time. For me, feeling him cum and feeling the additional lubrication immediately pushed my over the edge. It was a very intense experience for all of us. I highly recommend it.

My fav one is pounding my gf sloppy seconds pussy immediately after someone shoots a full load deep in her. watching cocks cum in and on my gf pussy then eating it and sucking the cum off the cock. I especially enjoy when my gf squats on my face right after getting full load in her. licking her pussy as a cock is cumming in it. Friendly fire cumshot exchange is fun during MMF blowjobs.

I think you're wise not to do friends . . . it can get messy when it's over. The vacation thing is good, depending on the locale she can start chatting with a guy and see where it will go. But be prepared to have him say no when he finds out it's an MFM she wants. Very touchy negotiations. Get yourself a paid subscription on SLS or Kasadie and advertise where you're going. But the problem now is with FOSTA, you'll only get responses from other paid members. A swing club is always a possibility if there's one in the neighborhood you're going to.

I just got a post from SLS Admin. It looks like the free members are locked out permanently. I experimented and they cannot even see galleries if you open them up. So paid members have no way of making contact with unpaid members, as they can not read our posts to them, and even if we could they could not answer back. I predict very few people joining up as newbies. Goodbye SLS We are lifetime members

I've been in a similar situation when I got one of my fantasies fulfilled by my husband. He set up a gangbang with 10 men for me, there were some very specific things i wanted to happen so it took a little while to organize. For several hours each man went balls deep into me ejaculating their sperm over and over. I think each man came at least three times over the course of the night. I specifically wanted the majority inside me, and other than a few loads on my breasts and a couple in my anus, i had at least twenty loads inside me, maybe more. I was dripping for what felt like a week. For me however my tubes have been tied so there's no fear of pregnancy and of course each guy had been screen before the event. (I'll tell more about the event at a later date if anyone is interested)

Sadly, We're lifetime members of SLS -- and I believe they were 'free'.

I have to laugh when I read a post like this. Do guys just like to ask questions? Does anyone have a clue how birth control works? As long as you take your BC as directed you can pour a bucket of semen in a woman, an egg isn’t going to be fertilized. The odds are the same whether you have sex once or many more times. It’s better than 99% effective

B likes being in the middle between a woman and a man. of course I like that also Deb.

I often wonder. With everyone traveling 30-40 miles to party, what makes everyone think that their neighbors aren't going the same thing. We met a couple at a lifestyle friendly resort about 200 miles from home. They live within an easy five minute walk from us.

Hi, I'm a small-built lady and also fantasize about this, feeling both of them cum. I guess most men will shy away from something like that. Never dared to suggest this to a boyfriend anyway.

An advantage of being in a closed group - we got that figured out.

Like the topic said is there something you haven't done but want to do it and try it. I never did a guy with a Prince Albert piercing. I only meet 1 guy years ago with one when I was 19. It was not long ago I had my clit pierced, the ring style. I meet the guy at the Hedo. I was afraid that it would get stuck in my clit piercing and rip it off. I read old blog and piercing web site that it has happen before. So I gave the guy only oral. It was fun and a weird sensation that hard to put in words. Since then I never meet another guy with one. Still afraid but still willing to give it a try and take it off from my swinger bucket list.

I was 17. My girlfriend was too and she had a female cousin of the same age. We went to her large Polish family home for easter weekend. The house was crowded so the girls were assigned a bedroom with a double bed which they were to share. Wonder of wonders (and the parents vodka) the boyfriends were told they could sleep on the floor in the room with the girls. The girls got changed in the bathroom and the other guy and I both rolled out sleeping bags. We had decided to wear our underwear and were in the bags when the girls came in wearing robes. My girl shut off the light but there was enough residual light from the window and the crack under the bedroom door that we could see that both girls were wearing long t-shirts and panties. The girls got under the covers and we four continued some of the conversation we had prior to going to bed. We also shared some of the vodka we managed to liberate from the adult party. After a bit, it got kind of quiet in the room and I know that my hand had traveled under the covers and up my girls thigh and under the t-shirt (That's how I knew there were panties involved). She and I whispered a bit and I got on my knees so I could involve both hands and lean in to kiss her. We started to make out and I eventually worked the covers off and the t-shirt up. As I looked across the bed, I could see that her cousin had lost her shirt completely. Her guy was standing next to the bed fondling her tit's which I was seeing for the first time. Her boyfriend was naked and she was stroking his cock. I whispered to Chris, my girlfriend, "look at Nancy and Rick". She gasped but then turned on her side to get a closer look at the 2nd dick she'd ever seen. I stood up and began to rub her ass and finally worked her t-shirt off. I tried to climb in the bed but she hissed "no, mom and dad are right below us". I then worked my hand under the waist band of her panties. She moaned before I got below her pubic hair, only the 2nd time ever, and when I looked up, Rick had his hand on her boob and his dick in Nancy's mouth. Chris eventually rolled on her back and I got her panties partway down her thighs. Her hand went to my crotch and she yanked at my underwear saying, "take these off"!!. I did and she started to stroke me as I gently found her clit. I couldn't take much more stimulation and leaned over the bed to put my dick to her lips. As I did, Rick moaned loudly and came in Linda's mouth. I guess she swallowed because she then rolled on her other side facing us as Rick leaned up against her and played with her ass. She said "Chrissy, let me watch you". I couldn't resist leaning over a bit more and touching her tits as I did, she pushed her ass back towards Rick who I think must have been fingering her. Chris gave me a little suck and about three strokes and that was it. I grunted and came, squirting on her hand the side of her face and almost to Nancy's boob. Nancy said, "Chrissy, you should have swallowed, now we'll have to sleep with all this goop between us". Chris made me clothes on and go down the hall to the bathroom for toilet paper to clean up my mess. When I got back, both girls were dressed and Rick was back in his sleeping bag. That never happened again, Chris never wanted to talk about it and about 6 months later we broke up and I went into the service. My next experience didn't happen for another decade.

No we haven't done it yet. We always talk about the possibility of how hot could be to have my wife 69 me while I suck on her clit while she is getting filled from behind. I think it's very hot.

Never had any as disturbing as what is being discussed here but recently, we met a couple with a bi-curious girl. Very nice couple but once in the BR, the other female was aggressive with Mrs. Shy and went from curious to hard core butch don quick. It freaked her out. Most of her curiosity has been settled and now resides in making out and breast play, still that depends on the mood and how things are progressing. She was very up front that if they were mostly interested in F/F may not be a good fit. Anyway as soon as clothes started coming off it started getting weird. We didn't stay long and they had their feelings hurt. Later we talked to party host and she didn't know them that well but warned the Mrs. that newbies or girls that identified as fully bi could get aggressive and she had similar experiences in the past and shyer away from girls who were "too bi." Live and learn but we took a six month break before venturing out again.

I like two guys giving me the attention at first, each at a breast, pulling and sucking my nipples, then alternating licking my clit and ass together while I watch them kiss deeply. Then a DP or both in my pussy for awhile, then me on my back, one in missionary or anal, the other behind him first rimming the middle, then fucking so all three of us are in sync. Use of oil or another lubricant (I prefer canned peach juice) is helpful on all three of us.

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I agree...I think it has more to do with it being more acceptable to be "out" and that it isn't as shameful as it once was to be gay or bisexual. In fact, I just watched an old tv show that I used to watch 15 years ago and it was a big thing back then to have a gay character and it was actually the first "gay kiss" to be broadcast. However, what really got me was a conversation that the gay character had with his gay boyfriend that got me. The younger gay man had been "out" to his family and friends since he was a teen and then openly to anyone and everyone. But his boyfriend was only "out" to his friends and family but didn't want to be "out" to the public since he was a public servant. Well, the couple was having an argument about this very topic. The public servant gay boyfriend said, "Not all of us were fags at 15. It's not so easy for some of us." The shocked younger boyfriend responded by saying, "You know what the difference is between you and me? You were a fag at 15. You just haven't stopped hating yourself for it." Even though it has become more acceptable to say one is gay and bisexual, we still have a long way to go. There's still a lot of gay/bisexual-shaming and it does result in these children and people hating themselves. There was something I heard awhile back about how a lot of teen suicides are because it was difficult for them to be gay/bisexual. They felt that they had to hide that part of themselves or that if they were "out" they were shunned. As for me and my personal experience regarding gay/lesbian/bisexuality, I was taught that being any of those were sinful. It was wrong. So, naturally, I didn't want to do something wrong or be "sinful" so I fell into the mindset that I was only to be attracted to males. And I am attracted to men. But I do check out other women. For a long time, I did so for "comparison" reasons which usually resulted in feeling bad about myself but that's another topic. But since we've been swinging, I've been able to break out of that mold and truly appreciate other women's beauty in a sexual way. I'm not sure I would call myself bisexual but I don't think I'm 100% heterosexual. I think it really makes a different in the type of community or social circles one is involved in that determines how comfortable one feels about "coming out" in regards to being gay/lesbian/bisexual.

I was thinking the exact same thing, JnCC. Most women in that position wouldn't dare file a complaint with the police for fear of having their name publicly trashed. Not only would they have to admit to being a swinger but the reprocussions of the media getting ahold of this story would ruin her. Any good defense attorney could get the charges dropped in a snap. That is a shame, and a good lesson for us all to be extra, extra careful.

A thought just occured to me... Assuming they did have the guy arrested. Would a prosecutor file a criminal indictment against him, knowing that his defense would likely be that it was a consensual act. His lawyer is going to say "How can you accuse my client of rape, when he was specifically invited into their room for the purpose of having sex with them? They're swingers, for crying out loud! They do this kind of stuff all the time!" I don't think you could get a jury to convict. Meanwhile, the media would have had a field day with it. Their reputation in the community would be ruined. There would likely be fallout in their social and professional lives. All for the satisfaction of filing a criminal charge that would be dismissed at the preliminary hearing? No thanks... Then there's always the possibility of a civil suit against the couple for false arrest. They would be required to be deposed about previous swinging experiences, including names, dates, specific acts, etc. I think this just points up the fact that no matter how careful a couple is about meeting other couples, they have to be 10 times as careful about meeting single guys. I'm saying that, and I "are" one. Don't misunderstand...what the guy did was RAPE, no question about it. But even though swinging per se may not be illegal, as a practical matter, swingers forfeit many of the protections of the law when engaging in it.

We've never had any bad experiences involving roughness, violence or other physical assaults but we did have two incidents involving theft. Once, at a house party, there was one new couple among 10 couples who have known each other for a few years. We had a little gathering in the living room in the middle of the evening (with most folks in various sates of undress) to celebrate a birthday and we took a few photos. The next day, I discovered all my cash had disappeared from my wallet. (I had left my clothes in one of the bedrooms as always.) Three other guys discovered the same thing. When we looked at the birthday pics later, the female half of the new couple was nowhere to be seen in any of them. Several years later at our own home, we had a small gathering, 4 couples, 2 of whom we had known for years, and a couple we had met twice. The woman knew that Reenie was taking perscription pain pills for a recent surgery and asked for one. Reenie gave one to her from her purse. Next day, all but three of the original 60 pain pills were gone from the bottle. The sneaky little bitch went through her purse some time during the evening. These were not pay at the door parties where anybody with the admission fee gets in; they were private, invite only parties where we thought we knew who we were inviting. That kind of behavior is really depressing and can cause you to lose trust in people. We are now much more cautious in how we deal with new people. It sucks that it has to be that way because this was two scuzzball couples out of several hundred that we've met over the past fifteen years. (Reenie is over my shoulder insisting that I clarify that statement. I didn't mean we have fucked several hundred people over fifteen years. Sorry, Dear, I'm sure it's no more than a few hundred. ) We've met one or two couples who have decided to engage in an argument in our presence but we weren't in bed with them at the time (thank God) and we extricated ourselves from the situation pretty quickly. And in one bizzarre occurrence, we were at a house party where a guy was so jealous and rude that he was bullying and intimidating any guy that talked to his wife, actually positioning himself between her and any guy who came near her. Needless, to say, they didn't stay long and we never heard from them again. I still can't figure out why they were there in the first place. As we think back on it, we've been fairly luck compared to the experiences some folks have had.

we did file charges he never was found by police and i looked for him for a while never found him we had met him and talked for quit awhile before anything was to happen met him at a club it was about 3months after we met before we met at a motel room we have moved away from the area after that happened

NHcpl1968: If this had happened to my wife, I would have her file charges. That was definitely rape. No way would I let our lifestyle stand in the way. At the very least I would post his picture and info about what he did on every swingers site I could find. That is so shamful.

That is pretty sick and anything forced is definintely rape. What happened afterwards? did you file a report?

Most definitely RAPE! I feel mad just reading that. It got my blood boiling! I wouldn't want to do a mfm after that either. We have done a mfm once and have another one in the works. It wasn't a bad experience but it wasn't exactly as hot as our fantasies. The guy was a friend and we surprised him with this when he was at our house for dinner one night. He couldn't get it up, I guess he was a little nervous and overwhelmed, but he put in a great effort at trying to please me orally and with his hands. Unfortunately, his style was very different from what I enjoy. So it wasn't a bad experience in the sense that he was wierd or anything. He was very nice and courteous and he had a GREAT time. At least he said so many times afterward and the next day when he talked to hubby. I just wasn't as satisfied as I would have liked. Other than that we have been very lucky to have good experiences. M

I agree with Vespertine. This is not swinging, it is Rape. What happened after the fact?

This is called RAPE. Where did this happen? Was it a club, a house party? Did you kick this guys ass, or what?

The worst expirience we had was we met a couple once, we sat and talked with them to get to know them, and then a couple nights later we got together again and swapped with them. Then afterwards they got upset if they heard we met another couple, because they got possesive with us. We only swapped with them the one time, because of what they did being possesive. We told them as friendly as we could that they need to not swing if they are going to have a possessive attitue like that. They got really pissy with us because of our suggestion, and gave us a big attitude, and we point blank had to tell them that we wanted nothing to do with them anymore. We almost gave up swinging because of that too.

Yes - our very first couple was an absolute nightmare! We were all in bed together having a great time when the other couple starting arguing. Within a few minutes, it had escalated into a full-blown argument with yelling and screaming and stomping about. They carried the fight out of our house and onto our front porch -- all while they were still naked! Then the worst happened... He got in the car and drove off -- without her! Now, we used to live WAY out in the country -- no cabs, no busses. We had a llama farm, and a few cows nearby but that's about it. And here's an agry, naked women standing on our front porch at 1am. We had no idea what to do. We were mortified. For a half-hour, there should stood. She wouldn't come in, she wouldn't go away. Well, he eventually came back to claim his prize and we eventually got back to bed -- alone. Needless to say, it was awhile before we met with another couple Bob (and Sandy)

We havent had any that would scare us away but it has made us more cautious. I gave a "so called female" our home number and IT put my name and phone number out on a chatt room promising all sorts of stuff to lots of guys....dont do that again since I had to change my number.. and the only thing that really bugged me was when we first got into this We had a man decide that we should only see them (he was part of a couple) and he became a little obsessed with me. They went so far as to figure out where we lived and showed up un anounced one day! They were told bubye real quick. He kept trac of when I was online and on site...drove me crazy. Now we dont let anyone know the erea we live in unless we are very very comfy with them. But all in all it has been alot of fun...We dont scare easily so we take it all as a learning experiance and go from there!

Old Proverb of undetermined source: If it makes your mouth water . . . it's big enough. If it makes your pussy water . . . it's big enough. If it makes your eyes water . . . it might be a touch on the large size!!!