Yeah, this is kind of our take on things. Just because it happens to be the truth doesn't mean I'm about to give my kids the guided tour of what lurks in Mom's toybox, or what their Dad and I get up to in our sex life. It's none of their damn business! So we're not about to explain ourselves to them. But if they confronted us and were completely upset by it, we'd set them straight about a few things. For example, that our marriage is perfectly healthy and we love one another completely, that it's a philosophy that he and I share that makes our lives and marriage better, and that the discussion about it ends there...because it's none of their damn business.