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Women naturally seek other women when needing comfort, sympathy, or support. Women are also, in general, more empathetic. For related reasons, many woman will seek other women for sexual gratification; empathy accompanies the gratification. For men, being gay or bisexual is different. Man-to-man sexual contact tends to be casual, intense, and brief. No comfort sympathy, or support is needed. A woman might also seek other woman when dissatisfied with a man who jumps on her, ejaculates, gets up, farts, and switches the TV on.

We're going to a party tonight, I think there will be 9-10 couples. That means 9-10 erections. Does oral count as a guy or are we only counting vaginal penetration?? Somebody let us know and we'll come up with an almost real time count. Last time I know Mrs Doc boinked 5 (not all to completion) and she had not run out of gas. We discovered years ago that she absolutely LOVES being part of an orgy.

As a fellow who has been on both sides of oral and anal with men, all I can say is that it is more of a thing to try than something that I seek out. I, and the other guys I've done the gay thing with, much prefer to play with and fuck a woman, not because of social pressure or religion or anything, just because women are more satisfying. As it is said, women are prettier and smell better, so even other women like it. Even when butt fucking, I prefer slapping up against a woman's smooth ass than a big hairy one, and play with her tits. Men are lucky most women need dick to be satisfied.

It sounds to me like you have some legitimate concerns. I agree that you guys should take a break from the lifestyle, at least until you can both sit down together, have a serious conversation and get your relationship back onto firmer footing. I would suggest that you need to calmly and clearly explain to him the concerns that you have and he needs to respect them. You also need to listen to his concerns (whatever those might be) and respect those. When you can talk through things completely, openly and honestly, you'll be in a better place.

Yet.

No problem J&Wu. We are glad you like the way K works