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Rookie attempting to answer. Could be the perception of female energy vs male energy? Women always look like women regardless of the partner cause female energy is so fluid. It matches MMF FFM FFF etc. While women can alter it through taking a dominant role it is just another hue of the same energy. Social constructs define male energy. And it is difficult to see it in another light particularly when it clashes with other male energy. Some of us (myself included) super open minded and it takes 1st hand experience or experimenting from a safe place to realize male energy is fluid. FYI - Love all the open minded ppl and shared experiences.

I'm going to hazard a guess that there is an explanation for the taboo. The bi or gay man is stereotyped as being feminine, swishy, ineffectual. That is not always the case, but that is the perception. A guy who wants to explore his bi side may be fearful of someone thinking of him as "less of a man." That is a pretty good deterrent. Then, as in my case, the urge to connect physically with another man is very limited. I'm not afraid of the "incidental" touching, but to suck a cock or have one inserted in me is just not something that interests me. Thoughts.

Should you let her? Yes, if it's both of your fantasy and you've thoroughly talked it through beforehand. Watching your partner fuck someone else will bring many feelings to the surface, both good and bad, and it's better to cover the "what-if's" beforehand than play damaage control and pick-up the pieces afterward. Second, is she on-board with this massage arrangement and seeing where it goes, also? It rarely works-out when these things are a surprise. Again, talk, talk, talk and then talk some more. Then fuck other people once the talking is done and you are both on the same page about what you want to happen and ultimately what you want to get from this. Good luck.

I loved my wife having an MFM. I wasn't a cuck in that I'd let anyone humiliate me, handle his dick, etc. I'd help my wife set up her date, shaving her legs, picking out the outfit, etc. We'd usually meet the guy in a bar and if she wanted to bring him home while they were getting comfortable with each other I'd get them a drink, set up the bedroom with candles and music. Then I'd observe for awhile, taking pictures if the guy didn't object. I enjoyed watching the seduction, the first contacts, and then them making love. When he was beginning to run out of steam, I'd join them on the bed, screwing my wife while he watched and helped. Usually, that led to more sexy thoughts on his part, which led to more sex between them. We were very comfortable with that scenario. Perhaps that could be your niche.

Women naturally seek other women when needing comfort, sympathy, or support. Women are also, in general, more empathetic. For related reasons, many woman will seek other women for sexual gratification; empathy accompanies the gratification. For men, being gay or bisexual is different. Man-to-man sexual contact tends to be casual, intense, and brief. No comfort sympathy, or support is needed. A woman might also seek other woman when dissatisfied with a man who jumps on her, ejaculates, gets up, farts, and switches the TV on.

We have been to several parties and there is plenty of bisexual play among the females and none with the men. From reading on here and other places this is very common. I have asked my husband why it’s okay for me to be with everyone and he would never think about being with another guy. He said he has no desire. I have seen all male porn. The guys were great looking. I was not into watching what they did. Bottom line the status quo is good for me.

As a fellow who has been on both sides of oral and anal with men, all I can say is that it is more of a thing to try than something that I seek out. I, and the other guys I've done the gay thing with, much prefer to play with and fuck a woman, not because of social pressure or religion or anything, just because women are more satisfying. As it is said, women are prettier and smell better, so even other women like it. Even when butt fucking, I prefer slapping up against a woman's smooth ass than a big hairy one, and play with her tits. Men are lucky most women need dick to be satisfied.

Yea, I don't know Wornsilver, could be. Since homosexuality and bisexuality have been around as long as humans, it has to be an influence of some kind. I hazard a guess at what I consider the root of all evil, religion. Religion takes good people and scares us into going against our nature. We can't all fit into this one size box. So, feed an opinion to the masses, watch it grow, enjoy the benefits. Whatever they are. Money, power, influence. I'm pretty sure that had it not been etched into my skull that gay men were less of a man, I would not have felt that way into my 30s. I was never religious, but the rant began with 'crime against god'.

My Wife has taught me some 'secrets'' to satisfying a good cock. But I found sucking a cock to be a natural thing, as we both love to share a big and thickly tan cock. Most open minded couples these days push the Bisexual limits more and more. Dave and Laura

I had my first male/male encounter in an MFM threesome about 40 years ago. What a surprise, when my VERY straight friend cupped my balls & stroked them while I fucked the young lady with us. The ice broke, & we spent the whole night taking turns fucking her as we stroked & sucked each other in between. The next morning, I felt amazing, & more completely my sexual self. & I have done it many times since.

Yes. Get off the bed away from his cock. That doesn't make you a cuckold. Enjoy the show. Take your turn. If he is on the bed when you take your turn you won't know because your focus is on her. When the three of you are on the bed in a MMF situation there is always going to be incidental contact with the other man due to the close proximity and a lack of coordination. You go here I'll go there:) My wife told me that she prefers to focus on one man at a time