As a fellow who has been on both sides of oral and anal with men, all I can say is that it is more of a thing to try than something that I seek out. I, and the other guys I've done the gay thing with, much prefer to play with and fuck a woman, not because of social pressure or religion or anything, just because women are more satisfying. As it is said, women are prettier and smell better, so even other women like it. Even when butt fucking, I prefer slapping up against a woman's smooth ass than a big hairy one, and play with her tits. Men are lucky most women need dick to be satisfied.