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Hi, this is Petra with the story of two exes. We are in a poly family, kids and all, that has gone through something similar. My husband's ex-fiancée Lora joined him, my boyfriend, our girlfriend and me for what started as fun sex. Her boyfriend Walter eventually participated as well. Lora liked being back with my hubby (they split because her family didn't like that he is white) and having us girls as Lesbian partners. Walter liked Lora and the opportunity to swing. They got married, but Lora decided she wanted hubby and to have his child, and us as girlfriends too. Lora divorced Walter, joined us and had David's child. When Walter has been in town we still swing with him. No problems for anyone.

We, and seemingly every couple we know, keeps a cordless Hitachi Magic Wand charged and readily available during playtime. We use it during most play sessions. So, apparently, do our friends. For us, it reliably guarantees her multiple strong and sustained orgasms until she has 'had enough'--usually between half a dozen and a dozen. The nice thing about the cordless version is that it is easy to manipulate between us onto her clit regardless of what position we are in at any particular moment.

We were friends at one time with a couple who was not married. She was married to a gentleman with a disability, I'm not sure whether he knew and approved or not. He was cheating. They met us at our swing club, then later we went on several dates with them. We all had a blast. I think the key for us is that they were upfront with us about their relationship, and were quite mature about it. So . . .

The one constant in the advice here is to try adjusting your activities be be more to your liking, whether it's allowing her to play separately for a while or doing couples' swaps. Try different things, adjust and move along where it takes you. Don't be afraid to try new things; despite what some may say about "permanent" damage to one thing or another, just be willing to admit that something was a mistake and move on. Life is adventure, a few wrong turns are to be expected.

We are new to swinging even though both of us have been with others. I don’t think either of us on into going to a club. The question is do you enjoy swinging with the same couple over and over again. We had a great time with the couple we met. They are fun and sexy. Nothing negative to say. We clicked and I think they felt the same way. That being said I think part of the excitement of swinging is variation. I love lobster, do I want that every meal?

Our most kinky night was December 2 years ago in a party, we full swapped with 2 different couples. So that was 3 guys in the same night including my husband.

Whoever has the bigger/ thicker cock should be under the lady and penetrate first. Whoever has the less thickness should be on top and enter second. The one on top (more avg penis) is the one who will have it easiest to plow. It might be easier at first with lube depending on how tight the vagina is and how big both your dicks are. Cum also works so if you can stay hard and still bust out that easy quickie load first it’ll def help with friction. My gf is super tight, and we just tried DVP for first time. We were able to try it last but only after we opened her up a little ( taking turns having sex ). I’ve been told condoms and DVP is horrible so it’s one of those things; BC and all.

Baskin Robbis has 31 different flavors for a reason . . .

I am only 1.55m so about 5'1" tall, and I have had no problem handling large or thicker men than average. During coitus if his penis size is making me feel uncomfortable in certain position: I simply change to a more comfortable one. If the penis is to long and is getting in to deep: I try to control the depth and also I clearly inform my play-partner For example, if the penis is too thick: lubricant is a must and also a slower rhythm than normal is required. Finishing a guy with a thick penis by oral sex can be a little bit harder, so I tend to use a lot more my hands than only my mouth.

I was facing the same dilemma with my man, he got a kick out of large dicks, even though he was large himself. He wanted to see even bigger guys fuck me. I need to be really horny and a bit tipsy or more to let go and all has to go slow. I am also into anal sex and there we were after a while able to let really big guys to enter and do me hard. In any case, take your time, she knows what you like, now don't push and let her move at her own comfort level. Have fun you guys