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There would be no good purpose in my giving advice about DP until after you complete step number one: tell your girlfriend what's brewing in your mind. After you learn how she feels, come back to us again with this question. I see that you are new to Swingersboard. I recommend that you read the Curious about Swinging forum. That might also generate some worthwhile questions.

I've never been the one to even think about swinging until my wife and i started talking about 3 and 4 somes. I never felt secure enough to even bring up the thought with ex's.But we talked about it and she said if she ever wanted to bang someone else it'd be my buddy who had a rep for being a good lay. Anyways, we went to a childhood friend's house for a party one Friday night and it went pretty normal she talked with the girls and I went to play beer pong with some friends. As the night went on, my buddy called me over. I went over behind the bar where he and my gf were tending bar with his hand on her waist playing with her thong and his growing erection. He then blurts out "Dude your gf is so hot I'd totally fuck her." (remember him and i have been friends since pre school). I replied back yeah i see that. And point down. Our friends laugh and continue on. I then walked outside and started chatting with some buddies who were smoking. Shortly after my tipsy but still coherent friend walk out sitting next to me, turns and asks if i would be okay with him banging my girlfriend. I looked at my girlfriend and asked her if she was interested in fucking him since i remember her saying he's the one she would try it with. She said she would as long as i was also going to participate. We proceed to go to his bedroom where it was agreed they would start with each other and i would watch and eventually join. They started off making out his hands running over her butt and up to her boobs (36ddd) pulling her shirt up over her head. She then felt his cock that was rock hard at this point. Unbuckling his belt and undoing the button letting his pants fall revealing his rock hard cock. "Should i suck it?" she says as she pulls down his boxers and caresses him in her hands stroking up and down his shaft. At this point i feel my dick getting hard, so i pull it out and start playing with it. She then sits on the bed where shes dick high and starts teasing the tip of his cock with her tongue.I hear him lightly sigh as she wraps her lips around his shaft and begins to blow him. He then pulls his dick out of her mouth stands her up unhooking her bra and removing her tight jeans and thong exposing her soaking wet pussy.She slides up the bed looking at me noticing me stroking. "You like what you see baby? Ready to watch another man fuck me good?" "Yeah baby." I reply, she smiles looks at my buddy and tells him to fuck her brains out as she spreads her legs waiting for him to enter her clean shaven pussy. He turns to me"Dude shes a freak!" he then proceeds to slide his cock between her pussy lips getting his dick wet. He slowly slides his dick into her as she softly moans to his cock entering her. He gradually picks up speed and her moaning gets louder and louder as he thrusts deep into her. "Oh my god (friend) your cock feels amazing.Don't stop!" he starts thrusting deep hearing his boys pelvis slap against her. "Fuck your pussy feels so good! He replies. He begins to thrust harder and faster into her as she climaxes then orgasms all over his cock.She pulls his cock out and tells him to lay down shes going to ride him like a bull. She then climbs on top and puts a condom on him. She then slides down him, putting his hands on her boobs as she gyrates on his dick. "You going to cum in my tight pussy baby?" as she begins to fuck him. "I'm going to cum in that pussy." "Mmmmmm cum in me right now gimme that seed" she begins screaming his name as he buries his cock in her. "Oh fuck (girlfriend) I'm cumming I'm cumming!" i see him pump deep into her. At this point I've shot my load, and she climbs off of him pulling the condom off his cock. "Well that was fun!" she says as they get dressed. We then head back downstairs and continue to party. It was pretty awesome.

It started this way for my wife and I. We persisted and became successful beyond any of our initial expectations. But here is the thing. Forget Craig's List completely. Web sites like SLS, SDZ, and SDC are useful but the very best way to get started is to meet people face-to-face at meet-n-greet events and swing club parties. Do not expect instantaneous results. But once you get to know the right people, they will introduce you to other people who will introduce you to other people. Persistence pays.

Hello, here is my insight as the "extra guy". First, I sense that you are not quite comfortable with alone time so I would not have that happen. If you are ok with alone time, sometimes it is better for the guys to be alone first. I have had some very interesting conversations with the husband that were very helpful...like, she really likes this....if you want to squirt,do this, are you good doing? She really gets hot and wet etc etc. If there is only alone time with the extra guy and her or you start to feel left out, have a code word between the two of you. Establish trust slowly. Us guys know we are less than a dime a dozen.....Yep. It pays to be a humble guy. The more experienced I get, the better I can read both the wife and hubby. Are they on the same page? If not, I normally say something like "you are both very attractive but I don't want to create any drama so I am stepping awhile" This is never done DEAR JOHN style but more like I apologize for not creating "the magic". I enjoy MFM because DVP is so awesome and you all need to work together and trust each other for that to succeed and when it takes a few tries and everyone laughs, you know it is good. I hope that makes sense. Please let me know how it works out and if this was helpful.

Many years ago Betty had an experience with a black man with a very thick (nearly a true "beer can") cock. It was unforgettable. I enjoyed it every bit as much as she did.

We completely agree. Too much depth just hurts my wife but the thicker the better. We still have not had a swinging experience but when we do, we hope it's with a very thick cock (preferably black). The idea of watching my wife's shaved pussy stretch open to accommodate a thick black cock is just such a turn-on for both of us. I'm getting hard just typing this.

For me it's thickness, not length, that counts. The thicker, the better. I've never found one too thick. Length can help in some positions, but it doesn't feel any better to me. Still, I know that many husbands enjoy it more when they can watch a their wives take a big one. I don't mind that at all. -Betty