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I know women who shout out their desires and I know women who simply close their eyes and moan a little. I am a guy who has no special need for to woman to be singing, "fuck me, fuck me now, fuck me harder." But I do enjoy the girls who croon compliments into my ear -- "yes, just like that", "ooh", "that's good", "don't stop." But I'm not every guy. I recommend you should not try too hard to create affectations. There is a hazard of sounding insincere.

We've learned over a decade and a half in this hobby that we don't owe anybody anything other than general courtesy. A simple, "this isn't working for us" should be sufficient. Then block the numbers. You still may have a bigger problem if, as you describe, your wife is really enamored with this guy. He is clearly playing you both.

Thank You all for the responses and advice. After some discussion last night, we decided to end it, and politely told them "we do not believe we are the couple for you. Nest of luck finding what you desire". For now my wife says to give her a few days to get over it, so I'm giving her her space. She keeps trying to rationalize it, believing still that no one would go to all the trouble to show up to a date to just concede to let their spouse have what they want. But I explained to her, from reading up on the LS, it can and seems to happen a lot. Eventually through time, she will get over it and we will continue to look until we find the right one.

One of our 'golden' rules is that if either of us isn't 'feeling' it, is that we will walk away...no explanation necessary. It's HARD to find a four way match but when you do, its AWESOME. Talk to your wife about this and that you just aren't feeling it with the other woman and start looking for your next couple. Going forward is probably not end up with you having a positive experience. Don't think that you are going to 'take one for the team'...never a good plan. Good luck and we wish you success the next time.

Red, RED flags everywhere in this post.

I've always wanted to try a MFM threesome. currently I have a girlfriend and have not told her of my fantasy to participate in a DP. How would I go about organizing this? Where can I find a couple of willing participants? or maybe a couple to give us a show first and let the gf decide if she want's to try something like this.

SWEET!! Mine keeps getting pushed out further since my hubby is finding it difficult to find men that'll commit to it & actually show so in that happening for you at all congrats!

If you are having sex bareback all the fears of std and pregnancy are already present. Even if he isn’t cumming he is leaving traces in your wife. When we first did this it was with friends. I didn’t know the etiquette. I figured I would pull out at the time. I was already stressed that first time. Nerves and how will I do. I thought we would use condoms and we didn’t. It was also my wife’s friend. There was foreplay and plenty of oral. We got to the point of me in her and her on top. We were both about to cum and I pulled out and she put me back in and started with the don’t stop and her cumming. Told her I was cumming and she held me tight. It was then I noticed my wife had done the same thing. I think you should respect what your wife wants.

Well you have gone a long way already especially if they are discussing it. I too had this fantasy / fetish and TBH with the right person you trust and know well it is HIGHLY erotic. However our ground rules were that we would be in the same room. But to each is own. Our first threesome with an old friend that she normally would not be attracted to turned out that way and TBH it was the most erotic thing I have ever experienced seeing the head of his cock enter her, her expression and then when we was about to cum looking at her and me for approval (giving it) and seeing him tense up and explode in her. I did not examine the cum pouring out but she basically passed out from exhaustion and we lay there for hours reliving mentally the event.

It's important to the satisfaction of both the guys and women that we women receive cum, wherever it may be deposited. That's why we keep our play to our closed circle.