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I'm not sure I prefer either, but I have some specific turn-ons that require MFM. It's also just a reality that it's much easier for people to organize MFM. It also happens more often among presumably vanilla relationships more than anybody will talk about. I don't think there's anything abnormal about fantasizing about either scenario, and people have different interests. Our first time as a committed couple was soft swap with friends. When she first touched his cock she had a little panic and needed to get out of the pool, but ten minutes later was topless on her knees. Everything went pretty naturally from there.

So I said I would never do this. I was out with some friends the other night and my wife had her male friend over our house. I wasn't sure if they would play or not since things have gotten more vanilla with him lately. He was gone by the time I got home, and they did play. I was jerking off while my wife told me the details... next thing I couldn't resist and stuck in in her for sloppy seconds!!

I don't think either of us thought about jealousy. My tongue was concentrating on Mrs. Playmate's clit and Laura was busy guiding Mr. Playmate where she wanted him to be.

People can become addicted to internet pornography. They then want to watch it for hours and start edging. Over time, that can lead to the person finding he can get hard but finds it almost impossible to reach organism. After all, if you have trained yourself to delay orgasm for hours while masturbating, your body gets accustomed to that. It is a very serious problem.

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A little history. We started playing with our best male friend in 1986. In fact he and his wife were the ones that seduced us into playing. That was a time before HIV so we did not worry about going bareback. I remember the first time when we were seduced. We were all nudists and got together on a weekly basis and we had gotten to the point that there was a lot of flirting between all of us. Our male friend and my wife were on the living room floor and he was massaging her. I was on the floor across the room massaging her. I looked over and saw that my wife and my best friend were having intercourse. Even though my wife and I had never discussed it, it just seemed right to me. I pointed out to his wife what was going on across the room and she gave me a little smile. After seeing that I started being more sexual in my massaging and in a few minutes we started having intercourse too. After a few minutes I realized that I knew her husband had had a vasectomy and my wife had had her tubes tied, but I didn't know about her so I asked. She mentioned she had had her tubes tied too, so we continued and we continued until I came inside her. After that my friend who worked nights and my wife who wasn't working got together many times during the day, which I really found exciting. Unfortunately his wife, although a good friend, was not that interested in me but was playing with others. My wife playing with our male friend turned into the two of us playing with her. As time went on, sloppy seconds became very common and even an occasional DVP. At that time he had no trouble cumming and it was always inside her. He and his wife got divorced and each got remarried and everyone knew we were playing with him. My wife and I continued playing with him and we all had a lot of fun. His new wife died of a heart attack in her early 50s and we became even closer to him. We all even agreed to a poly relationship which worked very well. It was not exclusive. One of the problems he had was masturbating so much that he couldn't cum through intercourse, which was a disappointment. A couple of years ago he got in touch with woman he had known years ago. Her husband was fine with them playing, and even though his new playmate said it was fine for my wife to play with him, we stopped because there seemed to be the potential for too much drama. We are still friends with him, but don't feel comfortable playing with him.

If you're swinging, sloppy seconds is going to happen. Why not enjoy it?

While I don't seek it out not do I have a fetish, Im fine with sloppy seconds when it occurs, usually as a reconnection boink. If Mrs Doc isn't quite done after her partner is, I'm quite willing to jump in if that's her desire.

It is definitely a different feeling, especially when her BF is thicker than me. I would do it over and over, it is freaking fantastic.

Someone mentioned flogging. This is going to be a bit wild for most of you. I have seen it on video but I have also witnessed it in person. It was at a private dungeon party I was invited to – about 2 dozen people at a private dungeon setup in a rural barn type building. A woman was tied spread eagled (actually standing and towards the middle of the space and they used leather cuffs, not rope). A man started flogging her. I would say the flogger was pretty expensive, it had long soft leather tines and a medium weight to it. He was good, he had an easy fluid motion and he hit what he aimed at. He started on her back, ass and legs. Not too hard, but firmly and increasing a little as she quickly warmed up. She was very obviously enjoying it and had become the center of attention in the room. He seemed to be very caring about it, strange as it sounds. Then he moved round in front of her and started flogging her breasts. She really liked that and made it very clear. It was oddly beautiful and sensual. After a few minutes he brought the flogger up between her legs and hit her pussy. She gasped and moaned but did not complain. Soon he did it again and then again and ended up concentrating on her pussy in a steady rhythmic pace. She was getting very excited and calling for him to do it harder….. and harder! He obliged and was eventually flogging her what seemed to me to be quite hard, but still in the same steady rhythmic pace. She eventual had the most incredible orgasm, at which point he dropped the flogger and held her lovingly while she came. It was a real eye opener for me and as I said, actually it was strangely erotic, beautiful and very sensual – and incredible hot! But what really surprised me is that several other women immediately volunteered for the same treatment!! (And they received it and enjoyed it immensely – I talked to a couple of them about it.) There you have it – it is what it is.