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By all means explore swinging if you are curious. Personally though I would not try it with someone who behaves as you describe. For that matter I wouldn't be with someone who behaves like that.

I just responded to a post about letting someone cum in your wife. What are the feelings about sloppy seconds? We have been playing with the same couple, our friends for a couple of years. We have not been using protection and it is a given that we are cumming in the wives. My wife and I had always cleaned up after sex and I figured most couple do. I hadn't gone down on her after I came. On occasion she would get me hard again before washing and we would have a second go at it. It was just my cum in her. Now with swapping new things happened. My wife would excuse herself after they finished but our friends would play as soon as he was hard again. No washing. My cum still in her or dripping out. I felt strange just watching that at first. I didn't know if I should be doing the same thing to my wife. I did one time and I felt strange but it felt the same as if I went for a second time without her washing. Maybe she was hotter or more lubed. What do others do?

It's hard not to get discouraged! Brush it off and get back to hunting. This time, chat up a few couple's. Give yourselves a few options and have fun with it. I have learned to see the signs of people not ready and not give too many chances. I recently had a misunderstanding via messages with a unicorn, and we won't be grovelling. My husband and I are good fucks so it's her loss! ??

My husband and I are both 28 so we typically play with older couples-usually 40s. We rarely get messages and at parties very few people approach us until we've 'proved ourselves'. The age difference doesn't bother us. We love hearing from couple's who have been married 20+ years and their kids are grown. Those are the people we make friends with, because have littles, it's easier if only one couple's kids are younger. I think it'd be difficult to plan stuff around both couple's having little ones. We have yet to play routinely with anyone close to our age but we have had our one night stands. Age doesn't matter to me if someone can keep up. At parties I like to dance and have fun, if someone sits at the bar the whole time I won't be interested.

Update: We are still with this couple, and we have fallen for them! It seems this sort of thing is rare! It's been a wild ride to this point, and we did hit a little bump in the road, but it's all good now. Next up is a trip to the mountains in Colorado!

I don't notice unless someone is being super obvious. And then I assume I'm having a wardrobe malfunction. ??

Nothing dramatically new here, I'm just happy with my weekend and wanted to post it somewhere. We went down to the city for the week and toward the end, reconnected with the couple we know better for dinner. We'd never really discussed specific fetishes/fantasies before, and I ended up getting everything I could have wanted out of a very open conversation. A few drinks in at the hotel lounge, we went up to our room and I sat back while Mrs. E and the other wife went to work on the other husband. The ladies were very warmed up to each other and he made a mess of them both when he came, then they went to work on me. You'd think it was my birthday. It was late and we crashed in the room, but in the morning swapped, Mrs. E on her hands and knees while the other wife worked on me reverse cowgirl, then we cleaned up and went to breakfast, came back for another round as a group until lunch before we parted ways. So much fun and we fucked so hard alone that night after.

Hmm, where to begin... Bondage- from ropes, cuffs, I like to be completely immobilized Chains- also used for bondage but I love the feel and especially the sound Flogging- I have cum from being hit

Gay and his wife Nan Talese were frequent guests in our home for dinner parties. Truly an amazing couple. They remain an extraordinary literary institution.

For us it’s an individual choice. We are in this to allow the other to experience and fulfill their fantasies. When one half of a couple starts interjecting their attractions on their significant other they will find that this whole thing will go south in a hurry. In our case she has sole choice of who she has sex with, and I have sole choice on who I have sex with, and we do our best not to be judgmental about that choice. Now that’s not to say, and it rarely occurs, but if one of us has negative personal information concerning a person that the other is considering being with we will inform them of that information. But that is limited to something that the other doesn’t know about that person. As far as physical characteristics, age, or appearance, that would be solely up to them. The adage is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Unless you want her to start picking the women that you can be with, don’t pick the men that she wants to be with. Swinging is about open and honest communication, if you start criticizing her choice of playmates, you will soon find her unwilling to share her fantasies with you or to take part in this with you. As long as my wife is safe, as long as she’s engaged in something that she wants to be engaged in, with a person that she wants to be engaged with, the choice is hers.