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Any woman that drops a guy just because of cock size is better off being gone anyway. Would you drop her just because some lady with a bigger cup size wiggles in front of you, or would a tighter pussy do the trick? If so she is better off without you. It took me a while to realize it but it truly is the whole package, and not just the one located mid body. Speaking of the whole package she just walked in from the garden and started hand feeding be freshly picked raspberries. THAT and a million other such things is worth more than a vise like vagina grip or whatever. After 3 kids and forty years there is absolutely nothing or anyone that could pry me free. On top of all that she encourages my playtime and ravishes me after. I, on my part, want only the best and most talented lovers for her. If that should include someone with a bigger tool, then I only hope that he really knows how to use it. If either of us had worries such as you express,then we wouldn't be doing this. Maybe you two need to grow together more before you wander off into others beds.

Over the years we've developed a sense between us that, for want of a better term, we call our 20/20 rule. We generally know within 20 seconds to 20 minutes of meeting a couple whether we'll ever want to get naked with them. If it's a "no" we'll courteously finish the drink or meal and end the evening. If it's a yes and the other couple seems to be on a similar page, we will explore further on the first date, maybe full swap or not but we'll have some couples fun of some sort. Our theory is that none of us will get thinner, younger, or prettier if we wait a week or two or more to do what we all seem interested in doing right now.

We have created a wonderful relationship, and the four of us have discussed at length the potential dangers of having such a relationship. As I've said, we're all on the same page. We had fun swinging, but realized after we found them, that we wanted more than just swinging, and they were looking for more too. This whole experience has been a pretty wild ride to say the least!

Watch out! All those people with "red flag" emojis will be popping up saying how you are endangering your marriages. Why that is, I don't know. Why should it be that it is considered a bad thing for people you're having sex with (or that your spouse is having sex with) to actually care about him or her as a person? To treat them well and enjoy activities other than sex? I never understood why someone would prefer screwing (or having your spouse screw) a stranger who would just dump them to the curb after it's over. It sounds like you have created four great relationships. Keep it going and keep us updated.

My wife and I are a HMWC and got into swinging 5 years ago. The primary reason was so she could experience other men. She had a burning desire to be other men as I was the only partner she had ever been intimate with. Since was extremely timid in the beginning. She laid there so quiet that I was sure she was in pain or feeling humilated. She never experienced anything close to an orgasm. I was so sad for her that I wanted us to stop swinging. As a matter of fact, on one occasion after her white male partner came for the 2nd time and my wife had not even let out a small moan of pleasure, I actually tried to stop the swinging from continuing because I just couldn't see my wife being a cum receptacle for other men! Well, we were going to call it quits when she told me that she wanted to have sex with a black male before stopping because watching a black man and a white woman in some of the porno tapes we wold view was a turn on for her. Did things change when my wife had her first experience with a black male? First, my wife is as white and fair skinned as you can imagine. Her nipples are pink she is so fair skinned. Yet she had this one request. So I honored it. Her first black lover was very well endowed. When he got naked both she and I thought he was going to rip her in half with his HUGE manhood! Instead, he was passionate, experienced, and extremely talented at pleasuring women, even really tight, white women. She felt stretched and it was very tight. But my wife orgasmed more than a half dozen times that night because he went where I had never gone before DEEP inside her! Fast forward a few years and here we are in 2008. My wife will ONLY swing with very well endowed black men now. She has become extremely vocal, multi-orgasmic, very active in participating, and is VERY happy with her lifestyle choice. She has decided to spend more time nurturing more of a monogamous relationship with her swing partners being exclusive to one partner until the time comes to move on to another partner where the monogamous relationship commences once again. She tells me the gentleman she is with right now, I always am in the room with them, is the very best lover she has ever had. More importantly, she has developed a very strong emotional connection with him. Thay have been monogamous for over 3 years now. They use the word love quite often. They are open and honest about the fact that their sex has been elevated to love making. And they are proud of the passion and desire they share for each other. Am I jealous? No! Has it affected our marriage? No! It has improved our sex life 1000% though! They f**k like wild animals in heat! That passion and lust has carried over into our bedroom. Was our sex boring before swinging? Yes! Is it boring now? No! Am I afraid that my wife's love for her lover is coming at my expense? Absolutley not! This is the way she explains it to me...we have 3 children and even though each one is entirely different, she loves them each unequivocally. Plus, she loves her siblings, her parents, my parents and my siblings. To love one additional person will not come at the xpense of anyone else receiving any less love. As a matter of fact, our marriage, friendship, sex, lust, passion and love for each other has never been better! Her friendship, sex, lust, passion, and love for her lover has never been better either! She sees her lover, in our home, in our bed, with me present at least once every 2 weeks with goal of always trying to be together at least once per week. That fits perfectly into our schedule because we try to be intimate at least a couple times a week, and when the time, children, job pressures, etc. allow, even more frequently than that. I wouldn't change anything. My wife has become a "size queen" for black male lovers. This is the very BEST thing that has happened to our marriage, and we have been married almost 20 years!! We hope the next 20 are as good as the past 5 have been because we don't see any problems and only see great things on the horizon! And all this came from my quiet, shy, timid wife finally finding herself sexually and me, her husband, not being threatened by it, allowing her to explore her sexuality until she found what really pleased her. Now, a good marriage and good sexual relationship has turned into a great marriage and a great sexual relationship! I would highly recommend every happily married white couple bring an experienced black male swinger into your bedroom for an experiment. As living examples we know you will be a much happier, more committed, deeper loving, and more sexually satisfied couple by trying this. Go ahead, live a little! Your wife deserves the chance to grow and feel her body awaken so you can share those pleasures with her.

Hi, we are an Asian interracial couple..husband white Canadian, wife Japanese. We are curious about other Asian interracial couples' experiences with swinging in North America and in Asia, not only Japan, particularly those of couples whose wife wasn't raised in North America. Although people will differ in background and upbringing,and thus people's feelings will differ, we'd like to know what you went through in discussing the subject (perhaps it was the same as couples from the same culture), how the wife felt, and if you know of any forums/sites/blogs/pic exchanges/real swinger pic sites that could assist in this foray of ours. We are in our 40s, so would particularly value the experience and views of those close to our age, but of course, insight from all are welcome and appreciated. We are members of Swingasia, but it doesn't have a forum section, unfortunately. Thanks for your help.

First, don't post pictures of your cock. If anyone needs to see it, they'll ask. Second, as I type this I'm about eight hours post an incredibly hot full swap play date. Me and my average at best cock, gave my partner four orgasms in a single play session. Her husband is larger than me. I don't know by how much, I don't measure the men my wife fucks and I honestly pay very little attention to that kind of thing. When we were finished up we went back out to the hot tub for a night cap and I was showered with praise. I was told my cock is perfect for her. I hit all the right places. She told me my cock is perfect. I felt like freaking superman. She explained she has to be careful choosing positions with her husband as his sizes can be uncomfortable for her at times. My advice, stop worrying about the size if your cock because very few women do.

Same here, wife is fully straight, has sampled bi sex and found it dull. She has seen me and helped me suck a dick. She does not understand my feelings at all but accepts them and actually encourages me to engage. In our talks about this, she explains that although she doesn't understand my feelings, she can't deny them. She realizes we are all wired differently. When I tell her I try hard to suppress these feelings, she doesn't understand that either. "If you enjoy something, you should be able to do it" is her statement, that should never come from a wife. I guess my point is a woman is going to react how her personality dictates. I think few would find it a turn on and encourage it. Lucky me!

We started in our late 40's more than 15 years ago so do the math. What we've found is that the dynamics have changed a bit but in some ways, we're having more fun now than when we started. For example, sex seems to be a bit slower but is also longer lasting somehow more intimate. This goes for us and with our FWBs. Parts don't respond or recover as quickly as 20 years ago but that leads to more oral, and some other loving forms of foreplay and who doesn't like that? Clubs are less a smorgasbord of possibilities than they were when we started. We're on the upper end of the age curve for Trapeze or other places we frequented nearly every weekend in our 40's plus, the noise level and the "music" are generally appalling. House parties are way more fun than they used to be. Of course, most couples at the parties are our age + or - five years. We start earlier, don't drink as much, share several partners and always go home with a smile. Understand, 55-65 doesn't look like 25-35 but swinger couples in our age bracket remain surprisingly attractive and playful. We have one rule, knowing that we'll be playing with grandparents, we're ok with that so long as they don't look like OUR grandparents. Another thing we've found that is quite interesting is the surprising number of couples in their mid-50's who want to try swinging for the 1st time. Most know exactly what they want to experience and are generally not burdened with the angst and petty jealousies of much younger new couples. What an amazing experience it is to (in my case) be the first new man in 40 years to slowly strip and fondle and make love to a woman or in Mrs Docs experience to be the first new woman in 40 years to blow a man and to have him sink deeply into her. For both couples, those experiences are priceless. Conclusion: Swinging like life in general, evolves as we age. Some things must change but if you accept and accommodate the changes sex and swinging is a blast well into advanced middle age. Mike Schmidt said when he retired from baseball that "the game tells you when it's time to go". I think its the same with swinging. We'll know when it's time to stop. Or perhaps we won't but we will notice when other couples want us to keep our clothing on.

My wife and I are acquainted with a Florida widower who included a reference to swing in his Plenty-of-Fish profile. He received a few outright hostile responses but also questions in the form of "what do you mean by 'swing'?". Most of his replies to that question resulted in, "you filthy beast" or "you immoral clown" but within a couple of months he was dating a woman who fancied the idea. She has taken to the lifestyle like a fish takes to water, if you'll will excuse my poor attempt at humor.

We have been enjoying this for a few years now. It’s actually the impetus for us swinging. I was VERY surprised by how turned on it made me to watch my wife suck and ride a big dick. My friend who has been a little brother to me my whole life is now my wife’s BF. We play together and I let them play alone. He’s about 10-11” long and I love watching her ride him! It’s amazing how much it turns me on! Have fun you filthy fuckers and keep sharing! - C

We are in Long Beach, 63 and 71, and still have fun.

Believe it or not you do. Your journey your map. Just plan the trip together and do not get too bogged down in set goals.

Good news is that you both meet the most important test and that is you are willing to talk about it. Reasons are unimportant what is important is communication. Talk rool play and then go for if you are both interested. We did long ago, but as I remember when we agreeded to give it a try we also agreeded if it was not something we wanted to do again we would not judge each other. Truth is other than nerves the first time and not know how to get rid of the other couple after we did it so we could talk and make sure we were both still ok with everything, we had a blast and wanted to do it again maybe with a few less gitters. Been doing it ever since and it's only brought us closer, we are still each others best friend and lover, but a little new adventure now and then adds to our relationship and while having sex with others is fun and exciting we have no desire to spend the night sleeping next to anyone but each other.

I was getting this response the few times I brought up MMF early in our marriage. Later, I learned she was thinking I was testing her, seeing if she felt she needed more man, more men, bigger, whatever. Once she was aware that my desire for an mmf had to do with experimenting on my part, as well as opening her to new crazy pleasure, she was open to it. It still took a little while to wrap her head around the idea but once she did, she jumped in with both feet.

Mid sixties here. Possibilities everywhere I look. I think many of us are enjoying the freedoms that the empty nest brings.

I am not familiar with dating websites, but I suggest rather than looking for a woman who openly expresses an interest in swinging, let her find you. Put in your profile the type of relationship you are looking for, casual or potentially long-term with marriage, and that you want the relationship to be non-monogamous. If you're willing to let her be non-monogamous while you remain monogamous that could open you to more candidates (and MFMs).

Reading this thread about so many guys expressing their sexual desire really got me hard. I must say like other guys have commented that the moaning, groaning, and body tensing up while I'm pleasuring another man is the hottest thing to me. I began swinging with a couple where the husband was bisexual when my sexuality was a moving target. With him, my sexuality/romantic attraction swiftly moved to the same-sex side. With guys, I can have a great time with them before or after having great sex on an incredible level. The eroticism of taking time to enjoy each other's body, exploring what turns each other on, touching on the pleasure sensors and making that erotic connection with him. Very pragmatic. I just love those instinctive pleasures that only two males can have and open up paths of indescribable joy and mutual bonds of love with a guy that I never experienced before. My relationships with girls are caring and sweet, but their emotional stage is somewhat different to me, as a guy, and vice versa. For me, it ends up being a practically perfect 1:1 trade-off on the emotional level. I absolutely love a hot 69 with another guy laying on our sides, our heads between each other's spread thighs. Our mouths wrapped around each other's hard cock with mutual blowjob pleasure volley, then hearing and feeling each other moaning and our cocks throbbing hot cum into each other's mouth.

Hi Everyone. My wife is from the Philippines and I am getting ready to suggest visiting a club. Can anyone make suggestions about approaching the subject with an Asian woman? She is a very beautiful woman and sometimes I think that I need to have my head examine for wanting to share her. Also, she likes being sexy but is also a little religious. I think I have a 50-50 chance in convincing her for a MFM.