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Age is just a number. We are still playing, he is 76 and she 67. We have had no problem meeting couples on sites, and have made some good friends. He will have clocked up 50 years in the LS at the end of next year. We may be a bit slower these days, but it is still fun.

Everything we do in life has risks, including swinging. You say she's loyal, Im assuming she loves you. If that's the case, what Im hearing are your own insecurities. Mrs Doc says that where ever we go in the swinging world, when the cloths fall off, there will always be someone thinner, or better boobs or with a bigger dick and if so, so what? Swinging is about recreational sex and variety. Enjoy both. My advice, take it slow and work on your insecurities.

We have created a wonderful relationship, and the four of us have discussed at length the potential dangers of having such a relationship. As I've said, we're all on the same page. We had fun swinging, but realized after we found them, that we wanted more than just swinging, and they were looking for more too. This whole experience has been a pretty wild ride to say the least!

Good news is that you both meet the most important test and that is you are willing to talk about it. Reasons are unimportant what is important is communication. Talk rool play and then go for if you are both interested. We did long ago, but as I remember when we agreeded to give it a try we also agreeded if it was not something we wanted to do again we would not judge each other. Truth is other than nerves the first time and not know how to get rid of the other couple after we did it so we could talk and make sure we were both still ok with everything, we had a blast and wanted to do it again maybe with a few less gitters. Been doing it ever since and it's only brought us closer, we are still each others best friend and lover, but a little new adventure now and then adds to our relationship and while having sex with others is fun and exciting we have no desire to spend the night sleeping next to anyone but each other.

We have remarked previously that kids construct their reality based on what they see in their parents' behaviors. We have never hesitated to hug and kiss in the presence of our daughter. Casual nudity in our home was and remains the norm. She was told that mom and dad needed private time, and that was the only time our bedroom door was locked. She always had age appropriate information on sex. We told her that when she was ready, we preferred that she have sex under our roof where she--and not the boy--was in control of the situation. When we went on our first clothing-optional vacation, we told her. When we started having adults over for pool parties (we made sure she had friends to stay with that evening), she didn't take long to figure it out. Nor did it particularly phase her. Why? Because what matters to her is that we are her parents, we are still together, we are still in love. In an era of broken families, blended families, single parent families, second and third marriages, step-whatevers, we have been constants and we have been her parents. She is bi-situational, yet she is somewhat prudish. She does not want our lifestyle at this point--she wants a romantic marriage-- yet she wants our happiness.

I was not discovered "in flagrante delicto" but my Mom and Dad were presented with circumstantial evidence by the dog. While my girlfriend and I were alone in the house, the dog took off with the used condom in his mouth. Neither of us could determine to where the beast had carried the thing. Later that evening, after girlfriend had left, the dog put the condom at my dad's feet. My Dad said, "you and I need to have a talk."

If any experienced and open wives say that you don't like to see your men suck cock, You are FUCKIN' liars!! I used to have my boyfriends share a guy with me since college, where I got to photo as I was a photography major. Now, we have Bi pictures in our home. Laura Laura and Dave Vegasnudecoupe

I had my first male/male encounter in an MFM threesome about 40 years ago. What a surprise, when my VERY straight friend cupped my balls & stroked them while I fucked the young lady with us. The ice broke, & we spent the whole night taking turns fucking her as we stroked & sucked each other in between. The next morning, I felt amazing, & more completely my sexual self. & I have done it many times since.

I've both sucked dick (and swallowed) as well as having been blown by guys. It's been in particular situations with two particular guys and their wives. In the situation it was fun, but it's near the bottom of my list of sexual activities and not something I seek out.