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Actually, hell no. Swinging is based on love trust and communication. Cheating is the opposite of trust and love. Just because she doesn't want to 'see' it right now, doesn't mean that she won't eventually see it. When that happens, here comes the drama and we do our best to avoid drama. So, once again, our answer is absolutely not.

No.

JandKinBoise, If as you posit and it is a mutual way that they deal with some issue and she is blind to his "cheating" by her choice, and it is an accommodation to help an otherwise good relationship function , then Yes I would mind my own business. If , however he is a cheat and therefore a liar I would steer a wide path around him. I steer the same clearance around anyone who I now lies in any area. A butcher who underweighs, a car dealer who knowingly sells defective cars, a contractor who promises the moon with a track record of not delivering each will lie and cheat in other area as well and I want no part of it. If I have a reason to distrust someone or their partner, then playing is off the table. I know that does not totally eliminate risk. I can always be fooled by a really good story, but that is life. Knowingly stepping into it is , for me, just plain out of the question.

No it's just a rumor. I'm black and ive been getting looked at strange for as long as i can remember because I'm average at most (even thats a stretch). I just recently quit caring about my lack of size according to the stereotype. Race has jack to do with penis size

It's been a few years since we've been on the site, but you might check out https://www.dirty-david.com/ At the time we came across a few people in the region, including China. A word of warning though - be careful about visibility in China as the lifestyle is not tolerated officially. A search on the web for China swingers should provide the links for this. As far as Desire or Hedo type resorts in the area, we're not aware of any. The closest we've seen is a small swinger resort (hotel actually) in Pattaya, Thailand (Rama Kien). Not sure if they are still in business though as their website no longer seems active. Good luck on your search and do let us know if you find anything more promising!

This whole thread made me sick to my stomach. Fetishizing Black people is so yuck.

I'm slightly above "average". Never really had any hangups about my size. It is what it is and I can't do anything about my size. Can I?LOL. What I can do is keep trying to improve my skills. We recently had our first full swap at a club. The guy had a bigger cock than me and I heard my wife say several times that he had a big cock when she was blowing him and she just about begged him to put that big cock in her while he was eating her pussy. I thought it was hot. If a big cock turns her on then it turns me on. The guy had skills too and he was aggressive the way she likes so she got fucked good. I liked knowing she was enjoying it and hearing her tell him to give her that big cock and fuck her harder. She came several times for him and even commented on his size afterward when we checked in. It came down to she was hot for him that night and had a great time. That's what it's all about and we do this for the variety right? I fucked the guys wife. She was decent but honestly my wife is a better, more passionate and active fuck. I'd swap with them again just so my wife could have that guys cock if she wanted it. She and I fucked at the end of the night and she made a point to tell me she like feeling my bare cock filling her with my cum best. I know that is the truth. If we met that couple out at the club next time and she wanted to fuck him again I'd be fine with it. Hell, I might go run him down for her. My wife has a nice tight pussy and some really good head skills. My wife is always picking out the hottest looking women in the club and asking me if I'd like to fuck her so she's not insecure about it either. If I found a gal that competed with her skills or looks, yeah, I'd be pursuing her as well but will always go home with my wife.

In college, I developed a bi curiosity in my frat. Lots of partying, drunk nights, etc with a lot of horny 18-22 year olds. Seeing in shape, smooth young jocks wrestle around, play sports, etc started giving me a hard-on... Great times were had when I met another curious guy drinking one night. That soon turned into daily jerk off/blow job sessions. Young, dumb and full of cum.

I love fucking a guy and then seeing the intense sex between him/his wife that follows. Dominating him, having his wife see him as a cock sucking, bottom bitch...mmmm yummy

You would have loved watching those guys. I went to a "Dicks only" party once. 10 , masculine bi Guys who knew each other well...sucking, jerking and rough sex. It was HOT. Lots of cum, grunting, etc...First time I've ever had an 8 inch cock in my mouth...really tested my gag reflex. I'd love to go to one again.

From personal experience, I agree. I am older than most of you. As I got older , I have gotten curious about men's equipment. I like looking at men with erections on usenet. Just about a month ago I was at an adult video arcade. It had glory holes. First time I had seen one. The man in the next booth stuck his erection through the hole. It was rather long and big. It looked clean and I thought it was a very nice one. I played with it and gave him oral as best I could. It was difficult to get to him because of space. I did enjoy doing it. The feel of him in my mouth and feeling him liking it. He did not cum. I didn't want that. A few minutes after he left, another man came in and stuck his through the hole. His was about as long and not as big around and not cut. I was not attracted to his. I played with it but that's all. I think he was younger. Never saw any more of either except their dick. I will probably go back again. My wife who I do still love very much is ill and in no condition for sexual activity. Is this cheating? I don't think so. I would die before letting her or anybody else know this. I don't consider myself gay or even seriously bi. Given a choice of a clean, decent, man or woman, I would normally take the woman. I am curious though, I would like one time to find a man that I knew was clean suck him to completion while deep-throating him. Sorry about the length of this. I have no interest about a man doing me. I would let him if he wanted it. Never any kissing or anal.