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Don't think so. I believe confident and friendly without being arrogant matter more.

I thought the same thing when I read 9 inch penis. I think we should look for the rest of this story at sexstories.com in the fiction category.

Well, that last post was a bit odd and has set off my troll detector. I think we may need video proof to disspell any troll allegations!!!!

I agree with a lot of the other posters about paying too much attention to her behaviors with dick sucking and not enough time getting her aroused. For me personally I need lots of rubbing and some oral to get me going and ready. As far as the rules, we also experienced an issuer because we didn’t talk the rules out with the other couple and we went into the situation thinking we were doing full swap, but the other couple was wanting just the girls to play so we really should have expressed rules for both couples BEFORE we went back to the hotel room with them. So it’s not a sexy conversation to have but if you expect others to have a good time and you guys have strict rules about how each person can get pleasure it’s unfair to the other couple if you do not explicitly talk about rules and boundaries before hand.

My personal opinion is the fewer the playtime rules the better. I honestly couldn't imagine watching how my wife sucks another mans cock, paying attention to how she is doing it to see if she is breaking a rule. That wouldn't be enjoyable at all. If you're watching for that you're not enjoying yourself with your partner. You may not be watching for it per-say but you look over and question, is she deep throating him? That instantly takes you out of your play time. Now you're more worried about the rules than fucking. I think you guys need to sit down and discuss the rules again. Work through why it would be okay to suck a mans cock but not okay to deep throat or play with the balls? Wouldn't it make more sense, be more enjoyable and honestly easier all around if you could agree that if your wife would like to suck another mans cock, she should suck his cock however she feels comfortable sucking it? If both of you are comfortable enough to have sex with another couple or single, why would kissing be considered too intimate? Is it really something that needs to be avoided? I completely understand having rules and level of comfort. Are we a full or soft swap couple? Do we play in same or different rooms? Will we play with friends or coworkers? Will we hot wife or do hall passes? Will we only pay safe or will play without condoms with select people be permitted? The lifestyle is full of things to discuss and to agree upon ahead of time. Having said that, you guys are in the lifestyle to have sex with other people. That means giving and receiving as much pleasure as you possibly can. If my wife is comfortable doing something she will do it. If she is not she will let her play partner know. Once we start to play we have zero restrictions. There is no, you do this only with me or.. you don't do this with me so you can't with someone else. My wife doesn't swallow my cum. She's tried it and does not particularly enjoy it. So I don't cum in her mouth. On two separate occasions she has taken her partner in her mouth and swallowed some portion of it. In that moment, with this person, in this sexy environment it is what she wanted to do. What logical reason would I have for getting upset by that? What you do is completely up to you. That may not work for everyone but it works very well for us. Talk it through, let go of insecurities and enjoy your journey into opening up your marriage.

Dear Friends We are a young married couple (37M & 30F) and just started swinging and just loving it. We are looking to find a LUXURY resort (if at all available) to visit and visit and 'mingle' openly with like minded people (ideally in or around europe). Some suggested Cap D'Agde in the South of France? To be honest we were looking for something a little more upmarket/exclusive? We aim to travel around the 28th June 2018 ANY SUGGESTIONS PLEEEEEEASE??

There have been a number of post like this one over the years and I can’t understand what’s so confusing about this subject. I’m not saying that my view of this is the correct viewpoint, I’m just saying that you need to view this for what it is, and if what’s taking place is alright with you then go for it. First swinging is the act in which a couple gain pleasure or enjoyment from sexual contact with other people. If one of you is having fun and the other isn’t I don’t consider that swinging. But that’s neither here nor there, if what’s taking place is what turns you both on whatever it’s called is irrelevant. What you need to do is to wise up to what’s really taking place. The first thing you need to know is that there’s not a woman in this country that’s going to make multiple six-hundred-mile trips to see a man that’s not rocking her world. You can call what she’s doing anything you want. The bottom line is that your wife has another man in her life. I will just say that if she’s telling you what you say she’s telling you, and you’re accepting that as fact. Then you may want to google the term GULLIBLE. The two of you wanted to invite another man into your play time to spice things up a little. That means he’s joining you and is expected to play by your rules. If he’s not happy with playing with the two of you in a three-some scenario that’s fine. Send him on his way and find somebody that is. All of this talk about wanting to make him feel comfortable and going along with what he wants is a crock. If he can’t get off doing what gets the two of you off, then he’s not what he represented himself as being. Your wife has feelings for this man and she wants her relationship with him to be exclusive. She doesn’t want you included in whatever is taking place between the two of them. We’ve only had a glimpse of what’s going on, but if what you’ve said is true you owe it to your relationship to either discover the truth or put an end to it before it’s too late. Don’t try to bog this down with labels, this man is searching for a relationship, and from the sounds of it he found the target of his search in your wife.

Blah, blah, blah!! You're in the perfect place to give this hobby a look. Spend a few saturday's at Haulover beach, chat with other naked couples. Swingers are easy to identify when naked. Set a few rules for yourselves and go to Trapeze on a Sunday night. The crowd is smaller and less frenetic than saturday night but it's always a friendly group. Dress provocatively, have dinner, chat with people, relax with a few adult beverages. Then go to the back in the provided towels. Again, walk around, look around, chat with people, stay close to each other and talk about what you're seeing. Stay within your initial rules that first night. You'll have lots to discuss when you get home that night and during the next week or so between bouts of wild monkey sex. Trust me, if nothing else, a night there observing will be a hugely erotic experience

Having to check off a lot of rules is distracting. Distractions kill arousal. If kissing is a part of your sex play together, its natural that it is then part of the arousal process for both of you and if she's not aroused, she's not wet. Its a silly rule and we agree completely with PSU (We ARE…). No kissing is for us means no play no matter how hot the couple is.

Looks like everyone has their own rules. Kissing, if you read all the posts, is a big rule for some couples. I don’t understand that rule, I think it just is a way for some to think they aren’t being intimate. To me that’s crazy. If I can kiss a penis or vagina why not lips? For not giving your all on a blow job I ask why are you there with someone else. Do you hold back too? I can’t answer on dryness. Is it age or an infection? Does she ever have this at home?

Hello, here is my insight as the "extra guy". First, I sense that you are not quite comfortable with alone time so I would not have that happen. If you are ok with alone time, sometimes it is better for the guys to be alone first. I have had some very interesting conversations with the husband that were very helpful...like, she really likes this....if you want to squirt,do this, are you good doing? She really gets hot and wet etc etc. If there is only alone time with the extra guy and her or you start to feel left out, have a code word between the two of you. Establish trust slowly. Us guys know we are less than a dime a dozen.....Yep. It pays to be a humble guy. The more experienced I get, the better I can read both the wife and hubby. Are they on the same page? If not, I normally say something like "you are both very attractive but I don't want to create any drama so I am stepping awhile" This is never done DEAR JOHN style but more like I apologize for not creating "the magic". I enjoy MFM because DVP is so awesome and you all need to work together and trust each other for that to succeed and when it takes a few tries and everyone laughs, you know it is good. I hope that makes sense. Please let me know how it works out and if this was helpful.

We finally went to Gunnison Beach this summer. Once you get to the beach and realize everyone is nude, and no one is even noticing you, getting out of your swim suit was not difficult. For those who never went to a nude beach, don't expect anything sexual going on. It is a bunch of every day people shedding their clothes and enjoying a beautiful beach, and on this one, NYC is the backdrop. I have to admit the first walk away from our chairs was scary for 10 seconds. Then I noticed, nobody gave us a second glance (hey, why aren't you looking at me? or at least my beautiful wife?...lol) Yes all kinds of bodies and for the most part as the old saying goes, a beautiful woman in a tiny bikini is sometimes hotter than a nude woman. At first you think, boy I wish I didn't have to see that nude, but than you realize it's just a body and am I any better? You will see beer bellies, sagging breasts and plenty of middle aged and older people having a good time just like on a "normal" beach, except here they can enjoy some wine or beer without being fined. They are also respectful of others and clean up when they are leaving. With all that being said, my wife and I did enjoy our walk and people watching. (not staring) How can you not notice the guys who are endowed? Even I said wow to my wife. And the younger (and not that younger) woman, wondering is it real or an implant. Yes. my wife showed disappointment, not disapproval, when she saw two very good looking, as she called them Adonis's holding hands. The beach is just like any other beach...except unclothed and we felt normal there.

It took convincing, but the Mrs and I have gone to Gunnison a few times and we loved it. She didn't realize that it was about freedom, not sex. It was an enlightening experience! I'm not the only one with a less than perfect body and nobody cares anyway!

We have been going to Gunnison, in Sandy Hook, New Jersey for over 10 years. We are both very comfortable in our own skin. It's amazing to walk along the beach totally nude with the New York Skyline in the background, I never feel as free as when I'm completely nude outdoors.