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You said it. No one is perfect. If I'm to that point with a woman I've likely gotten to know her well enough, even if that's over the course of just an evening, that I'm turned on by her mind, her personality, her body language, her willingness, her confidence, etc that I'm going to be turned on even more by getting to her labia regardless of what they look like. Let put this another way. Do you think an average penis size or some small love handles will make a difference to you if it comes packaged in an otherwise attractive man who has been suave, charming and confident enough to seduce you to the point that you want to have sex with him?

We are making our 3rd trip for the year to Pearl in early November. Was there Jan 2017 and again Jan 2018 and May 2018. Did a pass to RM for a day/night and stayed at Cabo twice while it was open. Since your questions were on Pearl, we will focus there. Our first two trips to Pearl were fantastic and we could not wait to get there again. Service, food, rooms...everything was great. But our last trip to Pearl last May we noticed a decline in the food quality and selection. At the end of the trip we were disappointed in the change/decline. The service and everything else remained great. We are hoping that has been resolved prior to our return. We will be booking for late January 2019 again and if things are not improved we will seek other options (sad to say). We have high hopes for the new LS resort to open late next year in Puerto Vallarta (not connected to Desire in any way). As far as safety in MX, the media has done a fine job screwing up people's impression of travel in MX. Recent example is the 8 bodies found in Cancun. Headlines in USA TODAY "State Department orders travel advisory for Mexico after 8 bodies found in Cancun". The travel advisory was for 5 locations in MX (4 along the Pacific Coast and 1 for Juarez) which were the same locations for a while now. Nothing has been changed for the Cancun region. Still, like going to Chicago or Baltimore, watch where you go and what you do. The violence is targeted with gangs and drugs. We have been going to MX for 20 yrs now and one favorite spot was the state of Colima. But it is now on the Travel Advisory list for elevated risk and we no longer go there.

So glad I found this forum. I'm looking for advice/experiences. We're a couple in our early-mid 30s. We've been married 8 years and have a very happy, healthy, trusting relationship. We also have a great sex life. Last night, we had our first discussion about swinging over a couple drinks. (It actually happened unexpectedly - my husband found a webpage I left open about "how to talk to your husband about swinging" - oops! So thankful he was open and willing to discuss rather than getting angry.) Anyway, this was all my idea. I've been having fantasies for a long time that involve my husband with other women, me with other men, etc. It's getting to a point where I'm VERY curious about swinging. I'd like to open our relationship up to some new sexual experiences and diversity. I'm bicurious, and have no issues with other women being in the picture or with my husband being with another woman. The idea turns me on! Obviously, I know my feelings could change and I have no idea if I could go through with this, but you never know 'til you try. So last night... My husband was mostly curious about why I am interested in this, and he said, "So are we swingers now?" He said it's not something he's ever thought about and he really doesn't fantasize about being with other women. But he said if it's really something I'm interested in, he's open minded and we can start going down the "rabbit hole," as he put it. He said he'd start looking into it more with me. But he also said he's not sure about it all. He kept saying over and over that he can't imagine me with another man. And I said, "But even if you got to have sex with another woman? I thought that was like a man's fantasy." He said, "Eh, she'd have to be really fucking hot because you are really hot. And the idea of you with another man just takes away any appeal of me with another woman." Basically, he didn't seem bothered at all that I would want him to be with another woman or that I wanted to be with other men sexually - he was only bothered by the idea of someone else with me. I guess I'm just wondering if this is a pretty normal first reaction? He said he's not saying he could never get there, but he's not there yet. I just worry if the thought of me with someone else really bothers him....could he ever open up to the idea?? Also, where do we start? What else should I discuss with him? Thanks in advance for help/advice!

I think you have several preconceived notions probably stashed in your spank bank. A swinging couple are likely already satisfied with their spouse. Sex with others, for either of us, is recreational and is not as a result of any short comings we find in one another. Add recreational sex to your spank bank too.

Once the train is out of the station there is no turning back, be sure you can handle seeing your wife being pleasured by another man. We have been married 28 years and have been swinging for 11 years. I can attest this is one of the hottest things you will witness. Still after all these years it drives me wild. But just be sure you two have talked and talked and talked. We are meeting up tomorrow night also and it will be a fun and hot night. Be sure you talk about it after the evening is over and reclaim your wife. The reclaiming will make things go smoother when the evening is over and you two are alone. Good luck and have fun it is just about the orgasm.

Oh HELL no!!! Our starting to swing was a much discussed mutual decision. We started slowly, getting our feet wet and eventually, everything else got wet and we've had a blast for more than 15 years. Our only regret is that we didn't start sooner.

1- For non-Arabs How much Swinging with Arabian couples/ladies excites you? Do you think Arabian lady delicious,sexy? We are all different in some ways and we are all the same in most ways. An Arab woman catches my attention when she smiles. Arab women, in general, are no more but certainly no less exciting than other woman. 2- If you have chance to have Swinging with Arabian couples, What acts would you prefer to do with them? I enjoy the good old-fashioned "missionary position", as many people of the Western World like to call it, owing to the fact that being able to look into a play partner's eyes make me feel more-closely connected. 3- What we would do for you? what your fantasies? You have no need to think to hard on this question and you have no need to try too hard to please people. Be yourself and act in-the-moment. Your play partners will almost certainly be pleasantly surprised. 4- What's your experience with Arab? Or how would you sexual feeling if it happened to you or your partner? While a "guest worker" in a large city in Saudi Arabia, I was invited, through an intermediary, to the home of a Lebanese woman. She had been observing me while at the dining hall of a residential facility for expatriot workers. While at her home, her husband invited me to have some time with her alone. The time we spent was very enjoyable. Both my wife and I would feel good about meeting Arab people.