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As someone who used to travel extensively for work realize it gets old very fast (and I was home for the weekends). Working and traveling during the day and then trying to find playmates at night...I think you will find that you will eventually find out you would rather just be at home. Don't have much more for you than this...

1) If you are concerned about an STI watch for symptoms and get tested. Although not impossible I would say the chances of infection are low. 2) You are not sexually compatible with the couple therefore the dating should not go forward. His issues are not your problem to solve and his desires are not your desires. Tell them thank you and move on. Swinging is exponentially more complex than binary dating. Three or four or more people must be in alignment for it all to work. Beyond casual coupling in a club scene, a couple finding the right couple has a long road ahead.

It's a common jumping off point for many couples. If that's where it stays for the two of you, great! Clubs are a good venue for this. Most, I think, will have play areas dedicated to voyeurism/exhibitionism.

I would go further & suggest this is their modus operandi. I wonder how many other couples have been caught out!

Thanks to all for the info. Sounds like I've been a little too worried. Now to find a time that we can make it.

For whatever reason couples make their own rules. Either you deal with or you move on.

I've got to say, I'm relieved that someone wrote one of these fetish stories that isn't about black guys.

I've watched and participated quite a bit at this point. The only real "what happens after" is that we have twice as much sex as usual for week or two. I do think it requires having total confidence in each other and that there are no ulterior motives at work, that the relationship is the priority and this is just for fun. People struggle with that both with general baggage about sex and fears about their relationships. As for what it was like, it was just extremely intense the first time. It was just soft swap, but when you've cum in a woman's mouth a couple thousand times, you know her technique inside and out and watching it is a far more vivid kind of voyeurism than you're going to find in any pornography or stage show, up to the moment when she starts working hard to finish him off all the way through to those few protracted gulps and wiping her mouth. I had been too stunned to even pay any attention to my own erection, but got some help with that halfway through. I was rock hard but totally distracted, until she joined in, visibly a mess from sucking off the other husband, and was mingling tongues with the other woman sucking me. That was when I had to stop and walk away for a minute to get a beer because I wasn't going to last another minute if I didn't. Point is, it was just fun. Since then, we've had a number of visits with those same two couples, and done plenty of full swap with them. Never any drama, and any doubts we've had before we jumped in always turned out to be over-analyzing. We always treat whatever happens as a warm-up act for whatever happens next and just have fun. Sometimes that means one of us is sitting out while the others screw and it's fine. Finding the right mix of attitudes helps.

When I had performance problems I knew I'd rather not be doing what I was. I suspect that's the situation with "C". As Sawman wrote, y'all are not sexually compatible. Sometimes a couple must surrender to insurmountable difficulties.

A bare pussy makes me feel like I'm a pedophile. Pubic hair is an age-old symbol of sexual maturity. Besides, most of the things I read say that being bare is not the best from a health standpoint? Shouldn't have probably said that last part as I'm not a medical person, but I am usually not hesitant to talk about stuff having little or no knowledge!! LOL

I'm going to be really interested in the responses to this one because, not being there, I have to say I can't answer the question. Just not enough information, and I can imagine myself being in something similar and doing various things. One rule though, my spouse and our relationship comes first. Second rule, I can't control others' feelings. If Mike did what you and he needed, that would be "right" in my book.

"Letting them down easy" is probably not possible. Telling the truth is always the best solution to a difficult situation.

Those letters weren't REAL??? Say it ain't so!!!!