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To be made by the one doing the swallowing.

^^^^Yep, this is us. It's fun, it's exciting, it's fantasy fulfillment but when it's done it's done. We don't have a whole lot of rules. 1)Same room(because we like watching each other, she's my favorite porn star) and 2)condoms for vaginal penetration. Neither of us are a fan of anal so that doesn't even have to be brought up. We had discussions about kissing early on and realized that kissing is an integral part of getting turned on and connecting with a sexual partner. It doesn't have to be this big emotional thing. We've agreed that while we are playing we won't freak out if either of us says or does something that may seem overly emotional at the time chalking it up to the heat of the moment. She, of course, was the one who was more concerned with this in the beginning but she's also the one who becomes more passionate as things progress and now she realizes that trying to hold back some of that passion would detract from the experience. If it is still bothersome afterward we can bring it up and talk about it so that we know to adjust our behavior accordingly next time. As far as swallowing goes, she will swallow with me and it can really turn her on to do so. I think she sees it as something intensely intimate so I would be surprised if she did it with someone else but I don't think I would have a problem with it. I certainly wouldn't expect it to be reciprocated by the other wife just because she did. That's a very personal choice.

Hey. I'm just trying to find out information about whether this is common or usual. I went dogging with a mate for the first time a couple of weeks ago and had a good time. We watched a girl blowing a couple of lads and wanked off. Thought about it for a few days and went back on my own and there was only a few guys there wanking and watching porn on their phones. I just kind of did the same. A lad came up and asked if I wanted to wank. I didn't think about what he meant and said yes. I've wanked with mates before obviously but never made contact with a guy. He grabbed my dick and wanked me off and I grabbed his and returned the favour. It was really good id I'm honest. I thought about what it would be like to touch another guys dick before (hasn't every guy?) and it was better than I expected. He did a good job wanking me off too. Shot a couple of big loads and that was it. I think I want to do that again. I'm just wondering if this is common or normal in the swinging/dogging scene. He was married, he had a wedding ring on. I'm single so I don't need to worry about cheating or anything like that. Any other guys experienced that? Is it something you do? Thanks for any advice.

I doubt that many people misunderstood, Agreatguy. I was just underlining the obvious. Thanks for the back-up!

Of course. I may have made an incorrect assumption that it went without saying. Thanks for clarifying for me for anyone that thought otherwise.

Watching and being watched is one of the reasons I got into the lifestyle and stay in the lifestyle. The thrill of being watched especially has never worn off.

Have been blocked once by a profile (single guy or couple...we are not sure). But the profile seemed to good and the pictures were something else. My wife noticed different women in the shots. So I did an image search and sure enough, all the pics had been picked of various porn sites. Called him on it and poof...blocked. Don't recall the profile name or I would have reported it to SLS admin.

We have had some playmates who take it too far and seem to want to establish a boyfriend-girlfriend atmosphere. We are just playing for fun and exercise. If people cross the boundary, we have a talk if it would help or they are outta here. But we are not big on rules, other than our preferences.

Agreed! We make love to one another, we boink our friends. That doesn't mean that there aren't tender moments with friends but depth of feelings remain between us. On a side note, we've reduced our rules to just a few, same room to start (1st time anyway), no anal, no pain or humiliation and ladies cum 1st. Damn…we really ARE easy!!

My first DP at a house party. Like most, I typically don't do anal at house/hotel parties and don't even prep for it, but for that particular party something told me I should do the prep before going. My intuition was right.

I don't think there is a requirement to stop once you or your partner cum. if you feel like going on go ahead. If he needs to take a break, then it is ok for him to take a break. After you have cum and still feel in the game I find it very exciting watching the other couple and assisting if they need some more excitement.

My wife and I just got back from hedo. It was our first time there and we will definitely be back. It was amazing. Resort is really nice. Food was delicious. Staff were great and the guests were so friendly. There is so much to do and you can also relax when you want. There is lots of opportunity to watch or play if you want, full or soft. We never had any pressure and had many play experiences. It totally exceeded our expectations.

Thanks for an honest review. Food and beverages are important but as long as the quality is consistent with the price paid we're good with that. Our last trip to the Cancun area was to an all inclusive which was a real disappointment. The concierge greeted us with a glass of champagne but then almost immediately started the upsell on premium services. Once we declined that we felt like outcasts from that point on. We inquired one day about help with arranging an afternoon trip to a specific off sight attraction for which there were several billboards on the trip from the airport to the resort. The concierge didn't know anything about it, said they'd never heard of it and couldn't help then pointed to the several tour guide group representatives gathered in the lobby suggesting one of them may be able to arrange something (for a fee). Ugh! The food was OK but nothing to get excited over, the drinks were watered down badly and all tasted the same. I think they actually watered them down with pineapple juice or something. Service on the beach was non existent if you didn't have the premium wrist band. The staff would walk right by us and our empty drink glasses to pick up the empties of premium members. We were finally told by some other guests that you'd get some attention if you were known to be good tippers but you had to do that up front. On the last day we were so put out by the service we went down the beach and paid for drinks and food. The ceviche was some of the best I've ever had. Drinks were premium brands and not stupid expensive. Lunch, dinner and drinks all together was just over $100. Even the beach was better. My first trip to an all inclusive was to a well know place in Jamaica years ago with my ex. You didn't have to lift a finger for anything. The staff was always friendly and helpful and wouldn't accept tips if you offered them. I think they would get reprimanded for doing so. Since then I/we have been to Jamaica, Cozumel and Cancun area all-inclusives several times over the years. Cozumel last year was the first time I saw this premium membership thing. It allowed top shelf drinks and they had a certain place on the beach. OK that's fine. I was mostly drinking beer anyway except at night I usually switch to whiskey and they had some decent well brands. The segregation wasn't that big of a deal because we weren't there looking to meet other people for anything in particular although we did make some vanilla friends. He and I dove together two days and we had a meal with them and two other couples we met so again no big deal. Oh, and premium guests had access to some kind of lounge that never really seemed to be very busy. That last trip to Cancun earlier this year really turned us off but Pearl sounded like it wasn't going that way. I may be projecting a little but based on those recent Google and TripAdvisor reviews it sounded like service was leaning toward those premium membership upgrades. That's fine I guess although I don't want to be segregated from a significant portion of the guests especially in an 88 room resort. It just seems like it would be too limiting in an environment meant to be as unlimiting as possible. We were looking at booking something in October. It looks like everything is booked now. We may try to make a trip in January. Not at all worried about the safety. That deal in Cancun last last year was obviously cartel related, the bodies I believe were all of locals known or suspected to be involved in illegal activities. I've never felt unsafe in Cancun.

We are making our 3rd trip for the year to Pearl in early November. Was there Jan 2017 and again Jan 2018 and May 2018. Did a pass to RM for a day/night and stayed at Cabo twice while it was open. Since your questions were on Pearl, we will focus there. Our first two trips to Pearl were fantastic and we could not wait to get there again. Service, food, rooms...everything was great. But our last trip to Pearl last May we noticed a decline in the food quality and selection. At the end of the trip we were disappointed in the change/decline. The service and everything else remained great. We are hoping that has been resolved prior to our return. We will be booking for late January 2019 again and if things are not improved we will seek other options (sad to say). We have high hopes for the new LS resort to open late next year in Puerto Vallarta (not connected to Desire in any way). As far as safety in MX, the media has done a fine job screwing up people's impression of travel in MX. Recent example is the 8 bodies found in Cancun. Headlines in USA TODAY "State Department orders travel advisory for Mexico after 8 bodies found in Cancun". The travel advisory was for 5 locations in MX (4 along the Pacific Coast and 1 for Juarez) which were the same locations for a while now. Nothing has been changed for the Cancun region. Still, like going to Chicago or Baltimore, watch where you go and what you do. The violence is targeted with gangs and drugs. We have been going to MX for 20 yrs now and one favorite spot was the state of Colima. But it is now on the Travel Advisory list for elevated risk and we no longer go there.

Thanks for the feedback. The reviews I have seen have been in the last few weeks. Our experience with other non-lifestyle resorts recently has been mixed. Some on the mainland seem to ignore the non membership guests to the point where beach service doesn't exist, concierge service is fine up to the point you decline membership etc. Just wanting to make sure this isn't happening at Pearl before we book a trip. As far as other water sports, I love diving but don't plan on spending that kind of time away from her on a lifestyle vaca. I don't think she would be all that comfortable being left alone. At least not on our first trip. Cozumel is a better diving destination anyway. I've walked through Hedo while staying at Sandals next door. Seems like a pretty wild and crazy party atmosphere and not really the vibe we're looking for. Pearl seems to be more our style so wanted to be sure it wouldn't be a bust.

You mention Hedo, interacting with people, and diving in your post. We've been to Hedo 15 times since 2011 and love it there. You can have the vacation you want at Hedo. There is a reason why there so many of their guests return again and again. I know of no other place where there are so many wonderful and friendly people from all over. All the water sports, including diving, are part of the all-inclusive. There are no hard-sell tactics there and no segregation of guests. While there may be some security concerns in Kingston and Montego Bay, Negril is much safer, especially if you stay on the resort property. Go with a group to get better rates. If you are interested in Hedo, check out their website for info and which groups are going when, find one that you like that is there when you want to go. We have gone with a few different groups, but like the Fluffernutters. (Google them.)

Blocked once: we met another couple for dinner, there wasn't a match, and for whatever reason they blocked us. We were not interested in them either, but blocking us just seemed rude...but we got over it. Probably blocked us so we didn't keep coming up in their searches.