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We are 100% condom compliant for full swap. We realize that condoms are not fully protective against HPV and HSV. We get tested annually. We don’t ask for others’ tests, because if they have sex once after the test, the results are worthless. You have to be lucky in this hobby.

How would you tell if you weren't swinging? At least swingers are open to talking about it and not taking offense when it is brought up. Most swingers are responsible and truthful when it comes to most things, including this and more than a few get regular testing. Life is a chance, but if nothing else, we still have a condom only rule for everyone.

It's not a rude or odd question here as it's been asked many times. It may be awkward in a real life situation at first but that conversation should ever be considered rude by the couple you are interested in. If it is you should probably move on from them. Actually there is a forum dedicated to it on this board. https://www.swingersboard.com/std-and-safe-sex-issues/ You'll see a variety of advice, theories and attitudes about the topic. They should be read but take the advice with as much discretion from anyone you would consider a stranger. It's mostly biased toward their own situations but it is informational about how others approach the topic. Probably the most reliable information, medically and statistically speaking, is available here: https://www.cdc.gov/std/default.htm You have to figure out what risks are worth taking FOR YOU and not anyone else then play by those rules. No decision on how one chooses to play is necessarily wrong but anyone not willing to comply with your decisions are not worth your time.

You can ask but as some responses have given if they test clean and have unprotected sex after well it is not worth anything. One can ask, safe sex is often practiced by many. We chose to have an old friend and he rode her bareback, came inside etc... giving her the greatest experience. But choose carefully.

No assurance. Yinz jus never know, as we in Picksburgh would say.

Is it an option to have a quiet word with the husband ? If you like this couple a lot it might make sense to try and resolve the issue, it could just be a bit of banter on his part or him trying to make your wife feel good , it's really hard to say without being there. If that's not an option then how about getting your wife to ask his wife if she was indeed a bit put out by what he said.

On our first visit to Paris, we paid 75$ per person to watch a show that we thought was going to be a sex show. Two girls appeared shook a bit of their ass, took of their bra and left the stage. We felt cheated and vowed that never pay again to watch a sex show. Show it to them and they will show it to you - all for free. Since then we have been doing it all in the open, between us and with others.

Eddiem, everyone on this board understands you meant to write “preyed upon”. Probably an autocorrect change. But I’m trying to decide what would be worse at a sex club, what actually happened to you and your wife or on the other hand, having a group of people lay hands on and start praying for you.

My wife and I have been swinging for more than 10 years now, although lately we are just taking a break and keeping to ourselves. However, our first gangbang started up spontaneously at a swingers club in our area about 8 years ago. We went there to get us a random guy from the club and invite him over to the private area for a MFM threesome, as we usually did. One day, though, the club owner opened the private “couples only” area where single men are not normally allowed unless invited by a couple and many single men started to roam the whole private areas. My wife and I were right in the middle of a threesome with another guy on one of them mattresses-like beds that they have at swingers’ clubs. Then, a few men just hanged around to watch us going at it. I knew my wife and I have talked many times about inviting more than just one guy to our sessions, so after a while, I just beckoned to the guys standing there to come over and play with us. Three guys jumped onto the mattress where we were and that’s where it all started. We were there for about four hours, guys kept coming and going. We don’t exactly know how many men my wife was with that night but at any point in time there were always at least five guys with her. We had a great time. I enjoyed seeing my wife with so many men, and she did enjoy sucking off men left, right and center. She was fucked many times and I judging from her moaning and screaming, I knew she was enjoying it like hell. I was with her all the time making sure nobody was rough with her and that she was treated with respect and that everybody used condoms when penetrating her. She gave the blowjobs “au naturel”, no condom. We were lucky that everybody was nice and friendly and no one was disrespectful to her. After all, that was our regular club, and we had never had a bad experience there. That was our first gangbang. We have had a few more gangbang sessions over the years, always in the same club. I guess that’s a nice way to get started on gangbangs. There is always a club owner and nice people in case someone is not friendly. Good luck with it. You are going to have a great time

I don't agree with this statement either. A gangbang is definitely my wife's fantasy and not mine. We have never done it and I'm not sure we ever will (I actually highly doubt it). Right now it's just my wife's fantasy and there's nothing wrong with leaving it as such. But it is 100% her fantasy.

It really shouldn't be a big deal. Someone is going to come first. It's not a porno where it's edited to look like everyone came at the same time. Sometimes you will be first, sometimes the other guy. Just go with the flow. Continue on with fingers and tongue, pause for a big drink of water, chances are your partner will give you clues if you are paying attention.

If one of you finishes too quickly, there's no reason she can't help the other wife until you're ready to go again.

I doubt that many people misunderstood, Agreatguy. I was just underlining the obvious. Thanks for the back-up!