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I post on here thoughts I can't post anywhere else. I am sorry if I am too personal. I found this board in a very strange way and I have found so many of you open to helping so many others. I know you aren't all sex addicts. I was afraid to post on here at first thinking who would be on this site. I found out that you are normal, for the most part. Business people, lawyers, doctors and just everyday people looking to help others with their doubts and curiosities. It looks like many of us have had the same experiences. I have shared some really private thoughts, being bisexual being the most scary I thought. I found it easy by being anonymous to share my experiences. My body is something I seem to have always had my doubts about. I know it is silly. I grew up with those who were all shapes. The friends who I thought were very pretty had doubts about their own bodies. I have a friend who to me has a perfect body and she she has always said to me that she wishes she had my body. When i was younger others developed before me. I wear glasses, my butt is flat, my hips wide. I was awkward. I was able to talk about looks with certain friends. I couldn't talk about what I looked like down there. For the most part this board is the first time I could really open up about it and only because it's anonymous. I have joked with my husband about it and he says that I am crazy. I have now in the last year or more seen other friends parts. Of course we are all different, maybe mine is just more different. I think I know how a guy with a small penis may feel. I think it is ridiculous for anyone to hide their body. I know that I have had good sex with someone who was on the small size. I think I had to prove to myself that I wasn't too big for him. He even said that it was great. So much for my Hump Day post

I am happy you understand. This is more than just having sex for us. It is an experience that we want to remember. Neither of us know if there will be a next time. I think if we continue to do more things we might experiment. I am not sure if we are ready for a club. It would be fun to have a drink with you if we ever go. I would think it would be interesting to listen to someone with experience. We came to this site seeking advice sort of anonymously. As far as sixty year olds screwing very very well, I sure hope so. I would hate to think sex ends at an early age. At this point we are first exploring. It’s all one step at a time. That unicorn is elusive. Our primary search centers on the women playing. I think a soft swap with a couple is possible.

This is one of my wife's (a Baptist preacher's daughter) biggest hangups on bringing a 3rd into the bedroom for a MFM. I'm okay with it based on the following. I read a post from a Focus on the Family leader in which questions had been asked regarding what's scripturally acceptable between a husband and wife in the bedroom. The counselor laid out the following guidelines for Christians. If it's done out of love for the pleasure of the wife/couple then it's really nobody else's business. Toys, oral, maturation, etc. are all okay, as long as everything is mutually consensual and within the boundaries of a marriage between a husband and wife. Where I disagree with them, and my wife's concern, comes from the adultery aspect. BUT...in the same thread they scripturally define adultery as sexual immortality, which they define as any activity OUTSIDE the boundaries of the marriage. By that logic, as long as it's within the boundaries of your marriage, is it still adultery/sexual immorality? I argue that it's not, because it's within the boundaries of a marriage. They're okay with your wife having sex with the molded likeness of a real man, but not the actual penis of the very same man? That's not a logical thought...at all. So, I don't, maybe I'm right...maybe I'm wrong. All I know is that I absolutely love pleasuring my wife, and would love to attempt to double that pleasure for her. If I'm wrong, then I'm willing to answer for that. It's already a pretty long list, so what's one more? Lol

Not in a swinging situation, but some women wear them at work because they don't want to shave their legs, at least not as often. Ha! Maybe the reason I'm considered so "confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings" (i.e. a bitch) is that I don't wear any lower underwear at work. I do, however, wear very conservative clothing - skirts at or below the knee, a bra with little to hold, nothing at all suggestive about my blouses. I just like to feel the air.

Advice: Get the room. It will give the two of you a place to withdraw to if needed to gather your wits and discuss things as they move along. Just because you have a room does not mean you are required to take anyone but yourselves back to it.

No we are in Sc. Its a hotel party we are not getting a room going just soft play our nerves are killing both of us, new to all of this. She's really wanting to try out the St Andrews cross she loves being teased.

Well, since I asked I guess I have to vote. Both are hot but my vote would be for the nurse. I'm sure which ever one you decide will be a hit and neither are too revealing. You'll see much less on others.

Da plane, da plane! Half of the stories on Fantasy Island had an undercurrent of sex. With all of the remakes on TV now, maybe it will make a comeback (and put more emphasis on the Fantasy part).

Perfect, Perfect, Perfect.

ViSex Thanks for the nice words. No I’m not the first one picked at parties. I am far from the prettiest one there. I know there are guys that like small breasts. My husband says he rather be with a small breasted woman. Do you ever hear guys saying Wow look at those small tits? No, guys gawk at big breasts. Even my husband has said look at the fuckin tits. I’m going to let you in on girl talk. We do notice a guy who has a big one. Even before I got introduced to parties with naked guys my friends and I noticed guy friends with a bulge in their pants. I think it’s just a thing that a guy is big. More of a fascination and a curiosity. I can’t remember anyone saying a guy is too small. I do notice guys who are smaller but would never say anything nasty or hurtful. I do worry that I’m too big and someone won’t feel me. I just always figured if I’m on top it would be good for both of us. Sorry I’m not interested in two in me like that at once. Also don’t want one in my butt and one in the puss. Oh, I am not interested in guys who are more interested in pleasing himself more than pleasing me.

We will only have threesomes with people that have much bigger cocks than me, my gf doesn't see the point otherwise. And yes, I look at them all the time. Sometimes I cum during sex solely from looking at a huge hard dick. One time I gave a hand job.

It seems that most of us here don't make such a big deal of it but I, too, very strongly remember that night in 1975 that my wife was penetrated by a friend of ours. And, I say friend because it only happened because we both knew, trusted, and liked him. He and I had gone through a Police Academy together. He was just out of college and I was just out of the military. He was a big, and very well built, guy. I'm thinking he was 6' 4" and probably 225. I was a tad shorter at 6' 2" and around 200 at that time. When it came to hand to hand combat training, we were always matched up. After we became cops he and his wife became friends with me and mine. None of us cops had much money so we all took turns having parties at each other's houses. At every party, and when slow songs were played, it seemed that my wife and he would be dancing together. His wife and I would even joke about it. It was obvious that they had the hots for each other. After a couple of years I got tired of being broke all of the time and got into sales. We bought a good 8MM projector and I'd found a copy of 'Deep Throat', which was all the talk at that time, and invited them and another couple from the force over to watch it. By the end of the movie the other couple were in a hurry to leave, certainly to take care of their needs, but our friends stayed and we drank, danced, and talked for quite a while longer. Yes, my wife was dancing with him and I was with his wife, either dancing or watching our spouses dance. When it was fairly late my wife said that she needed to sleep and went to bed. He said he was tired too and ready to go home. His wife said that she wasn't tired and I really wasn't either so it was agreed that I'd give her a ride, the short distance, to their house later. We talked and drank but there was really nothing sexual discussed. After an hour or so I drove her home and when I pulled into her driveway she, out of the blue, asked me if it ever bothered me when her husband was coming on to my wife. I, honestly, said it didn't and asked her if it did her? She grinned and said no, and that she actually sort of enjoyed it. Then she told me that they'd had a lady friend before that her husband had even had sex with and that hadn't bothered her either. OK, the dynamics changed quickly and, after a couple of more comments, she asked if I would feel mad if our spouses had sex instead of just dancing. I thought about it a moment and said that I didn't think so. Then she asked me if I thought she was sexy and if I'd ever considered having sex with her. I, honestly, said I'd never considered it but I did like her and would love to have sex with her. I really, really thought I was just going to get to fuck her there in the driveway. Well, she said for me to come on in and she hopped out of the car. We went inside and, as soon as she was through the door, she yelled for her husband and he came out. She told him what we'd talked about and he asked me if I was sure that it wouldn't make me mad if he and my wife did enjoy each other. I, honestly, said no and began to consider just what was about to transpire and liked the thoughts. I gave him the keys to my house and his wife and I sat and talked more about their experiences for almost an hour until he called to say it was cool. So, on the drive there, I pretty much knew that my wife had already fucked him. When his wife and I walked in my wife and him were sitting at the dining table. He had on one of my robes and she had on her own. My wife smiled sheepishly and told me that it was my turn to use the bedroom. His wife and I went straight there and didn't take very long to make things fair. When we came out the four of us talked for a short while before deciding that we'd all four go back to the bedroom. My wife and him began making out again but his wife said she'd like to just watch for a while. Hey, we'd just both had ours and were still recovering. We were all four on the bed. They were making out big time and his wife and I were sitting beside them naked and playing with each other. But we were mostly concentrating on what was happening beside us. That was the first time I'd really seen my wife's face while she was being eaten and it was the sexiest expression that I think I've ever seen. She was holding his head hard against her pubic mound with both hands. She, later, told me that his tongue was incredibly large and wonderful. While he was performing oral on her I couldn't help looking at his cock getting harder and harder and thinking about how it had been inside her so recently. I remember almost forgetting that I was sitting next to a very cute, and very naked, young lady myself. When he finally began crawling up onto my wife I was releived because I was almost afraid that the oral was going to be all there was for that encounter. My wife had, obviously, already had an orgasm. When he was completely on top of her and they were locked in kissing I wanted his cock in her but he wasn't making any effort to insert himself yet. I could see my wife hunching up with her legs around his thighs and knew she wanted it too. I don't know if he was just teasing her or hesitant because his wife and I were there. I just couldn't help myself and reached down under them and took his hard cock in my hand. I'll never forget the feel of the cock in my hand and his testicles laying on the back of my hand. I used one finger to confirm that my wife was ready, and I don't think I've ever felt her wetter. I remember thinking that it was not only her being so turned on but also because of his earlier, probable, ejaculations in her. I guided his cock into her and only released his cock when he was buried so deeply that I could no longer hold on without interferring in their pleasures.

Maybe it was because of the way I was raised, or maybe it was lessons learned later in life -- But I've never had any physically possessive feelings toward my wife. Physical stirrings, certainly! But I've known and understood clearly from day one that it's her pussy, not mine. I've had the privilege and joy of her sharing it with me, but I don't own her or any physical part of her. Owning her heart and mind is all that has ever mattered to me (and vice-verse for her.) If she ever wanted to give it to someone else, it's hers to do so with. Now, if that were done covertly, it would absolutely crush me -- not for the physical act, but for the deceit. (And she feels exactly the same.) With that said, it was strangely arousing to see her with another man. And it was thrilling to see and hear her expressions as she let herself go and became completely immersed in pleasure. Pride is probably not the right word to describe what else I felt, I mean I wasn't contributing anything by watching. But I did feel an immense feeling of satisfaction watching her reel and buck through what was probably the biggest orgasm I had seen from her in a long time. Look, to be totally honest (for which she may not forgive me, but we just got home and she just went to bed, so here I go...) After 8 years together, our love life has been less than spectacular as of late. I've had quite a few more experiences and exposures in life than she has, which seemed for a while to place the "suggestion box" for creativity and exploring right in to my hands. I don't know if anyone can relate to that position, but I will tell those who can't that after a while you just get sick of coming up with ideas and suggestions all by yourself. It can get a bit frustrating, to be succinct. So, the weekend was a great weekend of pent-up release, but it was also a huge door-opener for us. Here's the only anomaly for me after a great three-day camping trip... We went for a late breakfast after we packed up and left the camp grounds. Well, she and my buddy ordered dinners that came with the salad bar option. And, after ordering, they went together to fetch their rabbit food while I waited at the table. Later that day, while unpacking and cleaning our gear, my buddy tells me that she slid up next to him at the salad bar with an evil little grin and said, "You know, I came like ten f*cking times this weekend!" Nothing else, and she didn't act any different before or after saying that. So what? There is nothing covert or sinister about that observation or with her sharing it with him. Yet, that was the moment I felt the smallest pang of jealousy ( or envy if you read Fundamental Law's remark on jealousy thread. ) I attribute the pang I felt to it being our first time, and the thought that she had shared an intimate thought with him while I wasn't there. Not so much an issue of insecurity as an issue of not being there to share in the moment -- I felt sort of left out. Probably strange, but this board seems to reward honesty with advice, so there it is.

Any way you look at it the risk of drama and emotional issues are more than I can count...but if her and her mom are really interested and you don't mind if it causes drama or breaks up your relationship... You are all adults.