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Pretty much the same way you approach every other like/dislike/preference--early and clearly. I'm uncut, very happy with my equipment, but I don't expect everyone to feel the same. I find shaved pussies (especially if there is stubble) to be unattractive, but I realize that others are ok with that. Fine.

I have been wanting to ask this for awhile. Guys are obsessed with their size. Too big or too small. Guys like to brag how many inches or question if they are smaller. I wonder if I worry too much about my size. I have never had a guy complain I am too big there. I don’t think a guy having sex will really ever complain lol. I look in the mirror and I see myself. Small breasts. Growing up I used to be envious of my friends developing more than me. My nose is big. My butt is flat. My hips wide. I am thin, maybe too thin. Then there was Down There. I just thought mine was ugly. Was I too big? Too long? Too loose? My clitoris too sticking out? I researched and read vaginas are about 4-5 inches inside. I found a toy my mother had that was 8 inches and after school I would play with it and it would go all the way in. Was my mother big too? I couldn’t ask her. I felt better when I read that like men I could get bigger too. I still obsessed with the visible size. Again no guy ever complained. It wasn’t until I played with other friends that I got to see up close others. I feel mine is looser on the outside and I hate what it looks like.

Hi, everyone! I realize simply asking this question may offend some guys, but I don't know a better place to ask - so here goes. Uncut cocks are a total turn-off for me. How do you approach a like/dislike such as this before it's to late or without hurting someone's feelings?

So I know this isn’t a particular sexy post and can be controversial. But I’ve was wondering how many of us have had the battle of faith vr swinging. I am a man of faith regularly attend and volunteer at church I love my lord and seek him but I also want to swing. There are things that my wife and I want to try such as a dp gb and full swap. But I know if I let this part of my life get out that there would be a lot of shame and condemnation. I mentioned it to someone recently and it was meet with shame. So how do y’all feel about faith and swinging?

My wife and I are at odds as to what it means for a man to list his preference on a swing site as "open minded". My take on open minded is that a man is ok with close quarter contact that may happen when four people are in bed together and is non judgmental about a persons preference. Open minded male to me seems sexually adventurous that does not necessarily mean with the same sex. I consider myself open minded in my everyday life as I am tolerant of others beliefs and preferences as does my wife. She thinks that when a man lists open minded, it is code for bi sexual. Usually, in our vanilla life, we tend to gravitate toward open minded people. Is it different when we are talking "sexual open minded"?

Please excuse me posting my thoughts, something that haunted me when I was in my early and midteens, and now my family thinks my past imagined horrors are so silly they just dismiss it. I know that it is an unreal ghost, but for me it was once so real. As I went through puberty, both sets of my labia and especially my clitoris became so large I believed that I was intersexed, or an hermaphrodite (although being associated with a god seemed not so bad). My older sister calling me a freak certainly reinforced the idea. I was scared that my clit would keep growing (it did) and turn into a penis (it didn't). I was afraid that I would just need to hide it forever, that no one would ever want to love me in a physical way. It sometimes kept me awake at night and gave me stomach aches at school. Long story short, although my breasts are small and I appear muscular (only because I have low body fat), I never developed any other male characteristics. My voice is high, my nipples large, I have sparse body hair, and even now over thirty, I look like a girl. The first person to go Down There was Red; he was eager, I was horny and to my surprise he loved it, just loved it. (Red knew that I was a virgin, and it helped that he started by doing oral on me and that I had been opening my vagina up for years by using tampons and inserting my fingers when masturbating.) Now fourteen years, four more guys and numerous women later, they all have liked it, enjoyed it (as have I) and I am proud of whatever it is, is Down There. For a while, however, it was a personal hidden nightmare. Or woman has ever complained. Amazing how important that is to making us feel good about it.

Your wife and you are inviting him IN. Your pleasure is as much as his. Split it three way, same as the event. If you can afford it, pay full and feel like a royal couple.

I see no good purpose in using the two-word combination "no drama" in an on-line profile. * A drama couple typically do not see themselves as a drama couple. Consequently, you are liable to see the words "no drama" in a high-drama couple's profile. * To say in you profile that you want to avoid drama couples, the high-drama couples who do not realized that they are actually drama couple are still going to try to get in touch with you. * It is a generally good strategy to avoid anything in your profile that sounds negative.

Before it's too late is the best for you. Men are more than willing to show you a picture of their cock. Maybe you can tease them into sending you a picture of their cock. You can then respectfully decline because it's too big I don't know how you can respectfully get out of a situation the moment he exposes his naked cock to you. My advice would be to just let it flow. You, of course, can stop anything anytime. Once things get to the point where you can see his cock and you are repulsed by it things are not going to be happy.

Pardon me, but is this trip necessary? A vagina is capable of expelling a child, and can recover sufficient elasticity to pick up a lead pencil. I would venture to say that the "tightness' issue is actually a "non" issue. There are genuine issues and there are bogus ones, this is of the later variety. LOL