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Last friday night, my girlfriend Paula and I had sex with another couple! WOOHOO! Now, that might not be a big deal to most of you guys, but it is to me. I was in a very openly sexy triad with two women for 20 years, until one wife left us five years ago and my other wife passed away 18 months later. Since November of 2015, I have been a relationship with a lovely, sexy lady who was vanilla but very swing-curious. I decided early on that I was not going to push her into anything. The preceeding four years had been hell on me, and I was not about to screw up a wonderful, lustful relationship by asking for more. Paula liked to talk about other partners a lot, perhaps even a bit fascinated by the idea. We invented group sex fantasies together while having sex, which she found a big turn-on, but I was suspicious that it would remain just talk. Then, last week, Paula got a call from an old friend of hers. He he had been, at various times in her life, both a lover and a platonic friend, but he'd since moved away and married. Paula had previously identified him as someone she might be interested in swinging with. He called to say that he and his wife would be in town for a couple of days, and could we all meet for dinner? We agreed and met at an Italian resturant across town, near their hotel. I was meeting them for the frist time, so Paula took the driver's seat. She brought up my triad past and steered the conversation to things sexual, even reminding her friend about some of their sexual encounters. His wife responded with humor and curiousity, not offense. The wine kept flowing, and the other couple became more open about sharing their own sexual liberality, recounting some tales of same-room sex and some exhibitionistic encounters. By the time it was time to leave the resturant, Paula said we probably were not in a proper state to drive home, and should get a room at the hotel (even though I really don't drink and had only had one glass of wine!). "That is," she went on to say, "if you think separate rooms would be best." The guy immediately looked at his wife eagerly, and she agreed. Following them to the hotel, Paula couldn't shut up. She was so excited, she took off her hose and panties in the car. Once we got to the room, the guy's wife immediately started taking her blouse off. From there on, there was no awkwardness, no crossed signals. We were all there to fuck one other and we all knew it. We guys first got blow jobs from our own partners, then at her friend's suggestion, the girls took turns licking each other's pussies. It was Paula's first time! We eventually took turns penetrating both ladies. (Yes, we used condoms with the other guy's girl.) We didn't end up staying overnight. About midnight, Paula and I decided to head for home. Paula thought it was about the hottest thing she's ever done and says she wants to find a way to do it again. A day or two later she asked me, "Are you really not jealous about me wanting another guy's cock?" I said it truly didn't bother me in the least. She said that was incredibly freeing, and that I might have created a sex monster. I can only hope, right?

Please excuse me posting my thoughts, something that haunted me when I was in my early and midteens, and now my family thinks my past imagined horrors are so silly they just dismiss it. I know that it is an unreal ghost, but for me it was once so real. As I went through puberty, both sets of my labia and especially my clitoris became so large I believed that I was intersexed, or an hermaphrodite (although being associated with a god seemed not so bad). My older sister calling me a freak certainly reinforced the idea. I was scared that my clit would keep growing (it did) and turn into a penis (it didn't). I was afraid that I would just need to hide it forever, that no one would ever want to love me in a physical way. It sometimes kept me awake at night and gave me stomach aches at school. Long story short, although my breasts are small and I appear muscular (only because I have low body fat), I never developed any other male characteristics. My voice is high, my nipples large, I have sparse body hair, and even now over thirty, I look like a girl. The first person to go Down There was Red; he was eager, I was horny and to my surprise he loved it, just loved it. (Red knew that I was a virgin, and it helped that he started by doing oral on me and that I had been opening my vagina up for years by using tampons and inserting my fingers when masturbating.) Now fourteen years, four more guys and numerous women later, they all have liked it, enjoyed it (as have I) and I am proud of whatever it is, is Down There. For a while, however, it was a personal hidden nightmare. Or woman has ever complained. Amazing how important that is to making us feel good about it.

Hotel room, split the cost or offer to pay if you really want him

it is a very great turn on for my husband to see a man cum in me.

from Oklahoma, Nshvlleswingers! Thanks for a thought-provoking question. I won't try to advise you since such a decision is personal. I'm sure you'll do what is best for you and your baby. "Much more than a seed is required to be a father." Monahseetah, The Thunder Moon, 1869 I found out when I was in my sixties that the man I always called "Dad" did not provide the sperm that resulted in my birth. Yes, Dad knew, but it never affected his love for me. I never knew my sperm donor. I can safely say he has not affected my life. I only found out who he was when I had a DNA test done by Ancestry. So far I've learned that he was born in 1899 and died in Oklahoma. If you raise the child, never lie to him about his origin. If you give her up for adoption, never look back. "It's not the blood that flows through your heart, but the heart that flows in your blood." Monahseetah Yellowbird, The Fattening Moon, 2016

Sorry to hear that things went bad. There's always next time (and now you know several couples NOT to invite again).

Some would laugh off some of the physical stuff. The fact that it was an emotional bother probably led to it not being so funny. We had some hiccups getting started. It mostly came down to me not reading her signals as well as I thought I was going to be able to and then reacting accordingly.

First I was envious, then I was sorry. Glad we were not there.

And I’m just the opposite, I find hairy pussies to be unattractive, but it’s kind of difficult to do anything about it once it’s been presented to you. There are always ways you can bring it up beforehand though, and it’s best to do that if it’s a serious turn off to you. Fortunately though, here in the US in 2018 most women are shaved, and most cocks are cut, so the odds are good for myself and the OP!!

I am of the school of thought who does the inviting pays

I insist that we split the cost of a NICE hotel room (Hampton, Hilton Garden Inn, HI Express at least). No cheapie room, Clarion or Motel 6 or the like. Even though we're planning on enjoying Mrs Docs inner slut, she is an upscale and classy woman and should be surrounded by cleanliness and luxury.

This thread has me wanting to go try this. Going to talk to my husband when he gets home and see if he wants to give it a try, I'm sure he'll agree luckily. Idk why,but this feels naughtier than going to the local club. I REALLY want to do this. Even if it doesn't work out we can still have fun.

She finally did it! It all began years ago with us sharing rather innocent sexual fantasies with each other which morphed into wife sharing, which really got things heated up for us. Now we did have a good sex life, but we had been married for years coupled with jobs and kids and well you know how it can go. However, with all the wife sharing fantasy talk it was like we rediscovered sex all over again, it was great! Without going into too much detail she was enthralled by the idea of experiencing a larger penis that had some stamina attached to a good guy. Then when she finally realized I was serious about it actually happening. She was both shocked and turned on by the idea of it. So fast forward down the road the road a few months. I had been interviewing a lot of inquiries from one of the sites and found a guy that I thought would be what she wanted. I showed her the pictures that he sent both normal and naughty and she said to set up a meeting. Prior to meeting they texted and talked on the phone and things went really well. So the time came for dinner and we met and had a few drinks. Things were going really well with some flirtation between them so we decided to go outside to the car and have a more in-depth discussion to where we would not raise any eyebrows with our conversation. They both climbed in the back seat and I got in the front as if we were being directed to our respected positions. As it was night we were not worried about anybody observing. So we began talking and I noticed my wife started rubbing his thigh and his crotch. He smiled and leaned over to begin kissing her. That of course really turned her on and she began to take his bulging penis out of his pants. At that point she was pleased to put both hands on it and it still stick out plus feeling it's girth you could see and hear her breathing increase! She was a sight to behold. The kissing began to intensify with her stroking his cock with both of her hands and him pulling her tits out of her blouse. She was on her knees in the backseat and then he reached over to pull her skirt over her back exposing her finally shaped ass. At that point I reached over the seat and began to finger her throbbing wet pussy. She then asked if she could go down on him and without waiting for my reply she began to suck cock. That went on for about an hour when we had to call it a night but not without making plans to meet again at a hotel for the main event. FINALLY, after a long and excruciating few weeks were able to get our schedules to match in order for us to meet at a motel. My wife was very excited as well as I was to be able to witness her forth coming pleasure. He had already gotten the room and called us because we were running late. When we got there she went into the restroom to freshen up and had a brief conversation about my wife and how much we were looking forward to this happening. My wife came out of the bathroom dressed in a short nightie and sat down on the bed beside him and they were all smiles. They begin talking and at that point I excused myself to the restroom and only being in there a moment I opened the door to find them passionately kissing. So I took a seat beside the bed and with feelings of arousal and anxiety watched my wife pull his fully erect penis out of his pants and place her hands one on top of the other with a focused intensity around his thick 7" fully erect penis with all his head and some of his shaft sticking out and saw her begin to orally pleasure him. By the look on his face you could tell he was enjoying it immensely as well as was my wife. Needless to say I was hard as a rock! After about 15 minutes of my wife giving him head she got up on her knees and straddled him gently lowering herself into him while kissing him. You could tell by the look on her face and the sigh that she let out how she enjoyed his entry his depth into untouched areas of her womanhood. At this point he pulled off her short nightie and began squeezing and caressing her 34C tits as she rode him in ways she never road me making sounds as she tried not too while enjoying his manhood! Then at the point when she had tired herself out on riding him, he wrapped his arms around her waist and pulled her down to where her tits were on his chest and began thrusting he engorged dick up into her wet swollen pussy causing her to moan in pleasure with occasional grunts as I watched in disbelief as I saw my wife bent over on top of him being fucked like I've never fucked her by a man with a larger penis than mine that knew how to use it! It was the most incredible thing I had ever seen! As if that wasn't enough.....he turned her over on her back and proceeded to fuck her to her euphoric enjoyment in the traditional missionary position. It was so surreal to watch her clasp onto to him as well observe how much he shook her breasts with his thrusting. After a while he changed positions by laying on his side holding her legs up with her on her back and re-entering her to her undeniable approval. After what seemed like 15 minutes he asked her to bend over and without hesitation she stood up at the edge of the bed arching her sculptured back that tapers down to her waist sticking her oh so perfect ass out for him to grab onto for him to enter deep into her throbbing pussy. Now folks, seeing her ravished in this position was a sight to behold especially when he grabbed her shoulders for her to take the full brunt of his thrusting and that she did! After her legs about gave out she climbed upon the bed onto her knees bending over with him right behind her continuing to deliver her a sexual euphoric experience. This remarkable experience lasted for over and hour and a half and was truly out of this world. Unfortunately, he backed out of wanting a long-term friendship with her due him getting back with the love of his life. So now we're looking for the right guy for her for a long time friendship any advice or suggestions would be welcome.