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I brought up swinging. I really want to watch my husband with other women. It’s one of my biggest fantasies and if I get to be with other guys in the process it’s a win win ?

Reading your comments helps me realize that women come in all shapes and sizes. I too have what I think is a larger than normal clitoris. My husband loves it, and I like the feeling when it gets enlarged and erect. I was embarrassed by it for years, but have learned to embrace and appreciate that difference.

Although I had engaged in threesomes more than once before (MMF, FFM, FFF), as well as a couple of orgies when younger and single, I'd never actual tried swinging; let alone when married. My husband had only had threesomes (a couple of times when married to me), but never more. After being married a few years and already a couple of kids, we were curious about swinging and started to look into it, but didn't really get into much online before stumbling upon a couple we met through my son's preschool of all things. They had two young children like us as well and we hit it off with them, building a very friendly relationship, with plenty of get-togethers like BBQs, coffee times, date nights to movies and the like. Over time it was clear there was more to our relationship than just friendship. My husband was constantly checking the other wife out (we'll call her Tina, not that you'd ever know who she really was! LOL) and her husband (Andy) was doing the same with me (and, yes, us girls were very flattered and reciprocated- it really feels good being noticed after having a couple of kids! LOL). Tina and I also had some sparks between us, as we had similar tastes in clothing (both pretty feminine/girly girl types) and a woman's form (I am bisexual and was openly so then, too). So over time we started drinking more together at one or the others' place (kids always babysat, if you're wondering!) and doing things like dancing (and, increasingly, swapping partners for that, plus sometimes the wives would dance while the men watched and, yes, it was getting more sensual and, even, a bit lewd). We eventually started playing games like strip poker, jokingly played spin the bottle, truth or dare, and other silly games that might lead to some more naughty results. One night, we all had a lot to drink and the tension in the air could be cut with a knife, when Andy made the first move and slide his hand up my thigh and under the skirts of my dress, then kissed me. I looked a bit shocked but also smiled and looked over to my husband and Tina, who were clearly enjoying the show, so I kissed back and deeper, putting my hand on his thigh and hitching up my skirts a bit more, legs a bit more open too. He saw this as his invitation and slide his hand well up my dress as we kissed. Tina then turned to my husband and kissed him, while running her hand over his crotch. So then things really took off. Soon Tina was on her knees fellating my husband who was running his fingers through her hair with one hand and the other in her blouse playing with one of her breasts, which he'd pulled from her bra. Andy had 2 fingers buried in my puss as this was happening and our kissing got more intense, my legs wider and skirts hiked up much more. In time, Andy had his head up my skirts licking my wet puss, my legs wrapped around him, as I squirmed and moaned. By then, my hubby was behind Tina, her skirt to her hips and panties to her knees, as she was on all fours, her breasts now fully dangling freely below her as he fingered her with one hand and felt her breasts up with the other. She was still lactating after the birth of her second, so he was basically milking her a bit, too. There was so much moaning, sighing, gasping and the like then, and the air was filled with our scents. LOL After fingering and licking Tina to orgasm, my husband then filled her wit his cock and truly pounded her from behind. It was such a beautiful sight seeing her jerking and her breasts swaying, as she grunted and moaned. Andy could tell I was excited by what I saw and told me to kiss her, so I went to her and did that as my husband fucked her. She had such a sweet mouth and she was so eager to kiss me, our tongues played for what seemed like forever. As I kissed her and kneaded one of her breasts, Andy got behind me and filled me like Tina was filled and soon there were two girls grunting, gasping, and moaning. When our husbands were ready to cum, we each licked and sucked their cocks together: two wives enjoying each cock on their own. Our faces and breasts were covered by their cum (and our mouths had some, too). It was glorious! After our men were spent, us girls got together and enjoyed one another, kissing, feeling/licking/sucking breasts, fingering one another, scissoring a bit, then ending in a 69 position that was a beautiful time. When we orgasmed again, we all cuddled together, the wives together with Andy close to me on one side and my husband on Tina's side. We were so content and knew this wasn't the last time we'd do this. I later found out Tina had limited experience with girls, but did experiment a bit in high school and college, but nothing significant and she never considered herself bi. That changed after being with me during our swinging sessions. LOL We were regular from then on and still see them from time to time as part of our little group of swinging couples, early 15 years later (and we have done a fair bit more than we did that first time! LOL).

https://www.cnn.com/2018/10/05/health/gardasil-hpv-vaccine-approved-older-ages-bn/index.html Great news for anyone in a non-traditional non-monogamous relationship. A bad pap smear and the resulting leep procedure and cone biopsies is what effectively put our swinging days on hiatus.

Not at a genuine nudist location. It's not a "game". Maybe at a lifestyle location. It's not what regular nudism is about and is very much frowned on and could get you kicked out if you are flaunting a stiffy. Accidentals are expected to be discretely handled (no pun intended). Sure it happens at CO locations as I previously mentioned, but we avoid CO these days due to the creeps.

The two choices you have are a) Do it online. Set up a profile on SLS, SDC, Kasidie, etc. Plenty of advice on that around here. b) Go to a club, a LifeStyle resort, a cruise, etc. Again, plenty of info around here. Good luck.

You see the topic of bareback sex come up quite a bit. I think we can all agree that this lifestyle entails certain risks, regardless of how safe you are, not just STD/pregnancy type "physical" risks, but emotional and relationship risks as well if you get right down to it. It it up to each individual to assess what they are comfortable with and what is fun. If it is a turn on for you, and you are all comfortable with it, go for it, I say. Glad to see that you did and that it was as hot as you thought it would be!

We have friends who host an annual house party for 30-40 couples. Their great room is the play room full of mats and they have a projector that shows videos at the back of the room where the actors are about life size. Sometimes they had great orgy/group sex videos playing. Lots of people have commented that you can't tell where the party in the room stops and the orgy on the screen starts. Great parties!

I guess I don't think about it that way. I'm really more about what she wants at the time because I'm evolved beyond just wanting to procreate like most humans but I think that visual stimulation is still primordial. What I'm saying about the evolutionary process is that it has merit. It makes sense. Why wouldn't it? Evolution has caused our bodies to do many things we don't think about. For instance our blood is thicker in the morning. The hunters hunted in the morning because that was the most opportune time. The possibility of being injured or gored was therefore greatest in the morning. Men who survived a goring because their blood was a little thicker at that time passed that gene on to their offspring. Consequently men are now more likely to have a heart attack soon after rising in the morning than at any other part of the day. On the flip side of that, those men whose blood did not thin as the day progressed were likely not to live as long nor procreate as much. I don't feel my blood getting thicker or thinner, it just happens. It's primordial.

I've never gotten a full on, ready for sex boner while at a nude resort or beach, at least not when I wouldn't have wanted it. Varying degrees of erection? Yes and it wasn't anything to be embarrassed of or to show off. It just was.

We have 2 couples that we play with and trust them 100% so for us its not a issue plus you feel closer to them and thats what works for us.

Wow, this thread got hostile quickly. TXSwinger, I agree with you. Someone above mentioned swingers being open-minded, but I have actually only found/experienced they are open minded to female on female play. So, anything that will turn the straight guys on is a go, otherwise.... good luck. Is this true of all swingers? No. Is it true of all clubs? I am sure not (though all the ones I have been to). I also would bet that at least some of the women who describe themselves as bi, are not. They are bi for their guy. Why do I say this? I have seen it, and I am probably one of those people to some extent (at least right now).

Tex,everytime padoc appears on the bisexual section, do not argue. Just send him a dick photo. That's what he wants.

Great thread! Glad it was bumped up. I think the reasons all merge into one another in a kind of circle. I do it for him and he does it for me...primarily. Maybe that sounds unhealthy, but it really is not. We both LOVE how each is turned on by the other, and especially love that jolt of pleasure at seeing one another at the peak of their sexual selves with other people. He started it. I think Mr. has always been a swinger at heart. I know surprisingly little about his life "before us". I know generalities, and a few quips of detailed memories, but that's it (and I'm fine with that; he just tends to be a very private person, which I can respect). But I get the impression that while he may or may not have maintained the appearance of being 'vanilla', he most definitely did not see the sense of being monogamous simply for its own sake. I on the other hand, grew up a good protestant (Anglican) girl whose mom sat down with her once at the age of 11 to thoroughly explain, once and for all, the ins and outs of sex. Any questions? No? Great! And beyond that, the only other comment she opined was to not do it. Not until you're married. And don't use tampons, either; they'll "ruin" you. So sex wasn't bad, it just wasn't something that we EVER discussed. It was a very (VERY) private thing. Later on in life, after I had had two kids and it was pretty much a sure thing that I've had sex, it seemed more ok to discuss it. During one 'hen party' (lots of tea, or maybe some kind of alcoholized beverage, and conversation amongst the (grown up) women folk of the family) the subject of sex came up. Mom mentioned that she "never understood what all the fuss was about", or what was so great about it. I had to bite my lip to keep from blurting out that maybe she wasn't doing it right. Frankly, after being raised as I was, I really didn't want to know all THAT much about my parents' sex life. Once my life became my own, so did my sex life. These lingering strings of my upbringing pulled occasionally at my new life for quite some time. Certain things were just "wrong" to do. I couldn't tell you why they were wrong, just that they were. Mr. and I spent a lot of time and energy building our relationship up to what it is today. The strings to my past started snapping as we grew. Eventually there came a point where I made the conscious decision to cut them altogether and let us be whatever we are. It was a difficult subconscious decision to make, to let go of what was commonly accepted as truth and honestly seek truth on my own. Compare it to the joys of moving house. Most people find a new house they want to live in, sell their current house conditional on financing for the new one, line up the move dates and rent the moving van well in advance. This was kinda like selling the old house and moving all your stuff onto the curb, then picking up a newspaper to start looking for another place to live without knowing what was out there. We swing because we can. Because there is no reason not to. Perhaps some day we'll become bored with it and there won't be any excitement left in it for us. We won't ride this pony until it's dead; it's always better to leave a party at its peak than hang around until it wilts and fades in the wee hours of the morning. We'll retire from swinging before it retires us, I'm sure. But until then, it's all about breathing deep all that the Good Lord gave us in this life, and that includes sex. Doing anything less feels like a waste to us.