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I came across this article from Sheknows.com. I have always found that the best sex I’ve had was with me on top. I always attributed it to my own anatomy, an oversized clitoris. I have always felt most guys enjoy when I’m on top too. One of the additional benefits is if he cums before me I can keep him inside until I’m done as well. I have found in a group setting many men rather do it doggy. Don’t get me wrong, this can be just as satisfying though I rather me on top. At this point, it's no secret that for many people with vaginas, penetration alone is not enough to have an orgasm or even pleasurable sexual experience. While, fortunately, we're moving in the right direction in terms of acknowledging that all parties involve should enjoy themselves, what we consider "sex" (penis-in-vagina intercourse) is still very penis-centric. There's still the idea that if there happens to be clitoral stimulation, great! But that's a bonus more than an expected outcome. That's why it's so helpful to have access to data about the positions that work best for people with vaginas. An example of this is a recent survey conducted by Superdrug Online Doctor involving nearly 1,000 participants across genders living in both the United States and Europe ranging in age from 18 to 74 in which people who identified as women were asked which sex positions they enjoyed the most along with other questions about what turns them on. Turns out, the women surveyed said that cowgirl (woman on top) was their favorite position and was ranked in the top spot by 30 percent of participants. Next up were doggy-style (top pick for 21 percent), missionary (20 percent) and 69 (13 percent). As far as the position that helps women reach orgasm fastest, cowgirl came out on top again and was also ranked as the position that makes women feel the sexiest.

If she wants, say, at least 6 men to gangbang her you would probably need to schedule with at least 12 to 18 because at least half will be no-shows. But if more do happen to show up, well she will be a lucky lady.

If she is doing things she won't do with you, you should be happy that she's discovered this delight. Indeed, do not "let it go," you should embrace and enjoy the pleasures that she's found. It is one of the things I enjoy the most about us not being monogamous, exploring things with a person that I don't find with another person and seeing my husband and lovers, male and female, do the same. My jealousy has never been tamed, but is now my addiction.

I normally avoid these conversations but I figured Id try to offer some advice to the white couples here on SB. Please stop asking this question. If you see a car that you like, you take it for a test drive. If you see an article of clothes you like, you go in the dressing room and try it on. The fact that you would come to a forum like this and ask a question about a particular race of human being without taking the initiative to get to know one of them and find out for yourself reeks of privilege, ignorance, and racism. Any person w an internet connection can go to one of the free porn sites and see videos of men of various ethnic backgrounds with big cocks. IMHO, what you are really saying is that you are interested in being with a black man but you want to see how other people feel about it. The fact that you get mad when someone says it appears racist is just a cover up of your own guilt. I refuse to believe we as human beings are not better than this. If you want to fuck a black man, just do it. But realize, just because a black man has a large cock doesn't mean the sex will be good. Just because a man is black it doesn't mean he has a big cock. I mean you and your friend may even have sex with the same man and have a different opinion about how good the sex was. Take some time to get to know any human being that you want to have sex with and you may discover that even though he is black and has a big cock...there is no chemistry between the two of you and you don't want to fuck him after all. I know that I cannot speak for all black men but there is a large number of us that are turned off by the ignorance of some white couples seeking black men. I am more turned on by a white woman or man that can articulate the fact that they grew up in a racist environment but have always been attracted to black men. A couple that can articulate the fact that their sex life has become stale and they are looking to add another man to make it more exciting. Or even a woman that can articulate the fact that she was abused or mistreated by men of other races and only feels comfortable dating black men. I know this is asking a lot but like I said, I refuse to believe that we as humans are not better than this. Sorry for the rant, just my humble opinion.

This is just another padocked bisexual thread. If you simply ignore the troll, he'll starve and move on to a different bisexual thread. Since he has never admitted to his wife he is bi, he has no reason to be commenting here, other than to cause stress. Simply scroll past his spew to keep the thread on topic. At any rate, my wife was very accepting when I came out. There is a lot to the story I won't go into here but I wish I would have sat down and had a conversation about this a couple decades earlier. It could have avoided a lot of trouble. We played mmf for a few years, she was quite enthusiastic. Good memories!

its watching him pump his cum into that gets me off. it did not disappoint. i left such a load in her mouth lol yes we all have taken steps when dealing with std's even though std tests arent perfect.

Everybody starts somewhere. You two have set your limits between you. Go, wear your costume, and have fun. People will look, they'll watch and you'll have a blast which will fuel your sex life at home for weeks to follow.

If your wife's up for it, you should dip into her pussy for sloppy seconds. A treat you should not miss. If you're up for it, you should go down on your wife to give her a second orgasm. A treat she shouldn't miss. If all three of you are up for it, do a DP, you in her pussy while he takes her ass. A treat for all.

I have recently tried this with me in the reverse cowgirl position while being licked....wow!!

Not sure how you started in this but our dive in was also the bi side my husband wanted to watch me enjoy. The guy was going to be just a collateral experience. Some of the guys have been plenty of fun too. Your sex with friends has already been crossed. You and your husband had sex with your friends. Were there problems with those experiences? Is the question that now that it is his friend there is a problem. You stated you like him as a friend and your husband is the one who suggested this. I am taking that you like him as a friend. If you didn't you made a mistake. No taking back a line you crossed. If you like him then enjoy the experience. Remember your husband approved it.

The labeling frustrates me. My husband is straight. He isn't gay, he isn't attracted to men at all, doesn't fantasize about them or jack off to them, but he also has no hang ups. He doesn't identify himself as bi. There's no need. This is a big thing that frustrates me in our society... The need for labels. People are just... people. Especially in this issue. Sex is just sex - a man fucks another man's wife with no concern of "looking for love" so what difference does it make if it's with her husband instead? I say, if it feels good go for it. Hell... When any of us get worked up enough and the situation is right, most things can be sexualized. I have watched my husband get his cock sucked, shared a cock with him, and watched him suck a cock to completion. Not only did it make me horny as hell, but all other parties involved enjoyed it too. Hurray for open minds and feel good sexual experiences!!!

First off, I consider myself 100% hetero, in fact just the vision of two guys even kissing like they sometimes show on TV or in the movies repulses me. Having said that I had the opportunity many decades ago to be in the room as a spectator to a couple (the guy was in his late 30's the girl in her mid 20's). We were all pretty wasted at the time and the action was getting so hot and heavy that I could feel the pre-cum oozing out of my cock. At some point the girl asked me if I'd like to take off my clothes and start jacking my cock as she watched and at the same time either going down on her partner or being fucked by him. This went on for a period of time and all the while I was feeling like the 3rd wheel. They ended up on the couch next to me as the guy sat down and the girl kneeled on the floor in front of him giving him a blow job and this guy was extremely well endowed to the point he put me to shame. She was really going to town on his cock and then just pulled it out and essentially asked me if I'd like to try. Of course being the young reserved guy I was at the time I declined and told her she was doing a fine job. She ended up jacking his load on her tits as I jacked my in my hand. Many times I've revisited that day and wonder what if. I have to admit there is an aspect of it that is extremely tantalizing just thinking about it. I think now given the right situation the outcome could be different, but it would REALLY have to be the right situation.