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my wife and i have been "hooking up" with a friend of mine for a while now, but lately I've been fantasizing about my buddy leaving his load in my wife. he talks about it with her all the time when they chat, and have barebacked for a while now. it's such a turn on ( i also fantasize about cumming in his wife but she dont like me) to watch them. she even teases me with it when her and i fuck. should i let him cum in her?

Last friday night, my girlfriend Paula and I had sex with another couple! WOOHOO! Now, that might not be a big deal to most of you guys, but it is to me. I was in a very openly sexy triad with two women for 20 years, until one wife left us five years ago and my other wife passed away 18 months later. Since November of 2015, I have been a relationship with a lovely, sexy lady who was vanilla but very swing-curious. I decided early on that I was not going to push her into anything. The preceeding four years had been hell on me, and I was not about to screw up a wonderful, lustful relationship by asking for more. Paula liked to talk about other partners a lot, perhaps even a bit fascinated by the idea. We invented group sex fantasies together while having sex, which she found a big turn-on, but I was suspicious that it would remain just talk. Then, last week, Paula got a call from an old friend of hers. He he had been, at various times in her life, both a lover and a platonic friend, but he'd since moved away and married. Paula had previously identified him as someone she might be interested in swinging with. He called to say that he and his wife would be in town for a couple of days, and could we all meet for dinner? We agreed and met at an Italian resturant across town, near their hotel. I was meeting them for the frist time, so Paula took the driver's seat. She brought up my triad past and steered the conversation to things sexual, even reminding her friend about some of their sexual encounters. His wife responded with humor and curiousity, not offense. The wine kept flowing, and the other couple became more open about sharing their own sexual liberality, recounting some tales of same-room sex and some exhibitionistic encounters. By the time it was time to leave the resturant, Paula said we probably were not in a proper state to drive home, and should get a room at the hotel (even though I really don't drink and had only had one glass of wine!). "That is," she went on to say, "if you think separate rooms would be best." The guy immediately looked at his wife eagerly, and she agreed. Following them to the hotel, Paula couldn't shut up. She was so excited, she took off her hose and panties in the car. Once we got to the room, the guy's wife immediately started taking her blouse off. From there on, there was no awkwardness, no crossed signals. We were all there to fuck one other and we all knew it. We guys first got blow jobs from our own partners, then at her friend's suggestion, the girls took turns licking each other's pussies. It was Paula's first time! We eventually took turns penetrating both ladies. (Yes, we used condoms with the other guy's girl.) We didn't end up staying overnight. About midnight, Paula and I decided to head for home. Paula thought it was about the hottest thing she's ever done and says she wants to find a way to do it again. A day or two later she asked me, "Are you really not jealous about me wanting another guy's cock?" I said it truly didn't bother me in the least. She said that was incredibly freeing, and that I might have created a sex monster. I can only hope, right?

In both cases, I'd have asked immediately, "who invited you"? If he didn't take the hint my next question would have been, "do we look busy"? And if he STILL didn't get, "go away, NOW". We've often said that in swinging events we don't owe anybody anything more than simple common courtesy. In neither case did the single guy give you any courtesy at all so, in my mind, all bets are off and blunt is the way to go.

His cheating was a separate incident, but I think this also has more to do with the reaction. You broke a rule in the heat of the moment and it sounds like you are minimizing his feelings. A healthier attitude would be more why did you think it was okay at the time, and what can you two do to prevent it from happening again. Maybe he wasn’t expecting to see you enjoy yourself so much. His comment about not being able to kiss you because you had another dick in your mouth really says you shouldn’t be swinging. Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality.

Alura, what I had in mind was more of: "Hi, I'm ...... I am here as a single. Would you be willing to share a drink and spend a bit of time talking to see if there is any chemistry?" Like I said in my previous post, if you decline all that should follow is a,"Thanks for your time. Have a nice evening." followed by an expeditious retreat.

Some of the single guys are the ones that pull off to the side of the road to help you change a tire. What you are describing is a lot more than that, anything after the first no thank you is not trying it's pushing.

I can blame a guy for trying. My late wife and I decided a single man at a swinger party (especially an aggressive one) was much like a fellow who might take a bus to the Porsche Club since he had no car. He wants to do us the honor of driving ours. He considers himself a better driver than anybody could imagine. He can make our cars do things we never could because of his extraordinary skills. Tell these boors you're not interested and enforce it!

If you two continue, you will quickly figure out the the 'rules' are not iron clad. Lots of the time a rule that one of you thought was very important later becomes not that big of a thing. When that happens, you can eliminate or alter the rule for the next time. However, NEVER change the rules unless you two can discuss it outside of a sexual environment and come to an agreement. Trust is HUGE in swinging and you violated his trust right out of the gate. Work on repairing that trust and keep the lines of communication open...and don't make the same mistake again.

To quote Nancy Reagan "Just say NO!" You probably should not blame a guy for his status. You can't blame a guy for trying. You certainly can blame him for being obnoxious about it. From us: The first guy we would have told to take his wine and drink it elsewhere. The second one would have gotten a swift and firm NO THANKS NOW LEAVE.

Who was the Doctor? Larry Nassar trying to explain how one of his girls came up pregnant? There is no way this can happen. Spreading false information like this is a huge disservice.

You have to stop everything (at least for the time being). People seem to be always asking the difference between swinging and cheating...well, this is it. She cheated on you KNOWING that you didn't want her to go alone to see someone she didn't know and have him tie her up. You just were looking out for her safety (something important when you are swinging) and she didn't care. She wanted this more than to honor your commitment, your trust, your wishes, and the agreed upon rules. Until she can reestablish your trust, all activity needs to stop and (obviously) she can not see this guy again. You are 110% in the right here and she is completely wrong in what happened. If being dominated and tied up is her fantasy, it could have been arranged where this could be made reality, but not the way she did it. Swinging is something that is done with the two of you in agreement, even if she is going by herself. Finding a way to fulfill her fantasy where she was safe is not that hard to do. You didn't need to be there, you just needed to be included in the plans and comfortable with her safety. You both are going to need some time to repair the trust and communication breakdown before continuing. You will also need to make sure that she doesn't see this guy again. Don't take this too lightly: she wanted to submit to his dominance and HE may want her to do it again and she may very well do it. He's a Dom, his job is to be in control of her (I know this is a greatly simplified version of the D/s lifestyle, but I don't want to spend the time getting sidetracked here with explanations...being in a D/s situation myself I understand that the sub GIVES control to the Dom so the only control the Dom has is what is freely given by the sub but she has already given him that control). Since this is something that she is at least interested in, maybe you need to see if you want to step up and become her Dom...? Anyways, we wish the both of you the best and that you are able to repair the damage that has been done to your relationship. Please let us know how things are going.

Actions over words. Analyzing the excuses to death is tempting but the important fact here is that the two of you had an understanding and she ignored it. I agree with JandKinBoise, she knew what she intended to do and you're being manipulated. "Confessing" and then acting like you're the bad guy when you get upset after she was "good enough to tell you the truth" is a common strategy in vanilla life, too. There's no excuse for either partner being pressured or tricked into playing in a way they aren't interested in. Sorry you're dealing with this.

I like to get under the wife while another man is fucking her so I can lick her clit and his cock at the same time. I like him to pull out once in a while so I can taste her on his cock and I love to clean her after he has cum in her. SKY.

my wife is a small woman and I love to see her riding a large cock and have the guy cum in her. After he has pulled out, I will dive right between her thighs and lick her clean. I also love the feeling of her pussy full of another mans (mens) cum.