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I have finally gotten my wife to turn full slut. She fucks random guys for me and with me. It is great! Love showing and telling guys about it!!

Good reasons why we here have sex with other people, and why sometimes it's good to play alone.

I have a different cut on this one. Regardless of rules and rule breaking, this sounds suspiciously like it's all about him. He dragged you into thjustis and the no anal, no bj rules sound a bit one sided too. And now he's all bent out of shape and has a penis inferiority complex. I don't think he is really into this as an equal opportunity hobby. He will let you do a few things as a small price to pay for getting what he wants. If I were you I would tell him it's not working out for you and quit. Otherwise this is no going to turn pretty. BTW: Did you ask him if he would have been so upset if the guy had a little dick even smaller than his? (Sorry, leave the "even" out, I was making a point.) If he is going to get upset every time you start playing with a bigger dick than his you need to know about it now and quit before things get really ugly.

And remember, it's not just your face that your family, friends or co-workers may recognize when some asshole posts recorded copies of your vids on line. It's stuff in the background that can out you really quickly. If you do this stuff you need to set up a plain backdrop with sheets or something and cover the bed or other things you are on. Also remember that tattoos, unique body markings, etc. are highly recognizable too. You might think none of these things are unique to you, but it's the combinations of little innocent things that can be unique or close enough to raise peoples suspicions. Even that family photo in the background that is out of focus and too small to see the exact details - just the poses, the colors, the frame, where it's mounted or sitting..... familiar things can be instantly recognized by the brain with minimal information.

Yes, but not sure fkher4me qualifies as a cuckold - he said "....fucks random guys.... and with me...". Come to think of it he also said "for me" not necessarily for herself so he seems to be driving the action not her - not exactly a cuckold situation. That being said it sounds great, hope they have a ton of fun and she gets seen to regularly.

OK, the only person I ran into at a meet and greet from my past was the brother of a girl I dated in high school and his wife. I remember asking him about his sister, who was cute as hell in school, and he laughed and said she'd gained a lot, a very lot, of weight. It was always enjoyable seeing him around town after that and talking but we never gave any indication that we'd get together as two swinging couples. But I had a very interesting childhood experience with a girl that I'd love to have run into as adults at a swinger's gathering. Toni was one of those girls who loved attention. The interesting thing was that she was cute enough to get attention without showing her panties. But, show her panties, she did. It was in fourth grade and Toni would sit near the back of the classroom and when I, and I’m guessing other boys, looked back at her she would smile, spread her legs a bit, and pull her skirt up enough to see her panties. A year later I was in line for the water fountain in fifth grade. Toni and, her best friend, Nina were in front of me in line and talking about two cousins of Toni, a boy and a girl our age, who had said they’d been having intercourse. I remember Nina saying she didn’t believe it but Toni swore it must be true. Toni, who was standing in front of me and between me and Nina, asked me if I believed it. I just smiled and said that, if were me, I’d sure do it, or something to that affect. About halfway through the next hour of class, a note was passed to me. It was from Toni. It was short and to the point. “You said that you would fuck. Would you fuck me?” I wrote a quick, “yes”, and sent it to Toni through the usual delivery system of boys and girls in the classroom. We met outside in the playground as soon as class let out for the next recess. I remember Toni telling me more graphically what her cousins had told her. I remember her saying how they used Vaseline to help. That recess didn’t go further than just talk but that talk had really gotten me fired up. That was the last recess of the day. When school let out I found Toni. She was now in charge and she knew it. She would tease and then run away. I didn’t know girls could run that fast as I chased her. There was a place near the playground with some tall grass and that’s where I caught her. When we went down together, I was laying on top of her and, if we’d known how, I would certainly have kissed her. I wanted to but just didn’t know how and I don’t think she did either. The next day we agreed to meet again after school. The school’s playground was connected to a city park and the fire department had donated old firetrucks to the parks for kids to play on. That particular truck had been used to transport firemen and had two compartments that could hold four or five firemen in each and the compartments were separated by a wall. The truck was old and the floor had long since rusted and had been removed for safety reasons so, if you stood on the ground in one compartment, the dividing wall began about your waist. Toni and I decided to stand on each side and let the other explore each other’s genitals. That way we didn’t have to see each other’s faces while we explored. Now I can’t speak for Toni but, I loved the look and feel of my very first female genitalia. OK, why am I being so careful about this? Hell, I loved that little pussy! I don’t know how long we played with each other. I’m not sure if I penetrated her with my fingers or not. If I’d known that it was OK, I’d have gone down to my knees and used my tongue. I do remember us pushing closer and my dick feeling the warmth of her body. But we didn’t, as she’d written in her note, fuck that day. And for some reason we never had a repeat of any kind. We had seven more years of school together and, for some reason, we never dated when we were of dating age. We were just friends with a shared moment and memory. I’ve often wondered if Toni remembers those moments as well as I do? I reconnected with Nina a few years ago on FaceBook and asked her about Toni. I’ve always wondered if Toni told Nina, who was her best friend in grade school. Nina didn’t seem to have any knowledge though so I guess that Toni hadn’t told. And I know that I didn’t tell anyone, even some of my best friends. Nina and I communicated a lot for about two years and I really wanted to ask her more about Toni. But, sadly, Nina passed away before I could.

Immediately after my first divorce, I fell into a long affair with a woman. She also was just out of a marriage, we fell in love. We dated for about two years. In that time, we were ‘seduced’ by a slightly older couple, we both had our first swinging experience on a trip with them to Niagara Falls. I’m now sure that if we had stayed together, we would have immersed ourselves in the LifeStyle, we would have had a great number of friends, perhaps she would have become a hotwife which became one of my perversions. However, I decided that I shouldn’t become permanently attached to someone on the heels of my marriage, that I should give myself broader experiences, so I broke up with her. I’d love to meet up again with Lura in a swinging environment.

OK, I'm still trying to digest the fact he won't kiss lips that have been on another man's cock. Hell, in today's world, how did he ever date before the two of you met?

There is many different ways to nicely deal with these guys. Most haven't a clue what swinging is about just looking for easy sex. Does anyone do Couples only parties anymore? Seems like all of the clubs and parties in our area, have opened up to Single males, I think it for the money. However we are to the point we just stay home because we don't feel like dealing with them.

Alura, what I had in mind was more of: "Hi, I'm ...... I am here as a single. Would you be willing to share a drink and spend a bit of time talking to see if there is any chemistry?" Like I said in my previous post, if you decline all that should follow is a,"Thanks for your time. Have a nice evening." followed by an expeditious retreat.

I don’t kiss and tell normally. Think we met the same couple and they are everything you said. Respectful, not pushy and very easy to get to like. Your wife wasn’t the first to clam up when approached by the wife. They both were respectful when my wife couldn’t go thru with being bi. They told us before starting that she was bi and we made it clear we weren’t. My wife didn’t rule out playing like that even tho she said it most likely wouldn’t happen. I did get to watch my wife being undressed by a woman before she said stop. And it did stop. The husband didn’t mind much as he was happy with my wife. Oh, I was happy with his too. We have met them again and in a party setting. Everyone likes them. Their main focus is on wife play and if that is what you are looking for, take your time and do it at your time table. I feel they will accommodate you. Have fun.