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May I add: Sex always involves nudity, but nudity doesn't always involve sex. I travel to Europe regularly for work and one of my favorite things to do when I go there and don't have those usually dreadful "Let's all get together for dinner" evenings, I go to a nude pool or spa. I enjoy the atmosphere of softness, quiet, relaxation, sensuousness. I feel like I've entered that world when my clothes come off and the other naked people have entered it with me.

Adam, we loved DJ's and never had an issue with singles there either. TPA, just south of the PA/MD line on the East maintains a 10:1 couples to singles ratio. It generally works too but once in awhile one slips through. When that happens, staff hustles them out quickly and with no refund. TJ's has similar rules. We've never had an issue with singles and any of the three.

Our club, DJs Island north of Pittsburgh, has a policy for single men: You must be introduced by a couple who are members, the first night you must arrive with and leave with them. After that, the single men are allowed to come on their own. Of course, there is an seriously increased party fee for the guys. These rules ensure that the man is genuine. In years of going there, I can say we've never met a disrespectful single man there. Many chatted up my wife and myself, a few times they got lucky with her. Usually it happened after we'd been in a private room with a couple and while I was sated, she was still raring to go. Single men who get into a swingers club and then aren't politely assertive wouldn't make great lovers anyways, IMHO.

We been in similar situations. That’s why a couple of years ago we gave up on attending parties or clubs that allow single males.

The Vibe takeovers in Nashville are well worth checking out. Great people and the hotel is decent. The staff does a great job of keeping out those who shouldn't be there and you are able to have a lot of fun (indoor pool, great party area, etc).

Give me a chance to be naked in my home or backyard and I am there. Someone else mentioned that at some point you may find clothes more of a hassle than being nude. That's my feeling. As long as I'm warm, I'd prefer to be nude. problem is that society doesn't feel the same, so I'm constantly concerned with "upsetting" a neighbor that might be looking into our yard and find me gardening with my pecker hanging out and swinging in the breeze, not to mention when I bend over and my ass is displayed to the world.

Ok. That's much better...that accurately described what I experienced. I don't do dp as my arse sores easily. But for that occasion, I allowed them barrier-free, making me a wet canvass for their abstract painting hahaha That was my only experience with Gb if it qualifies as one. My partner and I and our common friend will swing once in a while, mfm. Then I did swing separately at friend's house but after the gb, his brother started to join in for an mfm fun. Our friend eventually had a gf but brother wanted both of us to continue as V because we connect on many levels than common friend.

Swinging is the mutual acceptance of your partner having sex with someone other than you. You do not have to be present for your partner to swing.

Some of my best fantasies about my wife are the things that she is doing when she is having some one-on-one time with a lover or a couple. Things that she might not feel comfortable doing when I'm there. The difference, at least for us, is that we play with a small circle of other couples, so for us it's not "a one night hook up," these are friends, lovers.

We had a great time at the Red Rooster, only a 10-15 minute cab ride off the strip. Check out their site.