The OP must have flunked English comp. Let me help you with a few things OP: "ur" should be your, "u" should be you, "thats looking" should be who are looking, "so I just looks for a friend" should be I'm just looking for a friend with benefits. There is nothing more glaringly ignorant than poor writing skills. Agreatguy made some good points. You ARE self entitled and apparently feel that you should be able to boink my wife or his without effort, commitment or cost just because you want to. When someone points out the flaws in your thought process, you get your feelings hurt, make unsubstantiated charges about someones dick size and what his wife really wants (which is apparently you…ha ha ha!). You asked where to go in your first post. I'd suggest you take your entitlement syndrome back to your mom's basement and don't come back till you've grown up, built a relationship, obtained a job and live on your own. Perhaps then you'll have something to offer to the grownups who participate in this hobby other than ignorance, selfishness and entitlement.