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I think I should clarify my take on faking it by saying I don’t fake it, it is just some men think I am having an orgasm and I don’t take away the thought by telling them I didn’t. Any man with half a brain will know I am not having an orgasm if I am giving him a blow job. Unlike a movie I don’t have a clit in my throat. The thing is I do enjoy giving a blow job and have been told I I give a very vocal blow job. I can get very sexually excited and not have an orgasm. I’ve even been told by someone who came in my mouth that he thought we both orgasmed at the same time. I enjoy kissing, having my nipples played with, having my back rubbed and many other sensual things, that make me move and moan, don’t take those moans as an orgasm. On the other hand I can have a quiet orgasm and I think any smart partner can tell when I am having a full orgasm. Gentlemen don’t stop doing things that may not make me cum. Penetration is fine without orgasm, better with. I agree with the original poster with some of the best ways to make me have a Big O.

My wife is interested in going to a local club in Louisville Ky. She herself is self conscious about her body as she is a bbw. I find her wonderfully beautiful but I love larger sized women. I am very protective of her “in a good way” and very much want it to be a positive experience for both of us. I read on many of the clubs websites of how their club has the “hottest most beautiful” couples. I am 48yrs old and she almost my age. My question is, will going to a club be a positive experience or have we missed the boat and uncomfortably be an object of ridicule until we decide to up and leave. We clean up pretty well and I can rock a casual suit as well as the next guy, but I’m not a 24yr old paratrooper any more either.

Contrary to what we might think after listening/reading the "news," there are a lot of really nice guys out there. Finding them for a specific purpose can be tricky, but it looks like you accomplished it. Really appreciate your posts, he said vicariously.

Trician, you said, "Any man with half a brain will know I am not having an orgasm if I am giving him a blow job." Any guy who's being given a blow job isn't thinking . . .

Why do men name their penises? Because they cannot stand to have strangers control their lives.

Lee, do you understand this is not a hookup site? It appears you did not read any of the information posted here for single males interested in swinging. But based on your writing skills even if you did I am not sure you would comprehend. Successful swinging single males know how to follow directions. Stick to masterbating.

Both the other couple and our couple are finding enough to do. My wife has a great lube collection and has conferred with her doctor, but those of us over 60 do not have the same response system that we had at 25.

I never found the height of a man is an indication of penis size. The problem is the non-lubricating that can be caused my age or medical problems. If she is dry it will hurt with a small penis too. Using a lube or even oral sex with plenty of saliva could help. If size is really the problem she can control things by taking the top. I am thinking he isn’t more than 7 inches. Just a suggestion, your wife should discuss her dryness with her doctor.

Thanks a lot for the replies, I think we may have a great time then. As for making her feel comfy I always focus on her enjoyment and tune out most other distractions until she feels in place. Her happiness to me is paramount. Thanks again for the replies and maybe we will see you out on the town.