I've often looked back and wondered how many of the girls/women I've been with were just faking it for my benefit. I wish, if they did, they hadn't. I hate being patronized.
In a sort of similar way, when I was GM at a car dealership, I could tell when I was being buttered up. Those that did, never gained from it.
Heck folks, if we're doing something wrong or just not quite right, let us know!