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We get tested once a year. The most common STDs are HPV and HSV. Reduced by condom use, but not a sure thing. HPV has an inoculation for those under 45. Some other things can be cured by antibiotics. HIV is rare, to my knowledge, among swingers. This is an occupational hazard if you swing. Accept it or don’t swing.

About a year. Who has the time? So no.

For us it is scheduled once a year. Full 10 panel Testing should be proportionate to exposure. Our Group has a nurse as our health administrator. Any one tests positive for anything we contact her. She then puts a notice out to our group reporting the findings , but not the source. This has two reasons. First it encourages reporting. Second it really does not matter as to the source. The time between exposure to finding is going to be long enough that the chances are pretty good that it has spread beyond the initial person and their playmates. This of course call for another blood test for us. Otherwise for all intents and purposes our immediate playgroup within the larger group in fairly limited 4-5 people ( 2 couples +1) I hope this helps.

Swingers aren't going out every weekend for a huge orgy. Stds are actually fairly rare. Many swingers stay within the confines of a group of people they know and trust. Thinking about swinging, and getting 4 people into bed isn't the same. If you pursue this hobby, you will find there are many roadblocks, with STDs just being one issue in a long list.

OK, another thought. The next time it happens you might just say, "As I've said before, I'm not a swinger. But, honestly, even if I were a swinger I wouldn't play with you."

Get wet. Lubricant can go a long way to easing intercourse with a bigger guy. In fact, it's a must. There's a wide variety of lubes out there, from thin and slippery to thicker and more viscous. To prevent breakage, remember to use a lube that's compatible with the type of condom he using. So start experimenting!

That's bad behaviour - whether it comes from a swinger or not is irrelevant, it is inappropriate and inconsiderate to keep making advances to someone who's not interested. What to do? Step 1 - a polite no, step 2 - a pointed joke, step 3 - tell him to fuck off, but if all else fails - just find new friends. Most swingers are actually quite used to hearing no and deal with it very well, I'm sorry that's not the case with your friends.

Both the other couple and our couple are finding enough to do. My wife has a great lube collection and has conferred with her doctor, but those of us over 60 do not have the same response system that we had at 25.

Honesty is the best policy.

Vegas part two: I got invited to Charlotte's party and got there just a little late, and not much was going on until one hot guy started getting it on with the hot bartender girl with really big tits. So a few of us were standing there watching and I started talking to a pretty girl next to me. I think there was a trans video going on and we were talking about it and how back home I have a trans girl neighbor. She asked if it turned me on and I said kinda... She warmed up to me then, and I figured out at that moment that I may be talking to a trans girl, and much better looking than the one at home across the street! Very quickly she began sucking me, then invited me to another place called The Studios. I headed over there to meet this hot girl with the nice bulge in her jeans. She wasn't there yet when i got there, this place was busy with other trans girls, but none looking hotter than the first. She arrived, apparently she was well known there. I hung around with her, but I hit it off with a couple my age (mid 50's) and hung around with them. After schmoozing them for a while, I started rubbing her shoulders in the bar area, and that seemed to get her going. We hit up the room with the massage table for a more proper full body massage. Oral was exchanged and we both got off in missionary as her hubby watched. I put this message in this thread because I was ready to swallow up the hot trans girl, and I certainly would have sucked the husband off if it would have gotten me into his wife's dress. Turns out I didn't need to but I would have anyway. They were both very nice and the wife was the hottest girl at the place, her age notwithstanding.

We are so glad you posted this question. My wife and I have discussed being with a couple and she has asked me to also share a cock with her. She gets so turned on when we talk about it and I must say her getting turned on makes me eager to suck and be sucked. Neither of us have had a bi experience but hope one day to. My wife wants another woman to take control and give her pleasure but also guide her to give the other wife exactly what she wants while the men lay there watching and stroking one another. The Ladies would start sucking us and then take one of the husbands down with them to start the beginning of each of them going down on one another and exploding all over the women. My wife has also expressed the women pegging the men. Not sure about that yet. One step at a time. Meeting a couple we have a spark with & interested in the same things as us is where we are lost. lol

Dave and I do like to meet other open-minded couples and singles for what I like to call the 'whatever' play. I too have been with several gay couples and first started liking to see guys suck each other when I was in my first year in college. Most of my boyfriends were not up to big cocks, but both my husbands had no fears. Dave has the biggest cock of my guys, and I love to see it get swallowed up by other couples, and we both are cum lovers, sharing snowballs with other couples. Of all the places I have lived, Las Vegas has the most same thinking couples like us.

I think about in half my MFM's the guest would like to suck my husband's cock, but he doesn't let them. But, some of them lick his cum from my pussy. It gets them so hard and me so wet again that I have an orgasm and he fucks me again. I also once fucked a gay couple and thoroughly enjoyed watching them suck each other, while I joined in on both sides. Very hot, indeed. I love fucking gay couples more than bisexual couples - only a matter of degrees, I love all kinds of sex.

A few years ago my sister Jill and I compared notes and realized that there was on boy from high school that we both slept with. We had no idea at the time!