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There exists a lot of good advice here. My hubby employs a lot of those strategies very successfully.

I'm sorry your first experience wasn't better. that it didn't meet your fantasy or expectations. That's never fun. And let me share our first experience, maybe it can provide some help. Our first experience would be labeled by most as a "bad experience". We were set to meet a man for a MFM. We communicated a lot before the day and during the first part of the day we were to meet. Flirting on the phone, etc. We prepped ourselves and began the 1.25 hour journey to the city to meet. All of a sudden, no more communication. Totally silent for about an hour before we left and during our drive. Experienced couples may have simply turned around and called it a night. We didn't think to do that, and we thought that if for some reason he backed out, we'd just enjoy ourselves and have a "date". As we got closer his communication began in earnest. Where were we? How long until ew'd arrive? he sent the address of a meeting place. began to flirt again. All seemed great. We arrived to find him intelligent, smooth, flirtatious to my wife and a gentleman. Respectful. Also, he'd obviously had a drink or two before, but no red flags. small talk, flirting, then dinner where my wife sat between us and we both played with her under the table, then to his hotel. At the hotel we all drank a bit more, and then he became obviously drunk, sloppy and aggressive, but no belligerent. We all sorta played, my wife stripped and danced. it was fun. Then it stopped being fun. He was just too drunk to continue. After a few quick glances, a node and a wink we decided to get out of there. He wasn't happy and tried to stop us. I vividly remember grabbing our things, the unopened champagne, my wife quickly getting mostly dressed and then we made for the door. A quick escape, down the stairs and past the shocked clerk at the desk. It was 3 in the morning, and here we are running down the stairs, partially dressed (no indecent), just obviously disheveled with a bottle in my hands. As we broke through the lobby doors and out into the cool evening on a quiet city street we both felt ALIVE. Just to be clear, we never felt in any danger. I am quite capable of taking care of us. I think at that moment we felt closer and more connected as a couple than we had in years. The sex was horrible, but the night was absolutely a winner. We'd actually gone through with it, We'd be venerable, we'd experienced sharing her for the first time and in the end we we're laughing, running out into the street as lovers, partners, and friends. I'll never forget that. I think there is almost always a silver lining. Enjoy.

Yes you can make most of these simpler items too

I personally like the cock sleeves so I can push my cock head out the other end when I cum. Easier cleanup. Never tried a flesh light.

There so many to choose check out an automatic one I hear they can blow your mind! HA!

Nothing really matters to me. Any way the wind blows. It’s my thread and I can laugh if I want to.

No, we're talking about Galileo Thunderbolts and lightening very very frightening me! I think this thread has officially been hijacked and I apologize for it.

Not so much into the whole doing just oral for a bunch of different people like that. Would like to do one like on Czech glory holes movies though.

In any threesome there will be a moment when one feels left out. This should be understood by the partners at the outset, but does not always happen. Even when a couple has set boundaries, e.g., no playing unless I'm right there, people can cross the line especially if they have less experience. Don't get upset if this happens because it happens. Why is it necessary to control the other two people? Let things flow, let your fellow players enjoy themselves. Your turn will come. Don't spoil the moment. Share your feelings later.

I did not "lose" my virginity. I know exactly where I left it.

Doesn’t really matter what you do during an orgasm. Pretty sure anyone you are with will be happy they made you cum and know from a man cumming you can’t control how you cum. To answer your question my wife gets creamy and moans leading up to a series of contractions maybe like yours not like a ripple. Do you feel the difference in the men when they cum?

I spent my time relaxing between rounds or going down on CB, as soon as there was a knock on the door I put my blindfold back on, CB put my hand restraints back on to my neck collar,then the next guy walked in and fucked me. I had fun, just wish more had showed up so that I could have had one finish and another one immediately replace them. Overall it was fun and I want to do it again, just with more participants.

When I was single, I ran through a few disappointing encounters. Women who were pretty, interesting, and also just complete duds or prudes. When we went our separate ways, some of them probably figured out why, but I suspect most never did. As a couple, we did have one "meh" encounter, an MFM where the M was just too nervous. We made it as fun as we could, called it a night, and that was that. If it'd been our first attempt, it might have been a real letdown, but lame sex or bad chemistry is a thing that happens. Going into it with a sporting attitude that we're going to see what happens and enjoy ourselves is the best we can do, knowing that if this one isn't a win, the next one might be, and we do have our semi-regular play friends to visit with who we know have good chemistry. I'm not going to lie. Beating a car salesman down into his holdback is a lot like good rough sex.

If we lived in Arizona, we’d be there.

When we were just starting out, we were meeting couples for dinner and it seemed like we would talk about everything...except sex. So we decided to make sure to bring sex up as a topic whenever we were meeting a couple. Usually it was something simple like how long have the two of you been doing this or just asking about their adventures. At least this got the topic started. Some would quickly steer away from sex (and usually we would then steer away from them...if they can't talk about sex, how will they be able to do anything else?) but others would open the door and walk right in (and thank us for bringing it up since they didn't know how to start). We would then talk about limits and rules so that everyone was on the same page with expectations. Usually after the dinner (or meeting) we would follow up (if we were interested in them) with an invite to do something, but that something would include where things were (hopefully) leading. This way everyone knew what the basic plan was. Sometimes things would go different from the plan or someone would pump the brakes (both are okay) but the basic outline was at least out there to follow. The short answer is to be a good communicator and help them communicate as well. Last: we consider what we are doing as 'couples dating'. As a result, we do everything that we would do if we were still dating and looking for a (single) partner. Minimum REQUIREMENTS. If you aren't going to make an effort, then no effort is what you will get in return.