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I posted earlier on. In my opinion there is more to being sexy other than size and beauty. A woman can be a”10” and not be sexy. I think a lot has to do with attitude. The brain is a major factor in being”sexy”. Confidence is paramount. I think most men want an aggressive partner who is really an active participant in playing. I myself am more interested in a partner who is really into aggressive play. A woman who is extremely beautiful but is not really into what’s happening doesn’t give me a “woody” Be positive about yourself. From what I saw of your photos you are a beautiful hot woman. Act sexy and you will be sexy. You’ll get more men interested in you than you think. This is all just my opinion of course.

Beauty is something that is only on the outside...skin deep if you will. Sexy is something that a confident woman projects outward from deep inside and rarely has anything to do with the skin. As rdy2go already said, a woman can be a 10 based on looks but not be sexy. I don't agree with the 'aggressive' part, however. A woman can be sexy and not be aggressive. That's one of the reasons we don't put too much faith in photos...sexy can't be photographed very easily, it's something that only really shows itself in person.

Very unlikely. There is occasionally the pushy male, attached or otherwise, but those are considered rude and social misfits. Many people will chat with you a bit. Others may not be interested in talking. Either way very few will expect instant gratification. The experienced will spot you are new & most of those will treat you with a bit of respect that way.

If you don't like drama, and don't want any. Just be honest with folks! And if you really are the alpha type, you shouldn't be afraid to be honest.

Thank you. We will definitely go to one

Hello, Petra here. Why are all of the responses to this thread discussing what makes it good for the guy? For me, as a woman giving a blowjob (to completion), what makes unforgettable for me is: - He's already been in a pussy, mine or preferably another woman's, but hasn't yet come (see below); - He's totally flaccid (I like getting it all in my mouth to start and feeling him expand); - He is not too long. A good blow job-size dick for me is short, but thickness doesn't matter - the opposite of what I like for anal where thinness is preferable and length doesn't matter. - He lets me have control. I don't like it when a guy is thrusting his dick into my throat. I can deep throat some, but it doesn't make it good for me. I want to do it my way with a lot of tongue and take it farther down when I'm ready. Be patient and I can take it all the way. - He lets me know when he's going to cum, because: - I take all of his semen in my mouth; - I hold it in my open mouth (to me the taste is anywhere from neutral to good), roll it around with my tongue for him and anyone else who's interested to see what I've done (naughty girl); - I make a show of swallowing. - Optional - Instead of swallowing, I like to snowball (pass the semen back and forth between our mouths before swallowing) by either kissing him or another woman. (I like to do it with another guy, but guys don't. Hubby's done it for me twice though.) - Also option - Having someone fucking me or licking me while doing the above. I prefer giving blow jobs while upright (kneeling, standing, sitting) for control so I prefer doing cowgirl, reverse cowgirl or sitting on his/her face if it's going to be me doing these simultaneously. Doggy can work as well.

The thing that always amazes me is how other people are never psychic. You would think they knew your wishes the instant the thought crosses your mind, the way it should be. In case you’re also not psychic, I’m being facetious. You say he came over and everybody had a good idea of what was going to take place. (That’s a good start.) You also say that you turned your back on them to play a game, and damn them they didn’t throw their clothes off and start going at it right then. (hell that sounds like they were both so rude they were waiting for you to make the first move.) Then when you went to bed to give them some privacy they started doing what you invited him over to do in the first place, (I’ve never heard of anything so disrespectful.) Then after you gave them a few minutes to get into the swing of things, you came down and caught them giving oral to one another. (Just like you gave them some privacy for.) Then the shameless vixen starts giving you head while he bangs her from behind. (Just like you wanted to happen.) The humanity of it all. You go to all the trouble to talk your wife into a three-some. You invite a man over to the house to fuck her, and you even give them some privacy to get started. And what do they do, they get started. (I’m sorry, but even with an imagination as vivid as mine, I can’t see what the problem is.) They followed your lead my friend. If you wanted something different you should have put your big-boy pants on and mentioned what you had in mind. And if you have any plans in continuing with this type of fun, you really need to set-down and discuss with your wife what you have in mind. If I was you I would also tell her that you didn’t have any problem with what they did. Maybe outline some future changes, but you need to take responsibility for that night. If you don’t mind, allow me to suggest a thing or two. Your wife is new to this, she’s also more than a little anxious about doing something that will aggravate you. The guy you invited over is scared shitless about putting hands on your wife. Fear and apprehension aren’t conducive to sexual fun. You need to get your ass off the game and join the two of them. Start some casual petting with your wife and invite him to join in when the feeling gets right. Let her know before hand she is free to be spontaneous, so she can help him relax and enjoy what she’s offering him. Try something like, “Damn Joe, feel how wet that pussy is, I’m not sure the two of us will be able to take care of this little wildcat tonight.” This whole idea is about the three of you having fun with one another. While you all might have fantasies fulfilled, the chances are much better in that happening if those fantasies are known about beforehand. If the two of you enjoyed what took place with the third wheel, and feel like doing it again, I would go for it. If not, you might explore somebody new. Either way, this is the two of you, (both you and your wife,) exploring something new. You need to do it together, and you both need to be up front about what it is you want to happen, and how you want it to happen. That’s just my take and I might be wrong. After all, I was wrong that one time back in ’68. And ever since I’ve been on pins and needles thinking it might happen again.

In your mind singles are simply a toy, worthless...we are human beings too. Somehow you think it is okay to lie to someone, film them without their knowledge, all the while focusing on her. Ever heard of honesty? I am not sure what the LS means to you, but this is a shit show.

I think it Looks hot if another guy sucks a dick or get sucked...

Sorry I missed replying earlier. With the banana peeled it's messy! And of course great care must be taken cleaning afterwards. Unpeeled, a banana has 'give' in it and Mrs Scots certainly enjoyed.

I read some of this, look at the messages in my mailbox and wonder sometimes WTF am I doing here. I have met some fun people, couples and single guys that know how to have fun but sometimes it loses its luster. Met too many creeps too. But for me it's more of a hobby, not a lifestyle.

I love when the wife will give me oral and then help me slowly slide my dick with all her juices on it into her husbands ass...bareback style (safe/trusting couple of course) and then pounding him, slapping that ass and then busting the biggest nut into his ass while she watches and pleases herself.

I love fucking a guy and then seeing the intense sex between him/his wife that follows. Dominating him, having his wife see him as a cock sucking, bottom bitch...mmmm yummy

My wife was with me the first time a man sucked my cock, the first time I sucked a cock, the first time I swallowed a load of cum, and the first time I got fucked in the ass. She loves to watch me with a bi male. By the time we're ready to cum, so is she! I loved to watch her play with her pussy and cum while I swallow a load! It's a family tradition!

Big turn-on having the wife watch me blow her husband. My favorite is when I'm sucking a "bi virgin" for the first time. Normally they're nervous & the minute my tongue is working that shaft &balls, they begin to relax. One guy kept saying "fuck I can't believe I'm getting blown by a dude...it feels so fucking good"...which made me work even harder & he busted semi quick. Another guy's wife got so horny while he was getting blown, she made me sit on it & ride him

We are both bi and it's a huge turn-on for me to see him suck a dick or get taken from behind. He was bi before I met him and I think it's great that he can be himself.

I was there to see hubby's first bi experience last year and it was such a HUGE turn-on. So when he is ready to fuck ass or be fucked, I would love to see that. Though it's more his fantasy rather than mine, from the time I witnessed his bi experience, I am not adverse to seeing him take it a step further if he chooses to do so. :-)

When Mr. Mimi and I met, I wasn't at all interested in male bi play. However, a post on this sight regarding male play got me so turned on that we have now added that, with the blessing of the Mr., to our repertoire. I have seen him get his cock sucked while I was riding our play partner and I almost rode that poor man in to the ground, I was so turned on. Next, I can't wait to see the Mr. suck cock. So excited that, because of this board, we are able to explore this fantasy together.

Yummy. I love watching gay porn, makes me SO wet. My husband has sucked and been sucked. He isn't bi at all - just open minded about what feels good. Lately he's been talking a lot about wanting to get fucked in the ass by a real cock (and not just me with a strap-on LOL). I hope we can make this fantasy of his come true!! MY fantasy is for him to fuck me while he's getting fucked in the ass. Talk about orgasm!!!! Lol

Most people know what turns them on, what they like to see, and what they don't like to watch. However, I think it is always changing and evolving...just like ourselves. We grow, we learn, we explore, we expand our minds and are open to new and different experiences that we would have found distasteful years ago. For myself, I don't particularly find two guys getting it on to be a turn-on but I will enjoy it for the fact that they are giving and receiving pleasure from one another and that is a pleasant thing. If Mr. Sun were to ever want to explore being bi-curious (long-shot at the moment), I would whole-heartedly welcome it because I want him to know that I'm accepting of his sexual exploration and the pleasure he may find. In the end, why would I want to deny him something that could make him happy?

It turns me on to see two guys fucking on video, but I've never seen it in real life. I've also never inserted Pet into that fantasy because I know it's something he would never do. Now, if he ever fulfilled my fantasy of seeing him suck a dick... then my new fantasy might be to see him fucking another guy.

Brian and I are both bi. I love to watch him with another man either as he is being fucked or when he is fucking the guy himself. It is a huge turn-on for me I must admit.