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There is an active post entitled "What makes an unforgettable blow job?" How about a discussion about what makes receiving oral unforgettable for a woman? My list: - I like getting oral while lying on my back on the bed while you kneel on the floor. Let's get comfortable first. - Don't turn me down just because someone has recently been down/in there. I may not be fresh, but I'm always clean. My girls don't have a problem with it. If it's good enough to put your dick in there, it's good enough for your mouth (except my bum; you don't have to lick my bum hole). - Don't jump in immediately. Start by looking and admiring everything I have down there: my hair, my outer labia, the coloring of my inner lips, my clit, my vaginal opening. Turn the desk lamp on, shine it on my pussy, tell me how beautiful it is. - Once you get started, use both your lips and your tongue. Go back and forth measuring my response. - My clit is big, but please don't suck on it like you're trying to suck the life out of it. - Alternate between slowly putting full tongue pressure on my clit, especially from the left and right with quickly flicking across it. - It's nice to have your tongue occasionally go across the opening of my vagina, but trying to stick it inside like a dick is not going to work, it's too small. - Gently slip your index and middle fingers into my vagina. - Even more gently and once some juices have run down, slip your ring finger into my bum. - With your other hand, play with my tits while your licking and kissing my pussy. Don't squeeze my nipples too hard! You can be a little rough with my breasts overall, but just gently brush across my nipples. - I usually don't give instructions while getting oral, but if I do, listen and follow directions. - Continue whatever you are doing at the time I come well through my orgasm. And don't be backing off because something is shooting out of there, sometimes it happens. You should be flattered. - Remember that unlike you (if you're a guy), me having an oral orgasm isn't going to diminish my capabilities for penis-in-vagina intercourse. - After I say "stop," Stop! You can keep your mouth on my pussy, but don't try stimulating me for like two minutes. After I recover we'll decide what we're going to do next - more licking, fucking, moving on. - Optional - I'll get on all fours on the bed, you get underneath and lick/kiss me while I take a dick doggie. You can skip the fingering steps above. You can play with one of my tits, but leave one for the other guy. I'll suck your dick/lick your pussy for a while, but the closer I get to cumming, it's all me, I need to breathe.

At least he is honest. Swinging is rarely the foundation of a relationship. A solid relationship is foundational for happy swinging. There is no ambiguity on chicken and egg here.

Don't mind a bit! After many years of marriage, we got to a point where we started talking more openly about our sex life and some fantasies that include other people. At some point, our female half wanted to include toys when we're together and we've had lots of fun with that! During a short stay in Amsterdam, we went to the Red Light District just to see what it's all about. When we returned home, I (the male half) started researching to see if there's a swing club in our hometown where we could go just to watch. That's when I discovered both this Web site and SLS. The SLS site listed You Know Where (YKW) -- along with other NC clubs -- and it's less than 90 minutes from us. We started talking about what we'd like to get out of a visit to this place and if we could ever actually do anything just between us in front of other people. It turned out that we both had some curiosity about voyeurism and to a lesser degree exhibitionism. The more we talked, the more we both discovered that the other one had some desire to experience things beyond just V&E with other couples, so we joined SLS and started actively looking for what we think are compatible matches. We also made one visit to YKW and joined their member site, and we're slowly making some contacts with other members. At this point, we haven't had any physical interaction with others, but we're hopeful that it will happen one of these days either at the club or through a connection we make on SLS. And that's our story!

Might not be enjoyable for you but I have received some very enthusiastic responses for doing just this. You have made an excellent summary of great cunnilingus. I will take it as an valuable tutorial and urge others to give it a proper consideration.

Laura?? Is that YOU??? Have you been reincarnated????

That newness is something that we obviously naturally lose with our SO and it's not possible to get it back. Familiarity can make for great sex too but it's different. We swing for the variety, the newness. Some people cheat because they want to feel that endorphin rush of falling in lust again. That rush can make sex feel totally different that familiar sex. It can be something you've never done before. It can be exciting because it's just outside of our comfort zone. It can be kinky or naughty or animalistic and our responses to those situations, if we aren't holding back for fear of what our SO thinks, will likely be very different than it is during familiar sex. I remember our first swap. I loved watching my wife go down on the guy. As they were standing and kissing she managed to get his cock out of his pants. She squatted down and started blowing him. He was bigger than me which was great. She ended up on her back with him going down on her and after a while I heard her tell him that she needed to feel that big cock inside of her. He didn't respond immediately because he was really enjoying what he was doing. She told him again, almost begging him to fuck her "with that big cock". It was hot to hear it at the time in the heat of things but it also stung just a little. She's never said that to me the way she said it to him. Later that night we had sex again and she told me my cock feels best. I think it actually stung a little more at the time. I thought about it over the course of about a week wavering from feeling a twinge of something, jealousy?, inadequacy?. But then I realized it was hot for her to have a bigger cock and that's ok, that's why we do this, for these different experiences. I want her to have as big of a cock as she wants, as much pleasure as she can handle and I want her to get totally absorbed in the experience. When I get to reclaim her the sex is rarely familiar.

LoveBird08, join a website like SLS or SDC. Go to a meet or greet or swingers club in your area. Don’t plan to play your first time out, but learn the lingo and see how you feel. Go as slow as your slower partner. Don’t do anything or anyone you don’t want to do. Use condoms if you full swap. Most of all, have fun and make sure your spouse is having fun to the best of your ability.

I lost my virginity at 16 with 2 girls. That's probably where it started lol... I was lying about that high speed internet in the late 90s online communities swinger sites I've been a long time honey if you want. As a single male there the level of difficulty meeting people is high however when it has worked out I believe the waiting and anticipation only makes it better. I have joined, watched, been watched, had regular things and meet people in town for a stay. I've been up twice that were in my hometown periodically on business and call me. like I said the single male experience had high degree of difficulty. I really wish I had so much LOL