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I’m very new to even the idea of swinging but the thought does excite me. I’m 64 as well and definitely not dead yet! Don’t let age hold you back. Enjoy life and spread your wings.

My husband has always liked the idea of swinging. It’s taken him years to convince me, but I’m on board now. We haven’t done much yet, but he’s always encouraging/pushing me to do more. Talking about how cool it would be to see me all turned on with someone else. Years ago I made out with a girl HE introduced me to, and HE encouraged me to get with. (A girl from his work) afterwards, he was furious! We worked it out, but didn’t do much other than chat with swingers for years after that. Recently he’s been taking about giving it another shot. We went to an EDM concert this weekend. He was encouraging me to go ‘have fun’ I drank more than I should have. I was out dancing/grinding with everyone. My husband was with me the whole time, but he never jumped in on any of it. I made out with a couple guys on the dance floor and once again...my husband was furious. I’m trying to figure out what’s going on with him. Why encourage me to do stuff then get mad? I think maybe he feels left out? But, if he wants in on it, I feel like he should jump in.

I Nice that in this case everyone’s varied desires are able to be met. This is just one of the advantages of swinging.

This is sort of like my wife and the husband of another couple we play with, except the other way around. My wife and he sometimes do a dominance/submission thing (which neither his wife nor I are into) where my wife will verbally and physically abuse him. My wife will insult him every which way, slap his ass, pull his hair, slap him on his face. She'll tell him his dick's no good, which makes him hard, force him on his back and ride him demanding that he cums. He does. She'll also stick things in his ass and tell him not to be a baby boy about it. His wife hates the whole thing, so if they're going to do this thing, we go off alone and have gentle sex, make love.

As a former Okie, I miss the Thanksgiving rivalry between Nebraska and OU. I was at the 1972 game, at the time the game of the century, and also the 2000 game that led to OU's last championship. Scott Frost is a great coach and he'll get Nebraska back where they belong. Oh, and back to the question of the thread, I live a few miles from The Villages in Florida. Hundreds of swingers over 60 there!

It's interesting that appearance is such a turn on for you. I've been told by several women that I have a pretty penis. I'm average so it wasn't a size thing. I've never asked what makes it pretty or prettier than other penises though it always seemed like a bit of a strange statement to me. I do find some women's genitalia to be more attractive than others so I guess a woman might feel the same about a guy's equipment. Generally though, men are much more visually stimulated by such things than women.

It's easier for me for two reasons. First, they were friends before play partners. Second, there were only five couples that we played with. But, sadly, that was back in the late 70's/early 80's and we didn't have access to computers, cellphones and digital cameras. So there was no correspondences or pics to have kept. Communications were mostly in person or by telephone. Years later though, I did make a diary of those experiences to best of my memory. Now we did play online with a few couples years later. That was about 20 years ago. And, stupidly, we didn't keep any of the emails or pics we exchanged. Well, actually, we deleted them in consideration to the couples who sent them. But, dang it, I'd sure pay a bundle to have them now.

Hmmm. I remember the first; I remember the latest. Those in between are a little nebulous. I can only guess how many. I have suffered, even, the embarrassment of being intimate at a house party with woman who had to remind me that it was not our first intimate encounter.

Just want to let everyone know what happened since my post and close the loop on this one. Not long after my post, I did have a session with my special friend while Mr. A watched. It's right that most of the feelings existed in my head, but it felt strange and awkward to be naked while Mr. A kept his clothes on and wasn't participating like in a normal swinging event. The session began awkwardly too, and I was nervous so I asked Mr. A before doing anything. But I began to relax after intercourse and Mr. A was so encouraging and even held my hand. Mr. A even got a quickie at the end while my friend was in the bathroom cleaning up so I knew he was actually pretty turned on by it.