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There's no reason that you can't do both and enjoy both. That's what I like and it's sensory overload, in a good way. Watching my wife banging another man and being in another pussy either at the same time or afterwards is heaven.

I will probably get some hate for this, but if done properly I see no problem with what you propose. What worries me is that you call this a fetish, and say, "I really am turned on by the thought of someone cumming in me and possibly getting me pregnant." If you're thinking of making a baby, a new human, it had be better thought out rather than just something that turns you on. First and foremost, is your husband ok with you getting pregnant by another man and is he willing and capable, financially and otherwise, of caring for the child? (Have you both been tested to see if he has swimmers and your eggs are good?) If so, then it is no different than sperm donation or adoption. If not, don't do it. As to the other guys, once they pump their cum into you it's a gift and all your choice on what you can do: abort, have the child and keep bio dad out of it, or pursue bio dad for support. There are numerous discussions about whether that is all fair, but that's the way it is. Although I think all states automatically make any child born in a marriage the husband's child, you may also want to consult a family lawyer. (Consider again how this isn't fair - if a married man gets a single girl pregnant, the law doesn't just let the couple claim the child as theirs.)

The misses and I are heading down to the Tampa area next month for a weekend get away. Whenever we travel to Florida we story and stumble upon lifestyle bars/clubs when possible. We haven’t traveled to this area before and am wondering if there are some recommendations on where to go!

Sorry to hear that... but we will all be a year older next year! Have fun while we can still enjoy it!

Vi, I was listening to a podcast the other day where I heard a point of view on monogamy that I had never considered before. In summary, the concept is this, when you make a contract of monogamy, you not only promise to have sex with only that one person, you also promise to fulfill ALL of the sexual needs of that person as well! You have both an obligation AND a responsibility! I think the podcast was "Sex with Emily", episode "How to Handle Your Sex Life with Hannah Cranston". The segment was somewhere in the middle, so I don't want to go back and verify. May be a good discussion starter for you and your wife.

What exactly is a “friction party”?

I check into this forum about once a month. This is one of the best threads, with incredibly helpful responses, that I have ever seen here. My wife and I visited a club over the summer, had a great time and were ready to take the first timer plunge when a situation was right. I had complete confidence that no hard feelings or extreme jealousy would occur from seeing her with another man. Then, our marriage hit a rough patch for a few months and we have not been as close as usual(8 years married). I am sure that we will work through things. But, with that rough patch, all talk of playing with others has stopped. I realized that sharing her with others will only work for me if things are going great between us. If I sense a disconnect between us, I realize that jealousy may also crop up that is not usually present. This made me realize that if there is any doubt at all, don't do it. Of course, I am confident that we will get through the holidays and our situation will also improve. Then, we can revisit what we started.

If vaginal sex is painful, what about oral, anal or manual sex? You guys need to talk.

Welcome Funcouple. I think it was a good idea to come here and post this prior to doing it. Usually, when it comes to swinging, or any kind of planned extramarital sex, the decision is left to the wife. With guys, it's easy to think we can jump in and go crazy. Married women, being asked to have sex with strangers, may need to process it a lot more. They also may process it and decide to not do it, as it may jeopardize another aspect of their lives. Women will look at the big picture more, where we just look at the surface pleasure. If she is saying no, please honor that. You can bring it up with her, and she may eventually go along, but manipulating a situation rarely works and is kinda underhanded. Keep in mind that sexual equality rarely exists in a marriage. There is almost always one that is more into sex than the other. Experience tells me that trying to bring the lagging person up to a more sexual level is frustrating at best.

My first experience was with a couple. She was in a 69 with me and I realized they were both sharing my cock. She climbed off of me so that I could enjoy the view and boy was it hot. She was pretending to be forcing him to service me and he was loving it too. She would look at me and tell me ,"I want you to shoot it in his mouth." He would pull off and she would tell him to , "Suck that big hard cock." I could not hold out any longer and I told them so. She had me stand up and then she made him get on his knees in front of me and service my cock until he milked it all over his open mouth and she licked my cum off his face and the end of my cock. For many months afterward I would find myself jacking off and thinking about that night and wishing I had sucked his cock too. Now I find myself fantasizing about sucking cock and it is the object of many of my jack off thoughts. I would love to have a girlfriend that makes me suck cock and my biggest fantasy is for her and I to spend the night at a motel and have guys come to our room for her and I to get on our knees and service as many as we can the whole night. I have many other fantasies too but that is one hot thought.