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I've always felt that a gal can handle two guys much more effectively than a guy can handle two women. For the threesome to be two women and a guy, it should be with two bisexual women. Hey, just my opinion!

My close call with DVP was a cruel joke. I was at a house party. A woman (friend and playmate) was on top of me and I was in there. Another guy approached us and asked if we wanted to try DVP. I got so excited by the thought of it, I came almost immediately. My partner and her nearby husband thought this was very funny!

I participated in a DVP with a wonderful married couple multiple times. We would only get together once a month as the wife considered it her husband and hers "special date night" and wanted it to always be special. We started doing DVP after a couple of times being together and I'll admit at first it sort of weirded me out being so close to another man but soon realized this was all about the woman being pleasured. The husband was straight like me but he loved bringing his wife to sexual ecstasy. It was a HUGE turn on to see how the wife would just get lost in fucking and cumming. I've never experienced DVP again and I do so miss it. Slow and slippery was our motto.

The first two times we did it, I came as the other guy slid in. It was just that hot. You are not alone!

We were at a very large party (100+) people Christmas eve. We knew everyone there. A family friend was there who we both have been attracted to for years. We were talking off in the corner on the dark balcony, and the wife and her started talking about sex topics, finally my wife told her they should kiss, they had lightly kissed in the past and my wife has felt her breasts, well they did, it was quite a makeout session. Not sure if anyone saw them. Two women kissing it such a turn on for me. I couldn't get to sleep thinking about the kisses, so I had to have sex with my wife. Wife and I talked about it, there maybe more to come. It was a great Christmas.

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My current comfort level is much like your wife's. I started out wearing sexy clothes when hubby and I would go out, and over a few years that progressed to me wearing very revealing outfits that might "accidentally" result in a flash (no bra or panties, etc). Frankly, I get a bit of a sexual charge from other men noticing, and so does my husband. We also vacation in the Caribbean where topless beaches are the norm. It took me a little while to get up the nerve to go topless with a regular bikini, and now I have a couple of Wicked Weasel barely there bottoms that I wear. It is sexy and fun for us. Now that we are dipping our toes into the lifestyle, we are still discussing limits with which we both agree. I have gotten to the point where I am bi-curious, and would love to be with a woman while being watched. It hasn't happened yet, but we went to one club party so far, and enjoyed the vibe. We are taking it slowly. Your wife may be doing the same. It does seem to be an evolutionary process for some.

Many couples take incremental steps into swinging. Some go the full route and end up with full swaps. Others will not go beyond the first step which is their comfort level. We know some couples that like to get with other couples for sexy fun but don't exchange partners nor allow kissing of others. And another couple that we met and became good friends with. But she would not play in the same room we were in because she "knew" us. And yet, she will go to a club and have her husband screw her brains out while others watch because they are all strangers. My point is, take it to where you and her are both comfortable with. And be glad she feels adventurous enough to do what she does. There are so many other couples out there that would gladly trade their pure vanilla life for a little of what you two do together. It may never go further than that or she may surprise you some day. Mine surprised me on one trip and said she was ready for full swap. We have never looked back...that was a couple of years ago.

You have to be comfortable. If you aren't comfortable you aren't comfortable. You may wish to delve into yourself to determine why you are uncomfortable, but even if you land upon the reason, the feelings aren't just going to magically evaporate. Your reason may be irrational, it may be a combination of intuitions who have yet to put a finger on, or you may have a perfectly valid reason for feeling this way. From where I sit, its irrelevant. I don't question people's sexual preferences and I don't pressure them to change to suit other people, or what is popular. Sexuality is too personal and too deeply wrought in our psyches to be forced or coerced or politicized. This is about having fun and sharing pleasure with those who want to share it with us. If you are uncomfortable, you aren't going to be having fun and its going to suck for everybody involved. You may, upon reflection, find your feelings about this change over time. And that's okay, too. We all learn and grow as we cogitate upon new experiences and become more comfortable with the unknown. That said, I will play with couples where the man is bisexual because I'm upfront that I am straight and M/M play is not on the table. I have yet to meet a bi man who was anything but respectful of my boundaries.

Not my cup of tea. If it was "my" cum and my cock she was sucking, I would kiss her deeply. I personally am not into kissing her after another guy has cum in her mouth or after she has sucked another guy.