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We were at a very large party (100+) people Christmas eve. We knew everyone there. A family friend was there who we both have been attracted to for years. We were talking off in the corner on the dark balcony, and the wife and her started talking about sex topics, finally my wife told her they should kiss, they had lightly kissed in the past and my wife has felt her breasts, well they did, it was quite a makeout session. Not sure if anyone saw them. Two women kissing it such a turn on for me. I couldn't get to sleep thinking about the kisses, so I had to have sex with my wife. Wife and I talked about it, there maybe more to come. It was a great Christmas.

Whew! I'm so grateful for all of your posts, as I learned so much leading up to our first time. All I can say is, what on earth took me so long!? My partner and I are a relatively new couple, only 4 years in, but we've known each other on and off since we were children. He has been in the lifestyle for 20 years, but has been monogamish with me since we've been together. It became very clear, very early on, that he would prefer for us to have a sexually diverse future together. Having just come out of a poly marriage, I was hesitant. I mean, I had every excuse in the book. I had no interest in another cock, I had no interest in eating pussy, I was slightly terrified that it would tear us apart like it did my marriage, that I couldn't handle it, that my cellulite is gross, that we were too early on in our relationship, that we would contract some horrific STD, that I would burst into tears mid-fuckery...all of it. We're so spoiled rotten with the hot sex that we have daily, why, WHYYYY did we need to do this!? He gently listened through all the freakouts, while still encouraging me to manage our AFF account and 'just talk to people'. So in the end, it was me who ended up making the plans. Smart man, keeping his ass in line so nothing could come back on him if it went poorly~ ha! We live in a very small town, with no clubs available, so we ended up planning a weekend at a hotel with perfect strangers. While they were lovely, it did not exactly go smoothly~ an unexpected STD reveal, the dreaded ED, and my not being terribly attracted to the guy even though he was super sweet, intelligent and attractive. That said, it was hot. Having someone have sex on the same bed as us, us women playing, and quite frankly, to see my man with another woman was out of control sexy. To add all sorts of whipped cream on top, the woman joined us on her own the following day which was...oh my. Anywho~ what I learned is this. I am desperately in love with this man, and he is hopelessly in love with me. Now that we have officially begun swinging, I can say with the utmost certainty that we are even stronger. To be able to express our desires without fear, to push past hurdles with clear communication, and to truly be on the same team is so fucking cool. I felt so cared for during our time with this other couple. His glances at me, checking in. The squeeze of my hand while he was passionately kissing another woman...and oh dear god the sex we've had for days afterwards. I'm sure there are all sorts of nightmare stories, and we are lucky to have had a great first experience. I do have to say, I am damn proud of myself for deciding to jump in. It has awoken a part of me that I didn't realize existed. It has enriched my relationship with my partner, and opened up a whole new world of passion and desire. Because hell if any of us should deny ourselves conscious and respectful pleasure. The only reason not to, is fear. Fuck fear.

Both times our best friend hand DVP with my wife and me, he and I came rather quickly and we both came together. It was amazing. Since we were not using condoms, he and I could really feel the added lubrication when we came together.

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and another reason……

My current comfort level is much like your wife's. I started out wearing sexy clothes when hubby and I would go out, and over a few years that progressed to me wearing very revealing outfits that might "accidentally" result in a flash (no bra or panties, etc). Frankly, I get a bit of a sexual charge from other men noticing, and so does my husband. We also vacation in the Caribbean where topless beaches are the norm. It took me a little while to get up the nerve to go topless with a regular bikini, and now I have a couple of Wicked Weasel barely there bottoms that I wear. It is sexy and fun for us. Now that we are dipping our toes into the lifestyle, we are still discussing limits with which we both agree. I have gotten to the point where I am bi-curious, and would love to be with a woman while being watched. It hasn't happened yet, but we went to one club party so far, and enjoyed the vibe. We are taking it slowly. Your wife may be doing the same. It does seem to be an evolutionary process for some.

Many couples take incremental steps into swinging. Some go the full route and end up with full swaps. Others will not go beyond the first step which is their comfort level. We know some couples that like to get with other couples for sexy fun but don't exchange partners nor allow kissing of others. And another couple that we met and became good friends with. But she would not play in the same room we were in because she "knew" us. And yet, she will go to a club and have her husband screw her brains out while others watch because they are all strangers. My point is, take it to where you and her are both comfortable with. And be glad she feels adventurous enough to do what she does. There are so many other couples out there that would gladly trade their pure vanilla life for a little of what you two do together. It may never go further than that or she may surprise you some day. Mine surprised me on one trip and said she was ready for full swap. We have never looked back...that was a couple of years ago.

Arranging something like this without the wife's foreknowledge is a recipe for disaster. Rethink your approach.

A million times this. I would be very upset if my husband did something like this. It is about trust.

She's got to be ready for it or it could end badly. I'd advise making sure it's something she wants to do before proceeding and then let her do it her way. I have the same basic fantasy. I'd like to see my wife approached at an upscale hotel bar then let her make a proposition of a MFM threesome if she's feeling it with the guy. We've done MFM before. We've discussed it and she's open to it. We just haven't pulled the trigger yet mostly due to timing. I would think this is something that could happen pretty organically in Vegas if she wants to go through with it. Shouldn't take any pre-arranging.

a.m i the only one that. sits around reading things about swinging jacking off for hrs on some days . get naked stroke cock for hrs some times whit cock and ball rings on. can last for 4 or 5 hrs at a time am i weird or just over sexed

Resurrecting this old thread. We have one, and I absolutely love it. While I love playing on it with/for my husband, I have taken a few solo rides when he has been traveling, and sent him the video. We both get enjoyment out of that. I prefer the non-penetrating attachment option. I have even ridden it fully clothed, and it still works. I am thinking about putting together a "girl's night" by inviting friends over for wine, margaritas and Sybian rides. I just need to find the right friends, LOL. My current circle of work and church acquaintances might not understand.

I'm a bi guy, play with other couples with straight men all the time. Not a big deal. I have had my ass grabbed expectantly by a man I thought was straight. However, I have never grabbed or touched another guy when he told me he was straight. Hope that helps!! Good Luck and have fun!

Like you funcouple, giving head increases my wife's level of arousal. After a few minutes of sucking cock she's ready to go.

"Mostly this is a female getting a guy hard with a BJ and less so men going down on a woman. " Really? I love giving oral on a woman, wife loves it and our other partners have loved it too.

When the guy is close to ejaculating, the penis often gets really hard. Also I can tell when the guy is actually ejaculating, I can feel the penis spasms.

I can feel everything when my BF cums in me. He does spurt really hard when he cums and I think the tip of his cock is aimed right at my cervix. I can always tell when he's getting close to cumming. Most of the time he rolls us over into the missionary position where he can give me his deepest thrusting. His body tenses up, his thrusting becomes harder and more driven, his breathing becomes faster, and I can feel his cock getting even harder and growing in girth. The anticipation of knowing I'm about to be filled often heightens my arousal, even if I've just cum. We don't always cum together, but when we do it is awesome. He holds back as long as he can waiting for me. When I go over the edge, it's always a really powerful one where he can definitly feel my vaginal contractions around his cock. The feeling of my pussy contracting around his cock makes him lose control and he thrusts into me to the hilt pushing his pubic bone firmly against me. I in turn, being able to sense that this is it, thrust my hips upward, impaling myself on his cock, trying to get him even deeper inside me and squeezing my pussy as tightly as I can. His cock starts throbbing as if it has a sudden expansion then immediately goes back to size. Each time his cock throbs I feel a stream of his cum spurt into me. I let out a gasp with each spurt, letting him know I'm feeling it. After the second or third spurt I begin to feel the heat of his cum inside me as he continues to empty himself. After seven or eight spurts it's all over. Afterward he stays deep inside me, grinding his pubic bome firmly against mine while I squeeze my pussy muscles around him trying to milk him of every drop. I feel really wet and full by now as his swishes around inside me.

I dunno. Two naked hotties fingering each other and all sorts of fun stuff? I don't think ANYTHING could persuade me to leave that!!

I am getting so horny just reading this thread!!!

Circle Jerk. I don't know if that's the correct term or not for males jerking off together, but the following post got me thinking: Is it common for guys to jack-off together? Is this something most guys do when they're younger? Watch porn or whatever with their buddies and masturbate?