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Twenty couples. One couple that we’ve met, have not played with. One couple that we had dinner with, but declined to play with us. Only met the hosts on internet swing site, but they’ve been nice. You never know what will happen! Will report back. Tomorrow night.

I've never been bored with Mrs Doc in any area. She's beautiful, sexy, funny and very bright. Even before we started to swing, sex was a lot of fun with her. She wasn't afraid to try new positions or new places like the parking lot of our local Giant. She would often not wear a bra and was not above flashing me a boob in Lowes or the mall. She loved to try on clothing and leave the dressing room curtain or door partially open. There were times when I was not the only guy getting a show and she didn't seem to mind. Once we started swinging, she has continued to surprise me with her capacity for fun and orgasms. I don't think we'll ever get bored with each other. Each year around Christmas we get dressed up and go out to an upscale place for our own holiday dinner for 2. Its a splurge, top shelf all the way. The last several years our place of choice is Capital Grille. This year, she wore a thin white blouse with a few buttons undone, no bra and a short skirt, (the panties were still in the drawer with her bra). We had the wait staffs full attention through out dinner. As we left, I opened the car door for her and she flashed me and the parking lot with an upskirt shot. We were chatting a bit as I got us to I-75, about a 10 minute drive. As I entered the ramp she said sweetly, "Honey, over here". I looked over and she had one boob out and her skirt hiked up. Once I got into traffic I looked over at her again and she had the seat partially reclined and I discovered that she had put her favorite vibrator in the car before we left home. Try to maintain concentration on the highway with a semi naked woman riding a vibrator in the seat next to you. I think its more distracting than texting. My only suggestion was for her NOT to squirt on my leather seats. She didn't and our boring 40 minute drive home wasn't.

The club we frequented in the northeast had a glory hole room which Mrs Doc enjoyed with regularity. There are 3 holes in one wall so sometimes all three are full, sometimes there are 2 dicks with one hole occupied by a watcher. This one guy had been looking for some time through the 3rd hole before he got up the courage to put his average sized dick through the hole. Mrs Doc was naked except for heels and black thigh highs.She moved over toward his dick and as she got close to it she said, "Im glad you finally decided to join the party". As she touched his dick to adjust the angle so she could put it in her mouth he started to cum and cum. ALL she did was touch his shaft, no stroke, no lick, just touch. We thought later that maybe, as she leaned towards him, her hair tickled across his dick but we're not sure. Just before he pulled away, she leaned in, put a gentle kiss on the top of the head and said, "come back when you recharge this thing honey". When we talk about that night even today, we always refer to him as Quickdraw. We have had so many unique and fun experiences in this hobby that we think that once our sex drive finally dribbles down, we'll have stories enough to keep an entire wing in the nursing home entertained.

Nearly 40 years and still waiting to get bored.

Check my recent post. While I was in a woman friend recently, another man asked if we wanted to do a DVP. I shot immediately. Too hot.

Just got one for Christmas I'll fill you in a couple days from now when we have some alone time to use it.

We were at a very large party (100+) people Christmas eve. We knew everyone there. A family friend was there who we both have been attracted to for years. We were talking off in the corner on the dark balcony, and the wife and her started talking about sex topics, finally my wife told her they should kiss, they had lightly kissed in the past and my wife has felt her breasts, well they did, it was quite a makeout session. Not sure if anyone saw them. Two women kissing it such a turn on for me. I couldn't get to sleep thinking about the kisses, so I had to have sex with my wife. Wife and I talked about it, there maybe more to come. It was a great Christmas.

Arranging something like this without the wife's foreknowledge is a recipe for disaster. Rethink your approach.

A million times this. I would be very upset if my husband did something like this. It is about trust.

When we first started there was some expectation on my wife's part that I be completely in tune with what was going on with her at all times. She needed that security. The first time we swapped I ended up apologizing to the other couple because I knew I had not been as attentive to my swap partner as I could/should have been. However, I found that I really enjoyed watching/listening to my wife even more than I anticipated. In fact I told her that night that watching her was better than any porn I have ever seen. I still feel that way but because she is more relaxed I don't feel the pressure to be 100% in tune with her 100% of the time. That allows me to enjoy even more. Now I can process and enjoy what's going on with her peripherally while giving my swap partner the attention she deserves and receive it as well. Less tunnel vision I guess you'd say. We can be physically separated but in close proximity for soft swap activities so that we can watch each other(it turns us on) but when the condoms come out I'll get myself into position where we are close enough to touch and if the positioning allows it, to have eye contact.

I also loved watching my wife as she engaged with a man. She wasn't bi, so there wasn't any point in an FMF threesome, or me sitting out while the other three had fun. I did enjoy being with the other wife when we had a foursome. As a result we sometimes had foursomes or moresomes, and my wife and I had MFM threesomes where I would watch for awhile and then join in or not at my and her option. It worked for us.

Pick a motion, a theme, a rhythm & stick with it for a while. Contantly changing the approach and tempo disrupts the vibe.

Hi, we are an Asian interracial couple..husband white Canadian, wife Japanese. We are curious about other Asian interracial couples' experiences with swinging in North America and in Asia, not only Japan, particularly those of couples whose wife wasn't raised in North America. Although people will differ in background and upbringing,and thus people's feelings will differ, we'd like to know what you went through in discussing the subject (perhaps it was the same as couples from the same culture), how the wife felt, and if you know of any forums/sites/blogs/pic exchanges/real swinger pic sites that could assist in this foray of ours. We are in our 40s, so would particularly value the experience and views of those close to our age, but of course, insight from all are welcome and appreciated. We are members of Swingasia, but it doesn't have a forum section, unfortunately. Thanks for your help.

If she is having both holes penetrated at the same time, regardless to what is actually doing the penetration, in our book it counts.

Just that we are in a place where we are doing this...I'm perfectly fine with that! If I COULD change something, it would not just be for swinging, although it would help with swinging (and it's already been mentioned). It's honesty...if only EVERYONE could feel comfortable with talking honestly to their SO, friends, and family the entire world would be a better place. If women and men could talk honestly, there would probably be more swingers in the world since they wouldn't have to keep wanting to keep this a secret from each other.

That people were more honest with their likes and dislikes.

Fewer flakes. If you say you are going to meet at a certain place at a certain time, don't be flaking out.

I was surprised one time when I seemed to be poking something inside her with the head of my penis. I don't consider myself to have porn star cock. It was just one of those things. I learned from many experiences that women come in all shapes and sizes down there just like us guys. In my experiences, in general, small skinny women had the loosest vaginas and the heavier "BBW's" had the tightest vaginas. ? It was only that one experience that I seemed to be "bottoming out".

I had a hysterectomy at age 30 (I'm 31 now). There was a problem with my cuff (translation: The new 'end' of the vagina they make since they took the cervix that used to be the end) and they had to repair it by cutting it open and sewing it back together. This made my vagina shorter. My husband is a good size man (7-8 inch) and sometimes sex can be painful. Normally, when a women becomes aroused the vagina lengthens as the cervix pulls back. So while not aroused a doc can easily stick his 3 inch finger in and feel the cervix, but while aroused, he would need something much longer to get to the back. (Of course, this is USUALLY, some women can be different). Well my cervix isn't there anymore, just a stitched wall that hurts when he hits it, so we have had to find somethings that help. Being well lubricated and aroused is the most important. Even with a 'fixed' ending, my vagina will still expand a bit. When he first puts it in, we find it helps a lot to hold still and not move while I 'adjust' to him. I feel like a virgin again and it can be annoying stopping for a sec every time, but it helps stretch it so much it's worth it for both of us. The longer we have sex the better. Meaning that the first 5 min it is tighter/more shallow, then it gets deeper and looser (hate that term but it's the truth) as we go. So while we might start in missionary to allow a more shallow penetration, after we get going for awhile we can then move into doggy without pain as I stretch out. I hate that it's more shallow now. Like I used to pull him towards me wanting more and now I catch myself pushing against him so he don't hit too hard or deep. I miss the no holds bared type of sex we used to have, and I bet hubby misses it too If anyone has any other suggestions, I too would love to hear them! This has been a one of the factors in our play too because I am scared it will be a issue if we bring in another guy. Do I explain it first? How the heck can I explain all that and talk about my hysterectomy without turning him off? Do I just throw out that I have a shallow vag and leave it at that?