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Found this kinda by accident, now we can't stop talking about it. We were at a large swingers event flirting and dancing with many different couples with no real sights on one particular. Then my wife sort of magnetically connected with a guy. It could instantly see the attraction by them both. We started talking as they were with a large group. They invited us back to their room and said it was an after hours party. We showed up and there was a good 20 people there. All clothed at the time. Things progressed quickly and people started undressing and playing all around us. This was not our normal scene but here we are. The guy my wife had connected with had came over and started kissing here. He started to undress her as I kinda sat back in a chair and watched. I now started to undress as my intention was to join in. He ate her pussy thru her panties. Then he pulled them off and got on top of here. I was just sitting in the chair alone watching this unfold. I couldn't believe this was really happening. I was right behind them and could see it all. He slid inside her and began to fuck her really fast and hard. I was literally just kinda playing with my dick in preparation of my turn. After a few minutes of him fucking her I could feel that she had fully checked out and was completely engaged in her moment. It was a surprising experience as we never lost track of one another ever before. I was so turned on that my presence wasn't aknowlege by her or him. Her eyes were locked on his as he pounded her. She spread her legs wider than she would when I fuck her. To me it showed that she wanted him deeper and it really turned me on. Next thing I know, I cum. I wasn't really jacking off but lightly stroking while watching. I couldn't believe that it was so intense that I just came. He fucked here for several minutes and she would say to him that she wanted him to cum as she stared in his eyes. This was the most erotic, intense thing we have ever done to date. We didn't plan it or seek it out. It just happened...perfectly. now we can't wait to try it again. We literally talk about it every time we have sex.

When we first started there was some expectation on my wife's part that I be completely in tune with what was going on with her at all times. She needed that security. The first time we swapped I ended up apologizing to the other couple because I knew I had not been as attentive to my swap partner as I could/should have been. However, I found that I really enjoyed watching/listening to my wife even more than I anticipated. In fact I told her that night that watching her was better than any porn I have ever seen. I still feel that way but because she is more relaxed I don't feel the pressure to be 100% in tune with her 100% of the time. That allows me to enjoy even more. Now I can process and enjoy what's going on with her peripherally while giving my swap partner the attention she deserves and receive it as well. Less tunnel vision I guess you'd say. We can be physically separated but in close proximity for soft swap activities so that we can watch each other(it turns us on) but when the condoms come out I'll get myself into position where we are close enough to touch and if the positioning allows it, to have eye contact.

I am married but my wife wants no part of this. As a single Male how likely is it to find a couple or a single female wanting to be with me?

We have been swinging for 4 years and love it. I have found it's always been more about me watching than doing. When we go out I would rather watch my wife with a couple (m or f) or solo with a m or f. I also enjoy her sexting and sending pics to others. We have found success and happiness with his all because of communication- both between us and when meeting others. I hate the term 'cuck' because I'm not into humiliation. Anyone else like me?

You may find this hard to believe OP but most swinging couples are HUGE believers in marital fidelity. We may boink other people but we do so with the full knowledge and consent of our partners. Unless your wife is fully on board, you're just a cheater and will have even less of a chance than the thousands of genuinely single males out there who think swinging is the secret to getting laid with no strings attached.

That everyone could be open about it without having to worry about your job, the kids school, etc.

Seeing that you are a new member, I welcome you to Swingersboard. Short answer to your question: not likely but not impossible. Has your wife given you a permission to go out and find extracurricular fun? Some couples and many women are willing to hook-up with a guy it it is known that he has a permission. Post Script: Although it does no fit into the conventional definition of swing and the activity you contemplate might not have a name, I am aware that people do it.

Light up nipple clamps??? That's now on my list for her birthday in March!

I also enjoy just watching when my wife's male friend is over. Iv'e tried the MFM thing, and just don't like being so close to the other, guy, so I'd rather just watch her having fun.

I have found myself thinking I need to apologize to another couple as well! Honestly it is fun to swap, but we are moving more towards single guys or a couple just looking for a woman to join them. Regardless the only agreement is I get to watch. And when you discuss the rules and expectations it avoids issues and things can really work out!

There's no reason that you can't do both and enjoy both. That's what I like and it's sensory overload, in a good way. Watching my wife banging another man and being in another pussy either at the same time or afterwards is heaven.

Absolutely! I always had the fear that I wasn't being fair to the other wife because I was enjoying watching my wife and the other husband so much. And, when we were cybering with others, I loved it when my wife was enjoying herself with the other men. Cuckolding is when the husband is being humiliated. Enjoying watching your wife having pleasure with other men isn't cuckolding at all!

Fewer flakes. If you say you are going to meet at a certain place at a certain time, don't be flaking out.

Or perhaps, they are their own personal fluffer. Like Digginit said, in the pornos if the guy isn't ready, all the time, he's out of a job. Some guy see this whole LS as a real live porno and can't, or won't, separate real life from fantasy. They do what they see in the movies, thinking it's cool, or hot, depending on thought process.