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Hi all , I just wanted to update you . We have parted ways after his comment : ‘I'm a swinger. I want a partner that is or no partner at all’

I was with my gf and with other guy. The sound of the other guy beginning and increasing his movements. She looked at me and said: OMG . I was not able to control it

Don't know about Airbnb in FL, but here are a couple thoughts. We have spent a couple nights at the Rooftop Resort in Hollywood FL. This is a little swingers hotel a couple blocks from the beach. There is a clothing-optional rooftop heated pool, and they have a nightclub on the second floor along with some playrooms. This is just several miles north of Haulover beach, one of the nicer nude beaches in the U.S. We have also got to Caliente, a nudist resort in Land O'Lakes FL. This winter, we are spending a couple days at Paradise Lakes Resort in Lutz FL. All these places have good and bad reviews, but are worth checking out. On a slightly different subject, we rented a VRBO place in Arizona a couple years ago that had a pool and hot tub. When the owner was showing us around, I made a comment about how private it was and sort of jokingly asked if she ever skinny-dipped. She turned around the sign on the gate which said "Clothing Optional beyond this point". After dinner, my wife and I were sitting in the hot tub naked with her and her naked boyfriend. Although they were not in the lifestyle, we had a wonderful time hanging out and drinking wine with them.

Sorry to tell you this, but those cruises in the Carribean won't give you enough time on land to play. If you want to play on such cruises is to find someone to play with while you are on the boat. So why not take a nude cruise or a swingers cruise.

I just had one of my fantasies fullfilled. A gang bang with 6 guys. I'm still a little tired but it was wonderful.

I don't really spend much time on sites anymore because I have circles of friends that I've developed over the years. SLS is probably your best bet in terms of quantity. You'll just have to meet people to find the right quality for you.

Good for you! Smart girl.

I applied for one of the dinners, included a photo and SLS info. I was accepted but then somehow they didn’t receive my picture and wanted another. My mail history showed clearly the photo had been sent. It didn’t feel right so I passed. What is notable is no one from this board has ever said they went and it was good. The couple in the podcast - did they pay for it or was it comped as publicity? Maybe it depends upon the source.

We almost said No withthe first couple we met. It took us forever to find a couple to play with. They looked way better than anything we expected to meet. The female was a sweetheart and as good looking as the male was he was a total turn-off in personality. Big penis and he knew it. We were more interested in the female and the guy berated her and acted like an asshole. We were totally new to this and didn’t know how to react to him. Linda I would say was a little star struck by his size too. Linda didn’t say no and didn’t have to because he lasted only a few seconds. Best part of the meeting is we are still in touch with her and she isn’t with him anymore

I am now the same as you, enjoying my husband with another woman. The first time was difficult for me, even though I had a boyfriend for two years at that point. And the first several wouldn't let me participate or even watch. Copying from a previous post of mine: Unicorns are out there you just need charm, luck and patience. I snapped when a girlfriend of mine said she thought my husband must be fun in bed and I said "That could be arranged." She took me up on it and I learned to love the jealousy. This first friend didn't let me watch, but we all enjoyed the experiences in our own ways. It ended when she got serious with her boyfriend and couldn't see screwing my husband any longer. But we went out with them as a couple (I don't know if she ever told him) and we remain friends with her and her husband, a different guy (who does know). Both hubby and I enjoyed the way things had gone (and at this point I wanted another "jealousy" fix), so I brought another woman, an acquaintance, more closely into our life. I went to lunch and shopping with her, then introduced her to my husband. We "dated" her together, we took her to dinner, the theater, and on vacations, which we paid for. I left her alone with hubby from time to time to show that I had no problem with them being together. It went nowhere sexually, but the fantasies between hubby and I were breathtaking - for him, me describing her body from the few times that I saw her undressed; for me, the fantasy images of them screwing. We still got together from time-to-time for a few years afterwards with no expectations of sex until she moved away. We repeated the dating pattern with fifteen or so more women, and four took us up on the invitation to have sex with hubby. One other didn't want me present, and I respected that; the other three not only let me watch but either immediately or eventually had a Lesbian relationship with me as well. (My second great sexual awaking). One of the women was Clair, with whom both hubby and I became sexually and romantically involved. Clair joined us along with my boyfriend Red to turn our strange ménage à trois into a poly family (especially when Clair became pregnant and had our first child, with me closely behind). Of all the women that we "dated," none have expressed any regrets or animosity towards us. We were looking for relationships, and found them whether it led to sex or not. We are on good terms with all of the women who we are still in contact with. You have to be generous, kind and enjoy wherever it goes. We spent time and money on women who I befriended, but ultimatley had no interest in having sex with either of us. We created opportunites for her but never, ever pushed or made her feel that she owed us. It was all fun; even the ones who had no sexual interest in us fueled some fantastic fantasies. The woman who you are looking for is out there; be nice and generous. And enjoy interacting with people whether it leads to sex or not.

Being that we met based on a mutual interest we aren't the typical long time couple that stumbled on it or worked their way into it over a multi decade relationship. Our Acts I and II might actually be more interesting than Act III. I've written about it several times so I won't subject you to rehashing it. We knew all along we were headed there so afterwards it was just kind of what we expected. I will say there was a feeling of triumph that we pulled it off and had a good time. Reclamation sex was incredible and happened several times in the week following. Sometimes we replayed what had happened others we just enjoyed being together, just the two of us but still knowing we had that dirty little secret between the two of us. I've always given it a couple of days and then I'll ask if there is anything we need to discuss. Aside from clarifying and adjusting on some very minor issues there really hasn't been anything to be concerned with. I think we see each other as we expected before we started. We are each other's person. Nothing is going to get in the way of that. We enjoy the non-monogamous sex and even though there is flirting and kissing and all the passionate things that go with it we aren't looking to have relationships. My wife made the statement just last week that while we've enjoyed getting to know and playing with the people we have played with, afterwards they feel like a sex toy we tried out more than anything. The memories of the experiences seem to stay pretty in focus but the memories of the actual people, their personalities, likes, looks all seem to fade pretty quickly. I know that sounds kind of cold or harsh but I think that's how we keep this little secret part of our life separate from our everyday lives. We keep going back because it's fun and exciting.

We are lifetime members on SLS and have had several offers for certs, but we always decline...it's nobody else's business who we choose to play with. Don't assume that because someone doesn't have certs, they are not legit (unless they are free members).

For me, it was back in my college days. My roommate's girlfriend caught me watching them have sex. When she confronted me in private the next morning, she asked me if I liked what I saw? I blushed and said most definitely and began commenting upon my male roommate by mistake. She began talking about how large he was (and he was) and her fantasy of two guys and all three of us playing with each other. It was over for me right then and there. Haha. Eventually we all played together and it was my first time touching a guy as well. The gateway to amazing exploration.

There are some incredible hotels along A1A in South Florida. The "W" comes to mind. Haulover beach is a few minutes away and Trapeze is a 20 minute Uber ride. You can have naked days on a white beach and in warm blue water, playful swinging nights at an upscale club thats open Wed-Sun while sleeping in the lap of luxury. Flights to FLL or MIA are generally cheaper than Mexico. With the recent safety and security problems in Mexico and the usual crime concerns in Jamaica, South Florida seems a viable option.

Gotta love those Jersey Girls!! So many good memories from summers "down the shore". Lesson learned very early….do NOT piss off a Jersey Girl. They tend to get mad AND get even! Mrs Doc, who is from Eastern Pa but acts like a Jersey Girl sometimes, has said no quite vehemently to an unknown male who abruptly fondled her without permission at a swingers event. I pity the fool who would attempt that at a vanilla function. She has said no to the husband of a couple who spent an entire dinner at an upscale steakhouse talking about himself. And she's said no to a perfectly good looking man with a very hot and willing wife saying to me later, "honey, his breath was AWFUL". When I said she could have suggested a breath mint or gum (thinking about the hot and willing wife) her reply was, "a gargle with clorox wouldn't have helped". These are all legitimate reasons. I've also heard: "are you kidding? he's only 4'6". "aren't peoples eyes supposed to be the same color"? "I didn't shave for THIS" She displays some serious Philly attytood on occasion which is in part why I enjoy the hell out of her! Then, just when I have her all figured out, I'll hear, "what were you THINKING"?

ONLY a 1st timer should need that sign!

I did the same to my wife before, used both peeled & unpeeled plus fucked her with the banana inside her pussy. Love it.

My first boyfriend that rimmed me was the one who convinced me that Open sexual sharing with the tongue and anus is very natural. Many mammals do it besides human. We just live in a society that thinks there are 'rules' that apply. Now I love to rim guys, gals and couples along with my husband who has a tongue that drives us crazy. It is an erotic act that needs to be done right, meaning that the areas between the legs are first slowly licked and sucked, then I like to push the legs back into the air, and run my tongue along both thighs, then into the small rosebud of our lovers. It does comfort some if done in the shower or in the pool...

All I can say if you ever do get the privilege of meeting Joanna Jet you will find she is a super nice person. Absolutely gorgeous perfect 5'4" blonde (usually), just has a 7"+ cock too. And if you ever get as lucky as I was back then to have sex with her you will never ever forget it the rest of you life!!! Absolute best sex I have ever had - and we did everything possible. It was a life changing experience for me.

It has been awhile since our introduction here. After our first experience with a couple this past summer, we met with them two more times and enjoyed swapping partners. That experience triggered a previously unknown sexual desire for the wife. She opened a profile on a dating site and we agreed that she can meet with guys with my prior approval. Since then she has been with 6 different guys and with two of them multiple times. She surprises me with pictures and videos from her encounters and that excites me a lot. We have great sex when she gets home from her adventures and I love to enter her knowing that she recently been penetrated by another guy.This is just an update of where we are now. The forum provided us with great insight into the lifestyle.

Way to go! Do keep us updated!

We just put everything in a couple drawers in the night stand next to the bed. Nothing too special really.

This is the female half and I say it would be so hot to watch my man do that. I just do not see that happening anytime soon. I will be there for him when he does. We were just on a trip and while at one party there was a large group of gay/bi men playing and that was hot as hell. I could have stayed and watched all night... but I needed some attention for myself.

My ex-wife use to really get off watching me suck another guys dick but would have ran out of the room had he and I gone any farther. I've often wanted to fuck another guy while his wife or mine watched but not so sure I'd allow anyone to fuck me. My current wife, while still holding out from the swinging scene, has said she'd get off watching me blow another guy but it has yet to happen.

We are both bi and it's a huge turn-on for me to see him suck a dick or get taken from behind. He was bi before I met him and I think it's great that he can be himself.