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Husband here. We have been reading the forums and talking a lot for months now (she brought it up, and it didn't take me long to get on board). Our first experience was soft swap with wives only and us playing with out respective wives.It was fun but a bit awkward, both husbands wanted to be with the other woman but neither wanted their wife to play with the other man, it felt rushed, because it was. I had performance issues after a while and we called it a night. We talked about likes and dislikes and everything under the sun. 2 weeks ago she and I sign up for four different sites and both share accounts, hoping for a good chance of getting a real couple to at least talk to us, "new couple, looking for FWB, come hang at our place" etc. We had a connection with a couple about an hour and a half away, they were going to come down and we were going to hang out, see if we connect etc. Things came up, they didn't show (not much of a surprise for an online connection from what I read here)and wife becomes discouraged. Then the very next morning, a couple we have had limited conversation with for a couple weeks, just a couple miles away, says they are free to come over that night. We agree with the stipulation that we want to get to know them, be comfortable. Not being experienced, we felt this prudent. Soft swap was our limit with the possibility of more, she had a no kissing rule, but dropped that the week before, saying it would be hot to see me kiss another woman the way I kiss her. They show up, it feels awkward at first then everything clicks. They stop us and tell us they are very experienced, they will hold back anything not wanted, they want us to be comfortable. We talk for a few more min then go back to some touching. I was a little nervous because I hadn't dated/flirted/whatever in 14 years, meanwhile he already has his hand up her leg (I'm not complaining, I even liked it, just nervous with the other wife) I suggest we retire to the bedroom and we do. Clothes disappear. The other wife calls dibs on tasting my wife and tells me I should be doing something to her, so I do. We fairly quickly move to a full swap, with my permission and yearning to see my wife squirm more with the husband (we made sure both the wives enjoyed themselves). All on the same bed, everyone had a blast. I didn't realize how erotic it would be to see my wife getting off from someone else while I was with that other persons wife. Oh yeah, the first orgasm was simultaneous, my wife and his wife, both gripping each others arms and torsos, so so hot. The next day they drop by for, I don't remember what, and we end up in the bedroom again (this was literally an hour ago) we had adjusted our boundaries and likes/dislikes and told them, they obliged and we had even more fun than yesterday. Oh yes, afterward we talked and made love and couldn't get enough of each other. Thanks for all the posts here. I wouldn't have been able to do it comfortably without them, and now can't wait to do it again!

The swinger community is small. You cannot tick off a large number of people without repercussions. We asked to attend a house party recently. The hosts politely said that the party is for those who are 25-45. We would not be comfortable there anyway as we are quite a bit older. They were direct and frank and it's their party, they can invite whoever they like. But the George group lets you sign up and , for us, never said anything. We want to make other plans if not invited. Just weaselly behavior.

Matches my observations.

I am a 47 year old female. For years, I too have had fantasies about watching my husband with another female. I’m also very bi-curious. I’m most interested in the aspect of giving pleasure, more than receiving, and would love to be a “third” person involved, enabling my husband and the other female enjoy themselves. I discovered the term cuckquean a few months ago and was (at first) so excited to find that there were others like me! (As well as a name for it) If you attempt internet research, there isn’t much information out there for a female cuck. Unfortunately, most of what I’ve found involves humiliation - and that’s not anything I’m interested in. On this site, someone recently advised me to look up stag/vixen rather than cuckquean. Stag/vixen doesn’t include humiliation. I continue to struggle to find much information on the topic. There’s so much more “out there” about men who enjoy voyeurism with their spouse than women who do. I’m glad you posted...it makes me feel less alone or unusual when I read about other women who have the same desires! *Side note: my husband and I haven’t had a “swinging” experience yet. After almost 18 years together, I opened up to him about six months ago about my fantasies. We’re planning our first trip to a club sometime in the Spring. I have such nervous butterflies!

Last friday night, my girlfriend Paula and I had sex with another couple! WOOHOO! Now, that might not be a big deal to most of you guys, but it is to me. I was in a very openly sexy triad with two women for 20 years, until one wife left us five years ago and my other wife passed away 18 months later. Since November of 2015, I have been a relationship with a lovely, sexy lady who was vanilla but very swing-curious. I decided early on that I was not going to push her into anything. The preceeding four years had been hell on me, and I was not about to screw up a wonderful, lustful relationship by asking for more. Paula liked to talk about other partners a lot, perhaps even a bit fascinated by the idea. We invented group sex fantasies together while having sex, which she found a big turn-on, but I was suspicious that it would remain just talk. Then, last week, Paula got a call from an old friend of hers. He he had been, at various times in her life, both a lover and a platonic friend, but he'd since moved away and married. Paula had previously identified him as someone she might be interested in swinging with. He called to say that he and his wife would be in town for a couple of days, and could we all meet for dinner? We agreed and met at an Italian resturant across town, near their hotel. I was meeting them for the frist time, so Paula took the driver's seat. She brought up my triad past and steered the conversation to things sexual, even reminding her friend about some of their sexual encounters. His wife responded with humor and curiousity, not offense. The wine kept flowing, and the other couple became more open about sharing their own sexual liberality, recounting some tales of same-room sex and some exhibitionistic encounters. By the time it was time to leave the resturant, Paula said we probably were not in a proper state to drive home, and should get a room at the hotel (even though I really don't drink and had only had one glass of wine!). "That is," she went on to say, "if you think separate rooms would be best." The guy immediately looked at his wife eagerly, and she agreed. Following them to the hotel, Paula couldn't shut up. She was so excited, she took off her hose and panties in the car. Once we got to the room, the guy's wife immediately started taking her blouse off. From there on, there was no awkwardness, no crossed signals. We were all there to fuck one other and we all knew it. We guys first got blow jobs from our own partners, then at her friend's suggestion, the girls took turns licking each other's pussies. It was Paula's first time! We eventually took turns penetrating both ladies. (Yes, we used condoms with the other guy's girl.) We didn't end up staying overnight. About midnight, Paula and I decided to head for home. Paula thought it was about the hottest thing she's ever done and says she wants to find a way to do it again. A day or two later she asked me, "Are you really not jealous about me wanting another guy's cock?" I said it truly didn't bother me in the least. She said that was incredibly freeing, and that I might have created a sex monster. I can only hope, right?

Ranker: The Most Common Jobs in America You kind of have to do some math because they have some occupations separated out like teachers falling into 5 categories from preschool to secondary and including aides and assistants but they # close to 6,000,000 and at the top of what I would call professionals.(requiring a professional type degree or specialized training.) RNs, LVN's, assistants, orderlies, home health aides and attendants come in around 5,000,000 as well. Certainly both at the top of the list when combined so it would be expected that there would be a higher overall number from those professions involved in the lifestyle. Accounting professionals including bookkeepers come in around 2,000,000. First responders about 1,000,000.

Good timing! Swinging is wrought with frustration, cool to see things come together for someone. And close!

Then there are those of us who enjoy sex daily. Most times more than once a day. And then live the lifestyle....so that sex and sex play is a recreational sport. I am sure none of us are included in those statistics. It would be interesting to run the same study and age groups of those active in the lifestyle. Curious.

Academics in genetics and medicine.

Your boyfriend's behavior sounds more than a little passive/aggressive and quite manipulative. I think you need to examine your relationship and answer the question "why am I still here"? This isn't a matter of a mis-matched sex drive, it sounds like yours is perfectly normal. He's going to screw other women while you're busy being monogamous and he'll periodically reject you and your sexual needs as a means to exert control. As Dr Laura says, between now and dead, is THIS how you want to live???

Cum-pletely understandable reaction!!!

The first time my wife and her girlfriend played with my cock it was too much for me. I had never had two silky mouths on my vick before so I shot a huge load within 15 seconds

I recently received an email from this George group on SDC. They seemed to be promoting some web hosting site. It had nothing to do with swinging. I inquired about it with the SDC help desk. There is something fugazy about this group. If they want the young and beautiful, fine. Just say so and don’t lead people on and waste their time.

When we were online we got the line "We don't think we're a match" and we used it ourselves. It's disappointing sure but that seems to be the generally accepted line that says there really isn't any interest without having to explain further. I don't know that it ever hurt our feelings. Another reason we like the clubs. All these things get sorted out quickly. You get rejected, you move on. It's like going up to the hottest girl at the dance and asking her if she wants to dance. If she says no you move on to the next one til you find a dance partner. When we meet another couple or even a single guy but don't feel like we are compatible I'll take the lead and say something like "I think we are going to go mingle around the club a bit." We've had it said to us. It's kind of a signal that things aren't going to progress, we're moving on...and that's what we do whether we are the ones rejecting or being rejected. Part of it is learning to manage expectations. We never go out with any expectations that we are going to hook up. We expect to have a good time and we hope to hook up, that's why we go but we've learned not to expect a hookup. That way we don't leave upset if it doesn't happen. The worst is that are disappointed it didn't happen that night. It usually means we'll be making another visit fairly soon. Get back on the horse so to speak.

We went to a Sandals in St Lucia with a swinger couple we had previously met at Desire. It was a truly beautiful facility but its a good thing we BYOBB (bring your own boink buddies) because its was really not swinger friendly. There was no topless or clothing optional area and certainly no play areas other than the individual rooms. On the up side, there are several resorts on the island and they provide shuttles to all of them. That's a plus since what we saw of the island off the resorts did not seem either safe or very inviting. I think Gold is correct, Sandals is marketing hard to a much younger demographic.

If swinging was easy, everyone would do it! We gave up on finding the perfect couple a long time ago recognizing eventually just how hard it is to find four people who share a mutual attraction. We have had dates where we thought everyone was good to go only to be more or less blown off when trying to make a play date. I always assume it's me because Mrs Doc is just so damned attractive that I can't imagine anyone wouldn't want to get naked with her. Whatever the reason, we've come to understand that we are part of THEIR selection process as much as they are subject to ours. If we don't make the cut, we simply accept it and move on with no hard feelings. If we don't click with a couple, we don't go into details as to why, we'll simply say that our calendar is full for several weeks since many swinger couples seem to lose interest without near instant gratification. Or, if we feel it necessary to be more blunt, we'll say, "we're just not a match." One thing we have learned is that it's not easy to reject people who think that as a couple, we're worthy of getting naked with them and sharing sex. Golf is probably an easier hobby!

Had to be the time i took part in a DVP. Girl was in between us as we were laying sideways and he was fucking her from behind as I was kissing her and playing with her clit. Next thing I know his hand grabbed my dick and pulled to his and started pushing both into her once inside sharing the same space I came immediately. Had to be less than thirty seconds.

I applied for one of the dinners, included a photo and SLS info. I was accepted but then somehow they didn’t receive my picture and wanted another. My mail history showed clearly the photo had been sent. It didn’t feel right so I passed. What is notable is no one from this board has ever said they went and it was good. The couple in the podcast - did they pay for it or was it comped as publicity? Maybe it depends upon the source.

Being that we met based on a mutual interest we aren't the typical long time couple that stumbled on it or worked their way into it over a multi decade relationship. Our Acts I and II might actually be more interesting than Act III. I've written about it several times so I won't subject you to rehashing it. We knew all along we were headed there so afterwards it was just kind of what we expected. I will say there was a feeling of triumph that we pulled it off and had a good time. Reclamation sex was incredible and happened several times in the week following. Sometimes we replayed what had happened others we just enjoyed being together, just the two of us but still knowing we had that dirty little secret between the two of us. I've always given it a couple of days and then I'll ask if there is anything we need to discuss. Aside from clarifying and adjusting on some very minor issues there really hasn't been anything to be concerned with. I think we see each other as we expected before we started. We are each other's person. Nothing is going to get in the way of that. We enjoy the non-monogamous sex and even though there is flirting and kissing and all the passionate things that go with it we aren't looking to have relationships. My wife made the statement just last week that while we've enjoyed getting to know and playing with the people we have played with, afterwards they feel like a sex toy we tried out more than anything. The memories of the experiences seem to stay pretty in focus but the memories of the actual people, their personalities, likes, looks all seem to fade pretty quickly. I know that sounds kind of cold or harsh but I think that's how we keep this little secret part of our life separate from our everyday lives. We keep going back because it's fun and exciting.

Don't know George and haven't been able to find Waldo...

Wow, have I really not been on here in two years? Okay-doke then, how about an update? Paula and I are still together...sorta. I'd currently describe it as something between a cuckhold situation and an open relationship. With my encouragement, we began having group sex more frequently. These were usually MFF threesomes with a woman I had known for years, but Paula sometimes invited other men she was attracted to into our bedroom. I was totally cool with that, even though I much prefer having multiple women to play with. There was one particular co-worker, "Edward," that Paula had been interested in for a while. However, due to their work relationship was skittish about propositioning him for sex. With my encouragement, she eventually did, he was receptive, and we had a nice MMF threesome. Soon afterwards, Paula said she had developed real feelings for this guy, which she wanted to explore further. I thought it would be stupid and futile to insist she not. She started seeing him regularly, and soon started staying overnight at his apartment regularly. Since last spring, she has split her time between Edward's place and ours pretty evenly, even though she "officially" lives with me. I thought that eventually she would either choose me or Edward, but she seems to want to continue both relationships. I'm not sure I would choose this arrangement for myself, but I am happy enough not to give her an ultimatum or walk away. I must admit that Paula and I are probably having sex as often as we ever have. Paula explained to me that she finds the idea of shuttling between two men's beds much more erotic and romantic than fucking two men at once. Making love to one of us with the knowledge that she'd just had a tryst with the other that same day (even just a few hours earlier) really triggers her arousal, and it has led her to a heightened appetite for sex. She texts me explicit pictures her with Edward, which is admittedly pretty hot. She goes braless and pantiless fairly often now, which is new. The other day I came home to find her spread-eagle on our bed, still wearing her work clothes, playing with her bare pussy. She said she'd had a noon quickie with Edward and was hungry for more. Seeing her like that, I was happy to oblige. I, of course, am free to have other sex partners, but not having another "regular gal" limits me, because I don't really want to cruise for random partners. I have had a couple of one-night stands, and every once in a while I reconnect with our previous MFF partner (a woman from my old apartment complex that I've slept with on and off for many years), but she dates a lot of guys and she's only interested in hooking up when she's in-between relationships.

Yes, a small one

Gotta love those Jersey Girls!! So many good memories from summers "down the shore". Lesson learned very early….do NOT piss off a Jersey Girl. They tend to get mad AND get even! Mrs Doc, who is from Eastern Pa but acts like a Jersey Girl sometimes, has said no quite vehemently to an unknown male who abruptly fondled her without permission at a swingers event. I pity the fool who would attempt that at a vanilla function. She has said no to the husband of a couple who spent an entire dinner at an upscale steakhouse talking about himself. And she's said no to a perfectly good looking man with a very hot and willing wife saying to me later, "honey, his breath was AWFUL". When I said she could have suggested a breath mint or gum (thinking about the hot and willing wife) her reply was, "a gargle with clorox wouldn't have helped". These are all legitimate reasons. I've also heard: "are you kidding? he's only 4'6". "aren't peoples eyes supposed to be the same color"? "I didn't shave for THIS" She displays some serious Philly attytood on occasion which is in part why I enjoy the hell out of her! Then, just when I have her all figured out, I'll hear, "what were you THINKING"?

For us it's not as much about the language as it is about personality. Those of either gender who come across as God's gift to the other sex and think the world revolves around them and their desires get shut down quickly. I've encountered several women (the husband) in the past at Hedo that fit this description and my wife has encountered more guys like this online than we care to remember. We respect those whom we meet and attempt to engage in conversation and possibly more and demand the same in return.

We had a near identical experience as recounted by njbm: we were told that it was sold out and so on. They seem to have a preferred demographic that does not include the older long term marrieds. Hope it works for those who attend.

We are 61 years old. We signed up for a dinner once and they told us that it was sold out. Then we were the first ones to sign up for another dinner with them on both SDC and SLS. We did not hear from them at all. I emailed them two weeks before the event. They claimed we did not sign up on their website. Based on discussions with other older swingers, it appears they want the beautiful people in their 30s and 40s. We did speak to a couple that did go to one of their dinners. They said it was overpriced, the food was disappointing and none of the attendees connected, exchanged contact info or otherwise progressed. If you are a single male, you’re not getting in. It’s for couples. They should just say that they want young swingers. We meet older swingers who sign up and expect to go, but they are wasting their time. Someone should adopt their concept, have a less restrictive policy and hopefully make money. They blocked me on SDC because I told them and SDC it was rude to let people sign up for their events and just not tell them they are not invited.

Friction parties are also advertised our geographical region. You had better have flawless physical attributes or you will not be allowed in.

When we met, it was casual sex/friends-with-benefits at first. We'd been having coffee dates to chat about life and ended up in bed. She had been dating two men on-and-off who were boring her and in a hurry to find another wife, she wanted to try new things after marrying young and divorcing. I was more experienced and enjoying being single, seeing a few women at that time, and she was kind of scandalized by the idea that sex can be just for fun. She was already pretty stressed out that she'd had sex with two men in the same week, and our conversations were kind of an eye-opener for her in some ways. (I remember inviting her to stop by one night after a second date and she was mildly horrified, but she ended up getting a parking ticket at my apartment. She'd tried to fool around in his car in the restaurant parking lot and he couldn't get it up, she ended up driving straight over and spending the whole night.) Point is, it's not like we went into it with the delusions some vanilla couples have where they pretend nobody else ever happened, and I suspect that was kind of a precursor to being able to move into that without a lot of drama. We had maybe six vanilla years before the subject came up - my idea - then a couple of years of discussing before we went for it. There was definitely some anxiety on her part when the new cock came out, not so much because she'd been monogamous for a long time but more because she'd known him and the woman for a long time and it freaked her out a little. She calmed right down once she got started. I was more anxious beforehand, wondering if it was really going to happen.

Wow, is it quiet on this board this morning. To be expected, I guess, most of us are running around cooking the turkey and getting ready for all the vanilla folk. I hope you have a great day, and remember to thank God, Fate or the deity of your choice for everything you've got. But . . . this is also a special holiday for me. After three years of talking, considering, and screwing around, this weekend is also the anniversary of our entry into the LifeStyle. We were in our early 50's, sex between us was in that blah stage. If we did anything to heighten it, such as going to a bed and breakfast, it would work for a few days then lapse back to yeah-let's-get-it-on-nothing-better-to-do. We had nothing planned for the Thanksgiving weekend, and as we were getting ready to go over to the relatives for the meal, I said to her, "Hey, want to go to a sex club this weekend?" It was said mostly as a joke, but to my surprise she thought for a moment and said, "Yeah, why not." That night after we got home I got on the Internet (very slow at the time, dial-up modem) and found about a couple of swing clubs near us. She got very excited as we talked about it, had a million questions that weren't answered by any FAQ I could find. So early on Friday we called the club we'd selected, it was returned by the owner, he was kind enough to spend at least ten minutes on the phone with us, filling us in. (Thank you, Jim!) We headed for the mall in the Hot Friday shmush, got her a new bra and panty, and a new babydoll. That night we arrived at the club at 8:10, Jim had one of his volunteers take us for a tour of the place, make sure we knew the customs and more importantly the rules. We talked with other couples, watched a girl grind on the dance floor, danced with other people ourselves. Perhaps around 11:00 we got into the hot tub, I remember how excited I was as other men first got a good look at my wife's naked body. We found no one looking to play with us (we found out later it was because we were newbies,) and so we went into a room ourselves and started foreplay. We left the door open, a man came to it, I waved him inside. With our approval, he kissed my wife, felt her tit, exciting us both. I gave her the option to invite him to join us for sex, she declined, wanting our first experience to be a swap. I remember my orgasm was fantastic, all of hers were off the chart. As we drove home, we were so enthusiastic that we made love again that night and a few times the next day. And thus began our long and enjoyable journey into non-monogamy. Happy anniversary to me!

5 years for us. Before I met my wife, I was for a short time part of a poly triad. That helped set the stage for me mentally. I told my wife about this, and she was ...shocked is too strong of a word, but along the way to getting shocked. She said she'd never consider that, and was amazed I'd even tried. She was very black and white about it; it was never going to happen, even if I did suggest it (which, I hadn't...I was just talking about my past). Occasionally it would come up in conversation as our dating, and later married years went on, but it was never serious and was just reflecting on the past. Then, five years and a couple of kids into our marriage, she says something like to me one night; "You know, it would be awesome to have two guys massaging me at the same time" (she loves massages). That was the tip of the snow slide that turned into an avalanche, and resulted in us swinging about six months later. I would have bet a million bucks she would never have wanted that, or even begun to consider it. It's amazing. And no, I didn't talk her into it or anything the like...I would never. We came to it together. Now, she loves it.

I wanted to call out this portion of your post in particular. People who are not swingers do not understand swinging. It's a complete unknown to them and generally incomprehensible. It is almost universally reviled. I would refrain from discussing swinging with anyone who is not a swinger. All you will get is negative. Sure, that means discussing swinging with only swingers, who will only give you positive. Take your pick I guess. A story; there's a woman I know whom I dated many, many years ago. She and I were very close, and almost got married. The love remained, though the relationship itself faltered. She and I are still exceptionally close. My wife knew about her early on, and has always been in the loop about her. She lives quite some distance away now, and from time to time I've gone to visit her alone. My family has visited her as well. Nothing untoward has ever happened. Now, over the last couple of years my friend has been maintaining an on-again-off-again FWB situation with a guy she knows. This guy is married, and is cheating on his wife. He and his wife are living hours apart from each other, but are not separated; they are still together, and notionally husband/wife. Somewhat recently, sparks started to re-emerge between my friend and I. It's always been banter, and light hearted. But, it's there. We both feel it. My wife and I discussed it, and she was quite agreeable to me pursuing a physical relationship with my friend in addition to the love that was already there. So, I approached my friend about it and let her know that we are non-monogamous, and opened the door to having a physical relationship. She rejected it out of hand, with disdain, shock, sorrow. She could not imagine doing that with me, a married man who was playing with permission, but could imagine it (and was doing it) with a married man who didn't have permission. Surprisingly, this is typical. Our society finds cheating spouses to be far, far, far more acceptable than spouses who are playing with permission. Go figure. But, that's informative in regards to discussing swinging with people who are not swingers.

We'd been married around three years. It was unplanned. Now my wife and the other husband did have the hots for each other for a couple of years. He and I met when we were going through the police academy together. We cops didn't have much money so we all took turns hosting parties on weekends. It was cheaper than going out clubbing. At every party my wife and he would dance to most slow dances. His wife and I would joke about throwing cold water on them at times. I left the PD and got into sales and started making good money. One night we had that couple, and another couple, over to watch 'Deep Throat' which I had purchased when it first came out. The other couple left not long after the movie was over. My wife said she was beat and went to bed first. The other husband stayed a bit longer but then said he was beat too. The other wife wanted to stay and drink and party some more so I agreed to give her a ride home later. We were talking about how our spouses wanted each other and the other wife told me that she had let her husband fuck another lady before. I said that, if he and my wife wanted to fuck, I'd be OK with it. We went to her house, woke up her husband, and told him. He went to my house and woke my wife and, well, they did the deed. They called and told us and we went back to my house and the four of us continued. That was our start and there were four other couples after them. It never caused our marriage any problems. My wife got into teaching and decided we should stop. Years later we did dabble a bit more though. I'd still be game if she was but she's just not that interested in sex anymore.

I'm 62 and was wondering about what sex will be like as I get even older. I'm already experiencing some erectile dissatisfaction, not dysfunction. I have been doing some online research and found that despite what the pill companies advertise the majority of men still function into their 80's, just not as firm or quick. I've been reading some books about sex after 50, seems to be the magic number for authors, who seem to think it is better once the men slow down a bit. If we get that word out I'm sure the swinging community will start to pick up on it. 15 years ago as newbies, my wife and I met a guy who said the first party he and his wife attended was almost all 70 and older. The way to find partners isn't the same, but I'm sure they are out there.

Chiccouple, please look at SWFL for retirement. We're hoping to put together a group of 4-5 couples so we can take over a wing of the nursing home so we can all boink our way into heaven. It's a perfect plan, lots of beds, clean sheets daily, food provided, drugs available and medical care in case someone gets overly excited!! You're on the short list!!

In the best of situations, the market for single men is incredibly oversaturated. I would think that as a single male ages his opportunities to score a couple lessens with each passing year. Its a matter of supply and demand and I'd think the guys under 50 would have a better shot with the 45-65 bracket couples.

Yes they are out there, and even though we are under 50, have had some fun with them!

As long as you're breathing, there's a place for you.

Yes, you just have to locate people who want to play with people your age. I am unaware of your location, but you can hit paydirt in Florida, USA. The Villages near Orlando. Paradise Lakes near Tampa. Many in southern Florida. We are 61 and we are the 25 year olds of Florida.

Me and the wife had dabbled a bit and been to a few swingers clubs but mostly kept to each other and observed. Well last sat night had a nice surprise to it. We entered a club and although it was early we noticed that the crowd was a little thin. Not knowing anyone or how things operated we got a few drinks and settled in by the couch area where we mostly talked, kissed a bit and did some light touching. My wife looked hot as hell, decked out in high heels, a mini skit with no panties and a tight top that really showed off her nice breasts. After a few hot rounds of making out and fondling, we decided to check out the rest of the club. The room in the back consisted of several beds and couches, a few guys were getting blow jobs from their ladies and we watched a bit, but weren't quite ready to join in so we went back to the bar area where our night got interesting. We bellied up next to this couple, lets call them Steve and Amy. Amy was very friendly and we said hello, then asked if they frequented the club often. After some small talk I told them we were newbies, but we both had talked about trying our swinging, but that my wife was nervous. Amy took some real mercy on my wife and gave her the low down about the lifestyle and about how everything is ok if you do what you want and how you want in your comfort zone. We took to them right away. Amy went to ask my wife if she was bi-curious. Knowing that she was, she replied yes and Amy went over to her and gave her a hot kiss that instantly got me hard. My wife was shaking from it, but Amy told her to relax and calmed her down rather quickly. We then talked a bit more, and told them we were going to go and hang on the couches again, as I wanted to see how my wife was feeling about what just happened. She seemed okay with it all and we started making out again, she was so wet so I knew that she enjoyed the kiss. After a little longer I asked if she wanted to go play in the back rooms. She agreed and we went and found a couch. After some kissing and fooling around in the back room Amy came around the corner and started watching us go at it. We both caught a glimpse of her in-between kissing and I knew she was going to make a move. My wife looked at me and said we have company. Amy came in front of my wife and smiled at us both then leaned over to give her a kiss. The both of them made out so passionately I though I was going to cum just from watching them. Amy then leaned over and kissed me too. Then she got on her knees and asked my wife's permission to lick her pussy. My wife had no hesitation and she started going down on her. I went to work kissing her and sucking and playing with her tits. My wife was in heaven even prompting Amy to stop and say she is so wet. We both smiled and Amy said she wasn't stopping till my wife came. My wife orgasmed and then Amy stopped and the two of them kissed even more. My cock was now out and throbbing and my wife was stroking me as she kissed Amy. Amy left and went back to the bar area and my wife sucked me till I finished. We went back to the bar after and talked to them more and said our goodbye. We exchanged numbers and they want to meet us again for more intimate dinner and drinks the next time. I'd love to see my wife and Amy go further next time. The only thing is, we don't find her husband Steve attractive, he's a bit overweight and just not our thing. We don't want to judge but I am sure my wife is not looking to get involved with him. I suppose we will just have to tell them how it is and see what they say. I'm hopeful the ladies can play and then us gents can give it our own ladies good for the next time. Swinging is so much fun, can't wait to try it again.

We have hosted several and like them very much as our house also lends itself to the lifestyle. One of the first things I learned though is put slip covers on all you nice furniture. Deb.

We've been hosting parties at our home for 15 years, many times with 12 or more couples. We only invite people that we already know and feel that they will fit in with our style of group play. The parties have always been by invitation only and are never publicly advertised. Guests may recommend someone new as long as they have actually played with them and feel that they would be compatible. So far it has worked out well for us and we prefer house parties to hotel parties.