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Isn't it amazing how freeing sex can be when there is no jealousy?

If you try this out and find it causes serious problems you didn't expect, at least you have your communication. You aren't going in blind. A bad experience would probably have minimal effect on your relationship. Sex carries a lot of weight. Taking that step is huge for a couple. Afterward at home, talking about your night, is where the truth comes out. Many couples decide at that point it isn't for them. Many couples find themselves thinking how many years were wasted before doing this. You just don't know till ya try, but I think you guys are safe to find out.

I have pursued for several years at various house parties one particular married woman. She has always beeen happy to chat with me but has politely deflected any of my invitations for play. Well, this weekend just past, I achieved a breakthrough. During a casual conversation among eight people around a game table, the question of who watches the television series "Nova" came up. This woman of my long-time interest brightens and says, "yes, it was about Einstein and Quantum Entanglement". I replied that I had not seen the TV program but wish that I had seen as I have long been fascinated by the concept of quantum entanglement. My "person of interest number one" seems to loose interest in the game and wants to talk to me about quantum physics. I should pause to give you some background. This person displays in no way the look of a librarian or a stereotypical image of a scientist. She is tall, her body has never suffered the insults of childbirth, and she has the musculature of a classic Greek statue. She ultimately takes me by my hand and leads me to a bedroom. Her stature allows me to experience things I had never before experienced. As we stand facing each other, her small, brown nipples are exactly at the height above the floor for me to put my mouth over either of them without having to crouch down. The location where her two long legs meet at the top means that I can enter her either while standing in front of her or from behind -- I have been able to do this with no other woman. We had great fun. Neither of us had met any other lifestyle people with whom we would have been able to have an intelligent conversation about quantum entanglement. I like to think of our encounter as the Revenge of the Nerds.

Let's keep this in prospective. This is a report by "The Onion".

There's really a first for everything. We've had lots of firsts. First exhibitionism, First contact which involved a guy feeling my wife's breasts. First FF contact. First parallel play, first full swap, first MFM. Each one was a step and while I don't think we had hard and fast rules about what our limit was(We knew we wanted to be able to full swap) we also knew that it would take some time to get comfortable with it all, see how it felt and then adjust accordingly if needed. The first time a guy touched my wife it turned her on to the point she gave me a blowjob while he watched. There was absolutely no way she was going to go any further with someone else that night although several discussions afterward involved the "what if" scenario and it turned her on again but at that time she had reached her own personal boundary. I was fine with that. Along the way we've had other firsts just like that and within a few months we were engaged in our first full swap. Then it was a MFM for her, now she wants to seduce a BBC. I'd say each experience so far has been just right for where we were in our adventure at the time.

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This reminds me about a joke: Why do single guys in the L/S have such a bad reputation (original line was 'lawyers')? Because they earned it.

Wow, what an awesome time! Sounds like the ideal way to meet another couple, become friends, become comfortable and take the steps you did to end up in that swinging situation.

Well, anytime you try something new, it's a leap of faith. You say you have a strong relationship, and you seem to be talking it through together. That's a big key. Assuming you're both on the same page, I'd suggest that you give it a try one time, and see how it goes. The best of luck to you.

OK ... we did and here it is! ? We went to the club -- our first EVER experience in the LS -- this past weekend. It's in what was certainly warehouse space behind a chain furniture store on one of the major roads (Bragg Blvd) in Fayetteville. The street in front is reasonably well lit and there's ample parking in a shopping center lot across the street. (The same person/group owns the warehouse and the shopping center, so it's OK to park there.) The club offers a round-trip shuttle bus from/to about a dozen hotels in the area, which indicates to us that they must get a lot of out-of-towners. Once you step inside, it's easy to forget that it's a converted warehouse. We thought the facilities were nice. There's a good-sized dance floor with a stripper pole; PLENTY of seating for eating/meeting/talking; a small room in the corner of the main area that offers a little more privacy due to the fact that you have to enter through "love beads" hanging from the ceiling; an interesting dungeon where the curtains can be closed OR left open; coolers where you can keep your beer or white wine cold; a bar where the bartender will hold your non-cold drinks for you so you don't have to keep up with them all night; lockers for which they provide the lock and key; and some beds -- also with curtains -- that face the main floor for those couples who might want to get "frisky" around a larger crowd. There was an ample supply of pretty good food and a soft drink dispenser. At midnight, they changed out the corn dogs, chicken & pasta, and meatballs for bacon, scrambled eggs, biscuits, and gravy. There's a DJ booth and he played an interesting mix of music all through the night. Maybe the most interesting thing was the shadowbox ... a room where whoever's in there can be seen from the dance floor only in silhouette/shadow. All kinds of activity went on in there, some involving both sexes and other involving only women. You can see plenty of pics on their Web site (YKW| NC Swinger Clubs | Fayetteville) In the back of the place are the various playrooms. They all have a theme (e.g. Las Vegas, 80s) and some of them have not only a bed but another play area such as a swing, sofa, or love chair so two couples can share the room without having to share the bed. There are also two Sybian rooms; a sex machine room; two rooms with a plexiglass wall between them for watching what goes on; a theater with mattresses where they show XXX movies all night; and gloryhole rooms for both men AND women. (Don't wanna leave the ladies out!) In the middle of all this is a dance platform with another stripper pole, couches to watch whoever's dancing, and another DJ booth. The pole got plenty of action during the night, and it wasn't just from the females! ? Again, you can see pics of all this on the Web site. As for the staff, they were as friendly and courteous as could be. All first-time visitors were given a tour and a glow bracelet and we guess it worked, because most of the times that a staffer passed us, they made sure to ask how we were getting along and if there was anything they could do for us. The owners also made it a point to stop by our table to introduce themselves and welcome us to the club. We were surprised by just how low a percentage of the people who were there actually had sex. There was some dirty dancing, hot kissing, and groping in the public areas, and after about 11:00, the playrooms were occupied constantly without much turnover. We DID see some sexual activity out in the open, but it seemed to us that the majority of the people there came just to party in an uninhibited atmosphere and then take it home. The only negative thing we'd say is that the club should maybe turn down the lights in the back play area to help create a sexier atmosphere. Having said that, we realize they might not be able to do so due to safety issues and/or fire department regulations concerning evacuating the building. Overall, we found the club to be a great place to visit and we can certainly recommend it to anyone in central NC who's looking for their first exposure to the LS. PS We've posted another thread more about our personal experience in the First Swinging Experiences forum.

Looks like it's going to be up to you to take the plunge and bring back a report for the board.

I have enjoyed everything we have done up to now and this is one of my favorite desires. I'd love to be there helping out, up close getting to watch and play. These are things we cannot do without another male so it only makes sense to add one...