I have no membership at AFF so will, regretfully, not be able to view your profile or make recommendations. Although I would not state it as forcefully as padoc, I agree with the sentiment he expressed. AFF is problematic is several ways. My wife and I quit the site several years ago. In general, we believe that racy photos are not needed. If you decide to include racy photos, I advise no close-ups of genitalia (most especially no dick pics).