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I've often wondered why I enjoy a peek at a breast when a gal bends over or a glance at an inner leg high on a thigh is so much sexier than girls at the beach with thong bikinis that show their entire butts. But it's true, at least for me.

We print them on our home printer. Staples sells business cards that you can run through your printer.

Sometimes it's nice to have the last dance with the one you came with. There's that comfortable familiarity finishing with your partner after you've been all worked up by someone else. As I think most guys know, sometimes there is pressure to perform that can be debilitating. Shit gets in your head about performance, condom stress, whatever. Having the flexibility to go back to your own partner, or the understanding that's where it will end up can take the pressure off. Nothing wrong with that.

Yes, they're a 'thing'! Many clubs don't permit mobile phones because of the risk of unwanted photos. Cards are an easy way to make and keep contact with new friends.

I'm a big fan of developing my own sex toys and improvising when possible. Case in point is the wedge pillow. No reason it should cost $100-$200! As an experiment my wife and I order a dozen different wedge pillow from walmart and tested them out. At the end of the day the best one by FAR is the ONLY wedge pillow walmart stocks at all their stores....the Mainstays wedge pillow in the pillow isle. It's $20 around here and I've recommended it to several clients who ended up loving it!

Thanks for the good questions, Lee. I'll try to answer them. I've not questioned my sexuality. I just didn't worry about "his juice." I do remember a time when Laura and I had same-bed swapped with Ron and Linda. Both mixed couples had finished. I was lying on my back, gasping, when Laura, who hadn't climaxed, said, "I need your magic tongue, Darling!" and climbed aboard my face. As she spread her labia and nestled them around my nose, the dam broke. I pushed it aside with my tongue, letting it cascade down my cheeks and set about achieving my goal. Ron took one of her nipples in his mouth and Linda the other. Laura held their heads in her hands and shouted "YEEEEESSSSSSSSSS!" When it was over, I had a sticky beard but was otherwise unchanged. I don't recall ever trying it with Laura and Mr. Playmate in a 69 position. (Not sure how that would work.) We probably liked the couch position enough that we never thought of it. Yes, when we did the fuck/lick thing the first time, I did reinsert Mr. Playmate's penis when the thrusting got enthusiastic and his cock popped out, but I learned that I could keep that from happening with my chin and continue making Laura groan with my tongue. Laura and I tried anal once, early in our relationship, just the two of us, but never again. We decided we didn't care much for it. I couldn't kiss her which lessened the experience. Laura remarked, "Why would a guy want to stick his cock in my dry asshole when there's a hot and wet pussy right next to it?" I never could answer that question.

Somewhere a doctoral student in sociology is choosing this as a dissertation topic. Seriously, in the decade and a half that I’ve been regularly involved in the lifestyle, I’ve been impressed with the wide swath of society that’s been represented among my partners. Anecdotally, I’ve observed that among the people I’ve gotten to know well enough that we revealed the nature of our work lives, the helping professions are over-represented, particularly medicine and nursing. This could well be selection bias on my part and for sure I’m not working with a sample of sufficient size to be statistically valid. And of course, at the end of the day, I’m way more interested in how they fuck than how they make a living.

When I was an undergraduate in the late 1960s one of my roommates and I were walking down a street adjacent to the campus when a couple approached us from the opposite direction. The woman had a loose-fitting dress with big cutouts at the arm and no bra. We got a full view of her side-breast, including nipple. And my roommate walked directly into a parking meter...

For me, it's the unexpectedness of it. I remember one time I was at some friends house with my wife, and the other wife went into the bedroom to change before we went someplace. She walked past the slightly ajar door, I got a glimpse of her in her bra, instant erection!

Love it when it’s very organic. For example last week we met a new couple at a bar. Had a few drinks and clearly there was a spark and we were interested in each other. We paired off and engaged in a long conversation. Body language says a ton. She got close to me and he got very comfortable with my wife. We did a bit of dancing and the hands got busy. We ended up grabbing some carry out and shared a hotel room down the street. As soon as we got in the room clothes came off - just about everything was nonverbal. We knew they wanted us, and we wanted them.

If you have VD, I would hope that you would go to a MD, get diagnosed and receive and take the prescribed medicine.

I loved the article. I have been curious about 3 ways (never tried it). Have your tried or can you recommend the 69 position with rear entry for fucklicking? Is it as good as the technique you described? Also have you had any encounter with "his juice" while licking? Is it a turn on? After thinking about it I think it might. If the "fuckee's" penis pops out have you "manually reinserted" it or do you let her? I think it might be fun to tease her a bit with the tip before pushing it back insider her. The position you enjoy sounds like it would work well for anal too given the added exposure of her lips. Have you tried that too? Thanks again for sharing.

The courage to successfully pull off a good DP or DVP. The insecure ones are the ones where the guy goes soft and the gal dries up. Not a pleasant thing, this is why the 'level' of play is artistic but only right if done without self-doubt. I learned that my wife still likes the occasional gangbang. which I knew already. Dave and Laura

Call me paranoid, but I would not leave a drink unattended and return to them. People put roofies in them.

Our insurance does not pay for it. I buy it from a Canadian pharmacy. Not cheap, but cheaper than US. I have also bought it without a prescription from Mexican pharmacies while on vacation. We play safer with others (condoms) and at my advanced age I find it very helpful. I see other men my age (61) struggle if they do not use ED medication. I am not embarrassed about it. I would be more embarrassed if I could not perform, which happens, but not much with Viagra.

What does open marriage mean to you guys? There are many different degrees to term, so kind of hard to give a good answer without knowing what you have in mind. I do agree that a couple needs to prove to themselves and each other that they can swing together without any issue before taking things even further. I would caution though about having a specific end goal in mind. In swinging, when you start trying to make something happen instead of just going with the flow and letting things develop on their own, that's usually when things don't work out as well as you had hoped.

We met a couple once who gave us a card that read: John and Mary Unique Friendships

Yeah its getting to the point that the hitachi shows up just about every episode in the red room. That thing must have some miles on it by now.

Before taking this, do a quick search and look for the hazards. The main hazard with sarsaparilla is the sketchy manufacturers(the supplement industry is full of crooks). If a trustworthy source is providing the supplement, and your doctor is cool with you taking this, then you should have no issues. The only reason to ask your doctor would be if you are already on a regime of medication and supplements. Sarsaparilla may affect how your body absorbs other meds. A couple links from the center of all knowledge, google: https://www.naturalhealthyconcepts.com/sarsaparilla https://www.healthline.com/health/food-nutrition/sarsaparilla

We were seduced by a couple we had been friends with for a few years. It was no secret that my wife and the other husband had the hots for each other and when his wife mentioned to me that she'd let him be with another woman once, I told her I thought that was cool. She asked if I'd be upset it he was with my wife and I, honestly, told her that I wouldn't if she wanted to. So, his wife and I waited until my wife and her husband had broken the ice and then the four of us had a really fun night together.

I agree with you 100%, but I think the reality of it is that he's not better, just different. What is better for me and my wife is getting multiple partners - more. Variety and in a way, selection; who she wants sex with that fits her needs at a specific time.

Its all about communication. We have both been in this situation where the partner we are with wants to go slow. Two weeks ago, the guy and my wife got started very fast. Although we are all undressed, I wasn’t sure if his wife was ready or willing to dive in with me. I put my arm around her and asked if she wanted to watch for a while. I could tell she was relieved. We sat back and watch our spouses enjoying each other and it was great. As she got turned on, she started to rub my cock and things escalated from there. Always good to just go with the flow and never force things.

Are you enjoying yourself? Is your wife enjoying herself. Are the other couple enjoying it? If the answer to all three questions is yes (and I think it is from what you wrote,) you're doing it right. Don't worry about expectations. Just have fun.

We have a couple of bisexual male partners that like this - he will grab their shaft and swirl their head around mynopening until i’m good and wet. I love guiding his cock into a female partner especially if she is riding him reverse cowgirl. I like to suck his cock and taste her pussy while Intease her with the head. When she’s ready i’ll hold his cock in just the right position so she can slide onto him.

We prefer MMF. She enjoys watching us masturbate first. It's kind of a test for her - she loves a confident guy that doesn't mind sharing such an intimate act. She also has an orgasms when she sees us ejaculate. If he is smaller she enjoys DV or DP. If he is bigger, she lets him penetrate while I watch or get oral from her.

I love DP. But i still Need time to relax... I am still very tight...so it has to be with a lot of lub ... but i love it

it is a very great turn on for my husband to see a man cum in me.

Hey all, I just wanted to update you all. We went ahead and tried it. At first it was awesome, she loved it and so did he. As eddiem said it was SO damn erotic. It happened when we were at a lake party. They were getting a little handsy with each other, so i told them to get a room. A short time after, my buddy comes up to me with a raging hard on asking if I care if he spends some time alone with my wife. I look at her as she smirks and walks past both of us teasing as she walks by. He grabs her butt as they head into the house. I follow in shortly after since she likes when I watch. I sneak into the room as they're making out, his hands slowly trace my wife's curves making his way to the bikini top straps. I feel myself getting harder as the top falls off and his hands touch her breasts. She moans softly as she goes to her knees pulling his suit down with her, revealing his hard cock. She smiles at him as she cups his balls and licks her way up his shaft to the head. I watch his cock disappear into her throat as he thrusts into her mouth. This goes on for a few minutes until he pulls his cock out out of her mouth, grabs her hips, spins her then bends her over and rips off her bottoms. He puts on a condom and teases her clit with his cock. I hear her moan as he slowly splits her pussy lips and enters her, stretching her out. I pull my dick out and start stroking it as he increases speed and thrusts into her. They switch up position and she climbs onto his cock, slowly sliding down his shaft. She quickly climaxes on his cock yellinG his name as she orgasms. She quickly pulls off him, yanks the condom off and goes back to riding him. She rides him faster and faster, until I hear him say to her I'm getting close, oh god I'm getting close, FUUUUUUUCK!!! I watch his balls thrust all his cum deep into her pussy. I then nut massively as i watch her climb off of him. It was absolutely amazing and we've done it a couple of times more since! Best fantasy ever.

You probably should make sure NOTHING is recognizable, especially by anyone who knows you, including backgrounds. So either use a plain background, somewhere completely different, or edit out the background. And never use those photos for anything else - keep them just for this. You would be surprised how some tiny detail in a photo can be recognized and identify you. Also be careful about things like tattoos, unique birthmarks, etc. and cover or blur them out if necessary.

Definitely don't use images from any of your social networking accounts etc, the pictures can be reverse searched on Google and it will bring up your Facebook profile or whichever account the picture is from

I'm not sure how to tell you how to work your way into the act of your wife being "fuck-licked" since that probably varies greatly from wife to wife. If my late wife is an example, I can assure you that you won't have to talk her into it the second time. So, if this is her fantasy, talk to her a lot. Explore ideas. Keep your eyes open for partners. We preferred couples but beware! You will have two women who won't have to be talked into it the second time. After we found that magic couple, Laura and I (and the other couple) found the following description worked best. A couch works better than a bed. Start with the women sitting on the couch with the men kneeling between their legs. Don't get in a hurry. Laura liked to have me start at the bottom of her slit, using my tongue to gently spread the labia sideways, slowing working myself up until the labia was spread widely along the length and above her clit, which would be standing erect and anxious. After the ladies have had enough of this (may take awhile) both of the men should sit on the couch and lean comfortably back while the ladies climb aboard. Laura liked to start out face to face with her chosen fucker. (She liked kissing.) Eventually, the fuckee-lickee would turn around into reverse cowgirl position and reinsert the fucker's penis. Both would spread their legs and the licker would kneel between them. I've never questioned my sexuality so I wasn't put off by working around my friend's penis to (once again) spread the labia away with my tongue until her clit was once again standing firm at the top, easily licked. One challenge to look out for at this stage is that the fucker's cock tends to slip out when the action becomes enthusiastic. This can be avoided by the licker pursing his lips and tongue around the clit while using his chin to hold the fucker's cock in place. The lady who is not "It" can amuse herself by alternately kissing the fucker and the lady who is "It." After a sufficient number of orgasms, which varies with individuals, the other lady can become "It" and the fucker and licker can exchange assignments. One very pleasant variation is for one of the ladies to be the licker. Laura was fond of this as well because, at the proper time, she could help herself to a treat of man-cream. Keep experimenting and report back to this forum.

If you're doing the friendship thing with ulterior motives it is disingenuous at least to her. I'm guessing the other guy would know what you are up to but guys that you find who would be ok with the plan are probably not going to be as patient as you would like or need him to be. My observation is that genuinely good guys get snatched up pretty quickly and aren't single for long. So you court this guy for a few weeks or months, get to know him, become friends and next thing you know he is in some new relationship that he would prefer to pay attention to rather than yours. Why? because he's getting laid with her and not your wife. Now he's out of the picture. Oh, you can find douche bags that will say or do anything to get laid but is that the kind of guy you want to spend a lot of time working on building a "friendship" with? The reality is you're going to have to find a way to talk to her about it. Many couples fantasize about this lifestyle, few actually do it. There's a hurdle you sometimes have to get over. It's that voice inside your head that tells you something isn't right. There's a name for it but I can't for the life of me remember what it is. It's the same voice that tells you that you shouldn't jump out of an airplane, rappel off of a cliff or stick yourself with a hypodermic needle. Lot's of people imagine themselves skydiving but can't take the step in actuality. You have to first find out if this is something she wants to do for real or just keep as a fantasy. If it's real, now you've opened the box and can talk about how she sees that happening and move forward from there. Just be sure not to pressure her. Move at her pace whatever that happens to be. I'm curious as to why clubs are totally off the table. That would be a place where things could happen organically and without too much time to overthink things.

Be careful when dealing with this. We lost a favorite lover because he saw us as to 'porny' when I requested he slow down on the romance (at my wife's request). Had I been more tactful, I may have avoided chasing him off.

DP is still on our bucket list, and this is a great guide to giving it a go and hope to get to put this advice into use some day.

Here I thought I was the only straight guy that had no problem licking-sucking-cleaning off a cock after he fucked my gal in fact it only added to all for everyone playing! & do the gals ever enjoy watching! Guess they like seeing Males doing oral together as much as do 2 Females!

I like tasting a cock. Took a long time and many visits to our club before I felt comfortable. I love to clean a cock after it has his and her cum all over. I also love to suck a hard cock until it delivers that sexy creme. I guess you would say I am bi. I puzzle over that, since I love playing with women more. In a lifestyle party, anything goes.

We have done the same thing that you just talked about. The three of us totally enjoyed it. After he was done filling the wife up full of his and her cum. He then pushed his cock into my mouth and I cleaned his cock all clean. Then the wife sat up and drained all of their juice into my mouth and I licked her all clean and she was ready to go again. She totally loved it and wants to do it again and again. So Yes I (male) do like doing it.

Ok I thought I had seen it all until tonight. I am sitting here going over some profiles and I clicked on this one couple. The 2nd photo in their profile is a picture of the wife sitting on the toilet in what appears to be in the act of doing something. I mean...is that really supposed to make me want to send you an email to see if we can get together! So yea I guess I would have to add this picture into my list of those that turn me off.

Maybe we are different, but we don't post any kind of pic The only time we share is when we start to talk to someone...I know that sounds nuts, but it's just how we are...We don't post anything.

Something similar happened to friends of ours. We were pervin' their sls site when I noticed a picture on the wall behind them. I PMed them and said "hey you know that is the exact same picture that 'so and so' has on their wall". I hope their relationship with the other couple wasn't a huge secret, because if it was they were busted. We joked about it. But like you said, background gives just as much info as your intended subject. Watch out of unusual pieces of art as well as bowls on your microwave.

My biggest Don't Do besides those pics of just a boat, car, pool, spa, tree, bike,...is those that post just pics of other pics! or toys and not the good toys either. I'm talking pics of barbie dolls and such. Yup was approving pics the other day and a guy submitted about 6 pics of barbie! Or the ones that have one pic 20 times on site. We take time to take good pics or at least I think they are good. They are sexy but not nekkid or anything. I don't mind seeing shots like that if they are more than just a crotch shot but we decided to not put any online anymore like those. Although mine are sexy and show a lot!