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Yeah, us too, for the reasons other have listed above. I'll be honest enough to admit there's a limit there though Maybe that's really the answer: it's not that swingers are these totally enlightened nonjudgmental people on any subject under the sun, it's that their limits taken as a whole are just wider, maybe just a little, maybe a lot compared to where most nonswingers are at. Of course, that's adjusted for the sex and monogamy category since otherwise the data would be pretty skewed from the start

We've got probably a half dozen assorted things, and only one gets used regularly and has been the go-to toy for many years - Hitachi Magic Wand. For her, nothing else comes even close.

I am leaning toward I had a tongue bath with viral cells.

We as a couple agree we want to meet new couple's get to know them. Now if we have a good rapport and enjoy spending time with them or doing things like dancing, conversation, karaoke and havingg things in common and and if we are attractive and vice versa I don't want one of us to be not attracted therefore has to be both of us attracted to them and cool with him

Do you listen to podcasts? I highly recommend the "We Gotta Thing" podcast. Kind of a how to about swinging and relationships in general. It has sparked many hours of conversation between me and SO.

You will be able to upload pictures after you have made a certain minimum number of posts. This mechanism was established to encourage people to get into conversations. As other people have already observed, Swingersboard is not designed to be a facility for making hookups. It is the very best place on the World Wide Web for learning about swing. Bisexual people are just as welcome as anybody. There is no place were you will do better.

We tried after just 2 weeks of talking about it. Did just about everything wrong you could do. Our very stable and loving relationship took a hit, this is something she has wanted for a long time and just brought it to my attention. She said it was done, never again, etc. I told her I wanted to try it with her and talked it over. After 6 or 8 weeks of full discussions, what went wrong, how we feel, what we want and expect, what to do, not to do, safe touch, safe words, and so on, we tried again. We have 2 couples we play with regularly, one of them we hang out with as friends now, without playing as well(not everyone's cup of tea, but we enjoy it and the friendship) Everything has gone smooth, and with the help of others here, our communication is excellent (thank you GoldCoCouple for the advice) so when there is a "bump" we bring it up after the experience and adjust our rules and boundaries. Make sure you both know what you are getting into and the first time, at least for us, is not what you expect. Hell, sometimes with our regulars it isn't what we expected, we just make a point to have fun and keep to our rules. Best of luck! Mr. Dazed

I'm not sure about uploading photos but it might be something to do with how long you've been a member. Julie, the sites webmistress, has never approached me about paying and I'm not sure there is a pay account feature here. If you check, I've been here a very long time. I can understand your apprehensions and, yes, there are a lot of scam sites but this one isn't. Oh, and, check out the thread for bisexuals. Welcome, relax and enjoy your visits and feel free to ask anything.

Swinging with friends...just say no.

I agree. It's just that some women take it way too far the other way. Respect your elders. I'm old enough to be your.... brother.

We were with a couple and I went down on his wife. Things seemed very slippery and it took me a while as a newbie to realize that most likely she had had unprotected sex with either her husband or someone. I was pretty sure that the slippery and taste and sex smell was from sperm. It worried me that I could be exposed to STI but nothing happened. Surely if you are at a club you should also condomize with your wife respecting others who might be with her later or might lick her later.

HSV2 of the mouth would be highly unlikely, HSV1 of the mouth is possible, but you are much, much more likely to contract that from kissing. HSV1 transmitted to the receiver's genitalia is possible if the receiver does not already have HSV1 in their nervous system. Oral chlamydia and gonorrhea are possible if the person you are going down on has one of these infections. Someone could have these bacteria in their throat and pass it to the receiver. HIV transmission via oral sex is very rare.

We have been full circle. Started swinging as a couple with couples, then single guys as threesomes, then her doing a guy by herself, then finally her having a boyfriend. Now, I want to go back to the couples and threesomes. I lost interest in her playing alone. It no longer provides a high to me. I don't get jealous either. I need to get back and be part of it so I can see, hear and smell it so to say.

We used to take turns with our long-term playcouples doing all sorts of combinations, one of which was Mrs. Playmate and me watching her husband fuck Mrs. Alura, and vice versa. Laura loved to "play to her audience," a skill that quickly rubbed off onto Mrs. Playmate. I'm not sure I'd say that watching Mrs. Alura get fucked was better than fucking Mrs. Playmate with them watching. Fortunately, we could do both!! Timing is everything.