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I think the percentage of people who genuinely have no interest in casual, promiscuous sex is vanishingly small and can largely be chalked up to hormone imbalances. The number of people who believe they cannot admit to their interest, or who believe they could never "get away with it", is quite large, and I suspect most people who appear to have very boring vanilla sex lives also have quite a few secrets. Sex is a huge psychological outlet. In my single days, it wasn't uncommon to have 3+ women in rotation, all of whom were with other men. Some were honest about it, some weren't. One married woman who was heavily involved in her church would tell me about how she and a mutual friend used to pick up guys at bars and have same-room sex until neighbors called the police. When the mutual friend found out her friend was getting properly fucked at my place, she was texting me as soon as we broke it off, and not only didn't care that I was seeing other women, sometimes the same day, but was turned on by it. After we were done, she moved on to getting regular spit-roasts from two roommates before settling down. They both seemed like very gentle-minded vanilla girls at first glance, and became ordinary, traditional mothers. It wasn't until they felt like they knew I wouldn't judge that they started blurting out bits and pieces of the true stories spouses often don't get told. Point is, everybody can be "slutty". Some people are just honest about it depending on their impulse toward shame and rule-following. Others keep it compartmentalized from their "real" lives. I think it's healthier to own it.

Some times I feel like a slut, sometimes I don't . . .

In my opinion ya did the right thing. I was raised around drugs and alcoholics..so I know there are people that get drunk and blackout, they don't know what they are doing, and usually can't remember the hours before they pass out. If I were in the same situation I'd be nice to her, flirt with her, then get her to where she can sleep...Her room, our guest room, what have you. If she is truly interested..she will still be interested the very next day. If its a cruise/hotel situation...Id probably have my guy help me get her in and leave her a note...letting her know a bit of what happened and how she can reach us..let her know you are interested, but wanted to be sure she is. If she's really interested breakfast and laughs about the previous night are a sure bet and breaks the ice. If she doesnt have a clue/doesn't remember anything..you've shown that you are a decent couple that didnt take advantage of her and got her 'home' safe...which most women will appreciate.

Hmmm. I'm still pretty new around here, I do more reading than posting. But thought I may chime in just a little. I'm much newer to the LS than my guy is. Went to my first club for New Years and had a great time, though we didn't participate this time around. Anyway...I love toys and believe as long as everything is obviously clean then bring it on. I didn't see any at the particular club we went to..not in the public rooms anyway, and we didn't go to the private ones. I think, for me personally, toys wouldn't come out at the club or the first couple of times with new people..toys would be something we worked towards, ya' know? Because I think getting to know the other people involved is helpful before breaking out the add-ons..that persons likes..dislikes...the bodys reaction to certain touches..everyone is different. I'm not opposed to toys, just probably wouldn't be busting out the vibrators and strap-ons the first time I'm naked with someone. But thats just me..-shrugs-

I think its 72 virgins but there's another plus with the sluts…..you don't have to blow up first to get them. Having experienced a few virgins back in high school (what Billy Joel sings about catholic girls isn't exactly true) I don't see what the fuss is all about. Experienced girls were much more fun, the slutty ones even more so. The last house party we attended my wife had 4 different guys and blew 2 others. Recounting it on the way home she laughingly said, "honey, I'm such a slut". My response was, "yep, and I'm SO proud of you"!

I tried it again yesterday during sex. Went MUCH better this time! When she was going down on me I told her how I fantasized about someone fucking her from behind or eating her while she sucked me. That caused her to moan and go a LOT harder, so she liked it.

So far we only had one threesome . We were lucky that we found a total gentleman . They didn’t do full intercourse but he managed to make her squirt ... something I haven’t managed .. it troubled me a little but then realized it was sensory overload for her . It was amazing for me to see her getting so much pleasure and hoping to do more threesomes ..

You seem to be saying 'sluts' like it is a bad thing... Back when terrorism was more of an every day occurrence I used to joke that instead of going to Muslim heaven and getting 98 virgins, I would much rather have 3 or 4 real slutty girls. That way no training was involved.

I climax just about every time a guy cums inside me

Well on a positive yet sexy,steamy note to this forum, a friend of mine that I have known for a very longtime (at the Mrs request) had a 3 sum. At the finish she was being double penetrated for the first time ever and we both cumed in her at the same time. The next day she eagerly wanted to do it again because she said it was one of the best sexual feelings she’s ever had! Using protection is always a good idea!!!! But if you know your partner well enough and she is into it and wants to be cumed in I say go for it!!! P.S- the next day we did 3 sum with her again,this time I watched for a bit before joining. Double penetrating her must have been a sexual fantasy for her as she all but begged for it this time. We again cumed in her at the same time and she loves it. Have had 4 more 3 sums after with same person. Let the woman decide where he finishes it’s good ediquit.

Yes, you did the right thing! It'd be different if you met while everyone was sober, agreed to have sex, then drank. However, on a legal and practical level, no realistic consent could be given/obtained when someone is completely inebriated.

It's great being on the same wavelength as you; we're just a little farther along. Please keep sharing. We now play with several couples in a closed group, so we experience MFMs and MFMFs. We are all concerned about STDs, so we are extremely serious about keeping a closed group. The one thing we have all agreed among the couples and between the spouses is that anyone can call it quits at anytime with question or repercussion; we would remain friends. That we if anyone has had enough, or it bothers him her to be fucking others or see their spouse fucking others, or if they fucked someone outside the group, he or she could stop, no questions asked. We believe the risk is minimal. The risk may actually be less with our closed group than with a nominally "monogamous" couples. Everyone is having enough fun and getting enough sexual variety that there isn't any incentive or enough time to be fucking around elsewhere compared to the bored monogamous couple. Yeah, the FFMs are great too. Women much more easily slide into same sex play than guys do, for the women in our group all of them have gotten there. One at this point is a "pillow queen" (will let the other wives eat her out, but won't go down herself), but the other women love taking care of her. The women also like sucking a sloppy dick after it has orgasmed in one of the other women. All of us love kissing our spouses as he or she orgasms with another partner; that is as about as hot and crazy as it can get.

I do love to see a guy explode and shoot a big load of cum. I must admit though that I love feeling a nice fat cock pulsing and releasing inside me. Its such a turn on to be fucking a guy for the first time and looking into his eyes as he cums inside me. I love grabbing his ass and pulling him in and holding him in me as I climax with him - especially if he has a bigger cock. I almost always cum right after because i'm so turned on. I love knowing that my pussy was so damn hot that he could get off just by fucking me.

This usually starts for us at the bar or on the dance floor and it goes both ways for FFM or MMF. One of us expresses interest in the other and the flirting begins. Once we have made our way into the play space, we offer the other spouse up. For example I might say to him, why don’t you get her started and taste her pussy or give her a taste of that fat cock. She’ll do the same for me if we are with another woman. This makes it clear that we are all in and the game is on.

Take your top off in our pool and you'll get a lot of interest…..from both of us!! Sounds to me like you just need to move on and find a new couple.

I know that it is frustating. I don't care if a person is small or big, I care about their personality, their ways of seeig life and other stuff. Reading this thread, you have the right to be fully confortable. You are a good person. You have to talk to your husband as soon as possible and tell him what you feel