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I'm sure there are plenty of people who discussed this, but I couldn't find anything much on a quick search, so apologies in advance. We went to our first (really second, but first time we went, we left very shortly after). The experience this time was great, but the biggest issue was how excited I got once a couple walked in on us and watched us go at it. We didn't swing that night but just the whole atmosphere and exhibition was such a huge turn on, I finished way too quickly. Luckily, the wife got hers twice beforehand, but as soon as the other couple walked in, I had about a minute before finishing up lol. I really feel like it's natural for something so new, but feel like maybe other people's stories or discussion might help. We were able to take it slowly afterward and get me back up, but still wish my performance matched up with what we normally have at home. Any words from you all?

We talked about swinging for several weeks after a piece appeared on Eyewitness News (KYW-3 at the time) on a swingers club located on South Street in Philadelphia. Kama Sutra was the name of the place and we eventually got there before they were shut down by L&I. I started researching other clubs in Pa because we just wanted to go and maybe watch. We found TJ's near Harrisburg and went the 1st time about 6 weeks after we'd seen that titillating news segment. We watched in awe as attractive woman who looked like our neighbors started losing clothing on the dance floor. We walked through the play areas often but were honestly too intimidated by the openness to actually do more than nod and smile at other couples. We finally found an open private room and boinked our asses off….twice and then again when we got home (at about 4:00 am). We went back the next weekend and then decided to visit a club a little closer to home. Thats when we discovered TPA in Cecil County MD about 40 miles south of home. It was there that we started to meet other couples. Initially our rule was just watch, But as we relaxed a bit, we'd play together in a room with a window that would allow people to watch us. Later on, we'd go into a group room and stay off to one side but that's where the slippery slope started. People would touch us or we'd make contact with a couple next to us. That led to some petting and fondling but we didn't go any further. We met another new couple, 10 years younger than us that we chatted with over several Saturday nights which eventually led to sharing a room with 2 beds, then a room with 1 bed, then some soft swap. After that, it seemed to us that making out and oral was OK with both of us which led us to the Glory Hole room. That's another story, one we posted on this site (Glory Hole Surprise). Anyway, it took at least 6 months before we had more than incidental contact with anybody at the clubs. It was closer to a year before we actually swapped. We talked a lot and discarded rules as we both became comfortable with the idea of the next step and the one after that. It was quite a learning curve but we enjoyed every minute of it and we still talk about some of those early experiences. That happened more than 15 years ago and we're still having fun with this hobby, we're still married and very happy with the choices and decisions we made back then. And we're still getting naked with friends. We'd still be going to clubs regularly but we just HATE the music. I guess that and the gray hair are indications that we're on the upper side of the swingers age curve

Thanks for the unblinking and dispassionate report. There are plenty of authoritative reports highlighting the rapid rise in STIs among older Americans. Risk-management is the first defense. As a physician, I cannot emphasize enough the importance of transparency with your health care team. If you play, be candid with your healthcare professional. We will not judge. Let me repeat, we will not judge. Nor will we gossip, "out" you, or put your marital or work lives at risk. Our sole responsibility is to keep you in the best possible health--including sexual health-- and that requires your full confidence and collaboration.

We ended up skipping on Secrets and spent 9 days at paradise lakes, would couldn't have had a better time. Good bang for the buck, Swinger Friendly, we had no issues finding playmates, we will be planning a return tip in the near future.

Our answer is a bit different. We were born in the early 50's, grew up through the 60's, and so on. Like so many in our generation, we sensed that we didn't resonate well with several prevailing social norms--the prohibition against casual nudity, the prohibition against even mild public displays of affection, many double standards around sexuality, etc. Unlike so many in our generation, we didn't just "go through a rebellious phase" and then align with prevailing norms. Rather, we thought carefully about our values. Our first step into alternative lifestyles was via social nudism. With each successive step, we asked ourselves, "how does this next step fit with our values?" This has proven a durable approach--we are now together for 44+ years.

At the time I was single and unattached, it wasn't exactly a decision that I wanted to swing. In my early twenties, after I broke up with my fiance Red and moved out, I started dating another guy David (who is now my husband). After the second date I was incredibly horny, but he was too much of a gentleman to put any moves on me, so I went back and fucked Red. It was good, easy and so uncomplicated because we had been fucking for years before. The next date with David we ended up in bed and I stayed the night. After I left his place the next day, I got with Red again. I kept Red up-to-date with what was going on and he was ok with it because he still loved me and wanted to keep getting in my pussy:). David figured out what I was up to (turns out he reads me perfectly), and to my amazement he said he was fine with it. So I started it, but David made it possible. Fucking two guys who cared for me at the same time with both of them knowing made me self-confident and left me wanting as much sex as two guys put together. It led to me overcoming my jealousies and after two years letting the guys play with other women, me discoving my Lesbian side and playing with David's lovers, and having sex with three other different guys. Ten years later, Red, David, Lora, Clair and I are in a poly family.

It was a rush intense release of adrenaline i was turned on and left life I was instantly high. I can’t believe so many guys can’t rememebr that amazes me I can play out exactly in my head. It’s the most profound memory I have to this day I was also got a surge of jealousy as her body started quivering and jolting. I had never watch her like that while we had sex and then she started kissing him very passionately. I had a to catch myself and calm myself knowing it was ok they was just enjoying each other and everything was ok. It didn’t take long and I went back to enjoying watching my best friend give my wife the best sex she ever had in her life!!!

Mr. Playmate and I had just filled the other's wife, and rolled off to recover. Mrs. Playmate was gasping for breath as was Mrs. Alura, but for a different reason. Laura placed a knee on each side of my head and said, "I have a steaming pussy full of come, Darling. I need your magic tongue." That told me she hadn't climaxed. Her vagina knew the way to my mouth. Holding the labia apart, she nestled them over my nose, letting loose a flood from within. I managed to sweep most away to run down my cheeks while I concentrated on making Laura yodel. While Laura was peaking, I felt Mrs. Playmate's warm mouth engulf me. Laura was holding Mr. Playmate's rapidly recovering cock, her lips headed for it. She rolled onto her back, pointed her toes at the ceiling and guided Mr. Playmate where she fully expected him to deposit another load. He did. Mrs. Playmate and I found each other again and added to one of my favorite swinging memories. Thanks to the Swingers Board for giving me the opportunity to relive those wonderful times.

thats sooooo damn sexy lol