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The line is where ever you say the line is... if he made her feel uncomfortable, that's over the line. Now, if that line hadn't been clearly communicated, it needs to be now. If it had been, and he crossed it anyway, don't see them again. Above all, your wife (and you) should never worry about being "rude." If something happens that makes either of you uncomfortable, stop immediately and say something. "No" is a short, simple and powerful word. Don't be afraid to use it.

Thank you everyone. I do now see this is a great site for information. I will check around and try to give/get some advice on the site. It's been hard for me to accept my crazy sexuality recently, and it is very comforting know I can talk about it somewhere without judgement!

Tell her how you feel. Listen to how she feels. Don't try to convince her, change her, sway her or trick her. Just be honest and listen honestly. Go from there.

We have done both … my wife prefers separate rooms while I really don't care but I find it a real turn on watching her getting pounded by another guy.

Confidence is an issue, because it spills over to appearance and voice and especially openness. Observations at house parties suggests that this can be an issue for one or both members of a couple. Body language, dress, eye contact, if and how you touch your spouse, how you are conversing with each other--all of this sends signals. You do not need to be in an LS environment to see these behaviors. Watch for it in a restaurant, at a cocktail party, and so on. People send all sorts of messages about approachability. Now, you can still be rebuffed--that happens to everyone, us included. But you have to project openness and you have to have confidence in whatever opening gambits you choose, e.g. "Hi! We're Alice and Bob. Those shoes are stunning with that outfit--where did you get them?" Or whatever.

if you are comfy with him then yes... trust me it is the most erotic experience of your life watching another man tense up and cum inside your wife. I can only say... emotional roller coaster.

Thanks for the unblinking and dispassionate report. There are plenty of authoritative reports highlighting the rapid rise in STIs among older Americans. Risk-management is the first defense. As a physician, I cannot emphasize enough the importance of transparency with your health care team. If you play, be candid with your healthcare professional. We will not judge. Let me repeat, we will not judge. Nor will we gossip, "out" you, or put your marital or work lives at risk. Our sole responsibility is to keep you in the best possible health--including sexual health-- and that requires your full confidence and collaboration.

It is a big boat and a lot of us have been in it. I've often said, "I don't want to cheat on my wife, I want to cheat with her". But swinging, in whatever form, is something a person can't be forced, coerced, or manipulated into enjoying. You either do, or for whatever reasons, you don't. My wife did, no matter what she might say now, enjoy our times with other folks. But now she's convinced herself that she didn't and there's nothing I can say that it going to change her mind. Like you, I don't want to end an, otherwise, good marriage of 47 years for my own desires. The one thing you might do, that I have done, is to convince her that you would be more than fine with her letting go with another man, if she met someone she just couldn't resist. Keep her aware that you feel that way. And, with the remote hope that someday, somehow, someone, will get her back into the lifestyle you enjoy and miss, might keep you going. And, every time you catch her eyeing some hunk you both see in public, remind her that she might good have him. Just remember, 'hope springs eternal'! Welcome to the SwingersBoard, and good luck to you!

I get a huge rush when my friends ejaculate inside her. I know that she loves it as well knowing that she has brought them to a full climax.

It would be a great visual if you could get a view of his throbbing cock delivering it's load. His cock would have to partially withdrawn though.

No, I will not let anyone come in me, unless we are in a relationship and tested. I like cum in me, but that is a sacrifice. So after every fuck, my husband comes in me, but I am not satisfied without cum in me.

I should let him doing it. If he is health is ok and both of you want that why not? Its amazing watching our gf having pleasure

This is a cool idea at home. Separate beds in a hotel room works out, too: you can often get two queen-size beds for the same price as a king. Being physically separated but still able to see is exciting.